i cant figure out pisces

Recently I have met so many pisces its been really insane.Three of flat mates turned out to be pisces.With one of them I got very close to and now I actually dont know what to do. Me and my friend get on extremely well but there is so much confusion that I hav been feeling all this time from my pisces friend. I find my friend extremely affectionate and at the same time in another world completely and very spaced out.

If there is any pisces out there who can understand what i am talking about or at least help me out with my confusion with my pisces friend I will be greatful for that..

The weird thing that I dont really understand is that my friend always flirts and always wants to know whats on my mind and sometimes most of the time becomes too affectionate. If pisces smile a lot at you is that a good thing?

please respond soon
many thanx crazy dashka

Hey Dashka...interesting name that...add to it a little lunacy in the form of crazy in front and it's no wonder you currently hold a piceans intreague...or is it an alias...iether way it's one of two things...unconvetionally funny/interesting or mysterious...right down our alley...

About your friend...pisces people can and often do mask their emotions very well but pisces are like sponges to emotion in that they soak it up...in a boreing surroundings they're boreing people...in vibrant full of life situations they're vibrant and full of life...Have a look at your friends surrounds and know that their mood is very much dictated by that.

As for the spaced out part...well we all have our negative points but time alone and often in an entirely differant world (spaced out) of their own is vital for a pisces...dream land is where they excersice their boundless imagination to annalise and examine life and themselves in great detail...good advice to you there is leave them be until they return on their own accord...

As for the smiling bit...how can someone who you seem to be comfortable/affectionate with smiling at you be a bad thing...?

Hey Durrie thanx for your reply, I agree about you saying its better to live them when they go off in their dream world because there is nothing you can do its in their nature to be like that.

Sometimes I feel as if my friend is playing some kind of a game with me especially when things get boring. I dont mind playing games until certain point but i cant stand mind games thats where things go wrong.

Anyway thanx for your response durrie if i have any more doubts or ques I'll post you something..

I should have figured you were from England too Dashka- what are flat mates?

Anyway, we pisces do go off on own own little mind-shopping sprees and I dislike being interrupted in them (I usually tell people that "I'm in my world-can't talk now"). I think Durrie explained it very well-we are good at hiding our emotions. But that doesn't mean we don't express them too. It's just figuring out whether we are expressing our true feelings or hiding them that is the hard part (unless you can read minds).

As for playing games, all the pisces I know (especially me) hate playing games with people's emotions. We just don't do it. It's usually the other way around (atleast for me since I am very gullible). Our emotional "sponges", as Durrie so eloquently put it, tend to give rise to paranoia-that others are playing mind games with them because we are so sensitive to changes in emotions.

But she/he/they're probably not playing mind games on purpose. The different attitudes-flirtation, wanting to be alone, open friendliness- don't necessarily mean he/she/they are teasing you but that the different personalities of pisces are overlapping and comming out wrong.

I hope I helped, but more likely I confused you cause I was thinking too much about what I'd do after the end of the world 🙂

Hey Dashka...

I'm glad you agree it's better to leave them be while in their dream world...we all as humans regardless of our sun signs like our space when we need it...time to think...time to be alone but the differance between piscean people and the rest of the signs is that we don't need to change our surroundings or go anywhere to do it...we do it when and where we like...some might describe it as an overactive imagination but for us it's just as real as the real world and happens many times every day.

I want to agree with Gwen's point about the emotional games. We are very emotionally sensitive souls and I agree 100% with Gwen...we don't play games...because we know how much that hurts...Right on Gwen...

You wanna know how to gain a picean's respect and even admiration...simple...

Look them straight in the eye's and tell them the truth...mean what you say and keep your relationship alive with new, interesting and excieting challenges...

Take care Dashka...