I am a pisces man magnet.... ?

Hi all....

I am a capricorn woman with a pisces moon sign. (This is such an odd combo...). I was at my sisters wedding recently and I was the maid of honour. I sorta hooked up with the best man (hahahaha... how cliche...). I was kinda reluctant at first because of several reasons... he's 35 year old lawyer (I am only 24!) and he's got quite a bit of baggage. Like, his last marriage was annulled because his ex-wife was in love with her boss (eep!) and since then, he's been apparently dating crazy women. In fact, he's supposed to be seeing someone else right now! When we hooked up, I mentioned the woman a couple of times and he said he's probably not going to be her much longer because she is this crazy, desperate woman who's STILL married but recently seperated! (can you say baggage—)

Well, anyways, it was kind of a spur of the moment and I basically stayed over at his place. He started asking me wierd questions, like whether what we were doing was in any way me wanting to hurt my sister and my brother-in-law (this guy is my brother-in-law's best friend) and I was shocked because they are the most important people in my life and i would NEVER want to do such a thing! And then, I had to leave in the middle of the night because I had work to do before work the next day, and he started asking me if I had to leave because I had someone to go home to or I was going to look for someone else!!! Wierd... but he said that I definitely blew his mind away and he had a TOTALLY different pre-conception of me. Then we managed to talk about horoscopes and I found out he's a pisces man (ANOTHER ONE!!!!)and it started to explain alot of things....! Anyways, I left that night and went home

The next day, he calls me to talk and we said we wouldn't tell my sister and brother-in-law... just because we don't know what their reaction would be. But he says that we should have lunch sometime and he'll talk to me soon. Then I met up with my brother-in-law and sister later who started to interrogate me about what I thought about the best man!!!! I was kinda speechless and didn't give anything away.. but I found it odd that they would ask! So I called him (the pisces guy) the next day and told him what happened.. and we both found it odd. So being me, and being a person who hates games, I told him, "Look, I am a very honest person, and I hate playing games. So I will say this now, and say that if you are interested in seeing me again, I would like to see you again. If not, just let me know, because it's okay. I just like things concrete" So he then he asked me out to lunch for next week Friday. I know he's a big time lawyer and really busy (he said hes got a packed schedule) but i wasn';t keen on the fact that we're meeting up so much later!!!!!!

Anyways, I am kinda clueless as to how to play this again... once again, I am dealing with a fish. I am playing it aloof right now.. and just say "que sera sera". any advice on how to deal with the fishy at the lunch thing? ( I am not sure if it's a date even...... it's .... lunch?)

Hey Savagetai,

It's a DATE.
Seems like you have this pisces magnet thing going,Cool! 🙂

IMO play aloof and mysterious...most of the time wait for him to come to you...never make him feel restricted, be understanding,turn on that cappy sense of humor and ...
I don't think he stands a chance.

Good luck!

What the hell?

*Struggles in attracting force.

What's going on?

*Grabs the leg of the bed. But it useless. Bed starts to drift.

HELP!! HELP!! SOMEBODY!!! ARHHH!

LOL! I got Haffo by the leg. Thanks Melusine.. I guess it is a date.... *blush*

Play aloof... mannnnnnnnnn..... why am I dealing with a Pisces man again— LoL

Are there any other thoughts from Pisceans out there?
🙂

Well I guess we like fish people like you. LOL!

Which leg?

LOL at which leg... haha!

Well, I'd like to captivate this fishy at the lunch thing... what do you suggest apart from looking hot? 🙂

LoL, it sounds like you're the one that's being magnetized.

Hahah... yeah i admit.. I do get sucked in Pisces men alot.. DAMNNNNN.... must be my cappy sign and my pisces moon sign!!!!

Savagetai

People do think that we are worthless piece of sh!t on this planet. But the reality always shows opposite. Never get tricked on such propagandas. We just like to fool people.🙂

the lunch thing comin up soon...

any tips on how to attract/seduce the pisces man?
Do i bring up anything about what happened??

Man... he better not stand me up..

Hi all...

I need a little but of assistance here... SOOOOOOOOOOO... I went for my lunch thingy and it was GREAT. greeted me with a kiss on the cheek, and took me to a nice swanky place and wined and dined me during lunch. we had a great conversation and it was just good! We talked about ourselves, about my sisters wedding.. and we laughed quite a bit too! No awkward silences... just very fun. He paid for the meal (which was pricey!) and said he had a lot of fun and would love to do it again. we walked out and as we parted, he kissed me o the cheek and said he had a great time and would want to see me again, and I told him I'd love to have dinner with him sometime and he said that he didn't have his calender on him but we'll do it definitely. Then he kissed me on the cheek again and we parted.

I know he's a really busy guy (even during lunch, he had to check his blackberry. he's a big time lawyer) and well, things seem good but I nervous about what to do. I emailed him after to just say thank you for lunch, I had a great time and would love to do it again. So i guess I have to wait..

So my pisces friends... do you think it seems positive? I think it does... until I had this friend come and tell me that he took me for lunch just to thank me for the great time we had at my sisters wedding. That really made me feel bad because it made me feel like it was a pity lunch!!!

Sigh... what should I do with mah pisces....? I am interested in him, thats for sure.

I was told to email him and say "what's up" if he doesn't by the end of this coming week (We had lunch just this past friday).

Any suggestions?

You can't force things... if he's interested he'll email you soon, just like how you're anxious to hear from him.

The I have to check my calendar thing doesn't seem right to me. It sounds like a delay tactic? But I could be wrong. All the best to you.

Well, my sister who's also a lawyer has to schedule things as well.. so I mean... I can't argue if he's going to be extra busy. Our this lunch was also using a schedule... and there were no delays in anything really...

hi, savagetai
🙂 i dont think you will have to worry about him being wierd he seems pretty stable being a lawyer and setting up a date ,
and you being capricorn he will definately have immense attraction because caps are almost always elegant stable and proper wich i garantee most pisces highly admire.

Good Luck with the Fish.

-Mike

Hey Savagetai good luck with your pisces fella. I hope it all goes swimmingly for the both of you!