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Something about my dear pisces friends
Understanding Pisces Traits in Love and Happiness
Pisces tend to seek perfection and are highly idealistic in love. They may struggle with dissatisfaction because they desire a flawless world. Recognizing that nothing is perfect can help Pisces find happiness in imperfection and reality rather than fantasy. Balancing dreams with acceptance is key for their emotional well-being.
I think your Generalization of the Pisces Sign is quite off. I think all humans have the capacity to be complicated and picky based on the situation. Pisces are not looking for something perfect we are just exact type of individuals. I think you are confusing someone who is perfect with someone who has real substance. The slightest flaw will never scare us away.
However what type of flaw are we talking about. I do not think anyone wants to endure unecessary pain because of someone else, nor should we have to put up with it, that's your problem not ours. Although we might have Visions that not everyone else may have does not mean we are not realistic. Do you really think people who are not realistic will survive in this society, I don't think so not if they want to have a decent life style . We are Dreamers and Doers. When we envision something that we would like to do we put it upon us to realize that dream that we are looking to accomplish. We don't fantasize about stupid or silly things in our lives, well maybe if you are a child 1-12 yrs old. Have you ever heard of that saying "ALL THOSE WHO FAIL TO PLAN PLAN TO FAIL" Well picture us planning. When we dream or fantasize as you put it we envision a reality that we are in pursuit of in order to improve our quality of life.
Furthermore it is not that we are not happy with ourselves it is quite the opposite we are happy with who we are, thus giving us a secure type of personality that can either bring someone closer to us or repel them alltogether. We are typically trying to help other friends out ouf their own insecurity of life in general. People who could never envision a better world or quality of life for themselves. People who are perfectly happy making $ 10 per hour at the local grocery store and stay there all their lives. Or maybe a person who is happy at that Company and does not aspire to be anyone of significance. We are highly ambitious humans who help heal the wounded and councel the lost children in this world. If we Pisces are not happy I guarantee that we find our Happiness slowly but surely. Additionally, I find your statement "They should know that there is no hope in this ugly world" Extremely pessimistic!!Although we realize that the Universe can be ugly, nor do we dwell on this and make our lives miserable because everyone else feels this way. I think everyone has friends who have been hurt by all 12 Zodia Signs not only Pisces. It is true we are the Valentino (R of all the signs and probably have been hurt and have hurt at the same time
However what type of flaw are we talking about. I do not think anyone wants to endure unecessary pain because of someone else, nor should we have to put up with it, that's your problem not ours. Although we might have Visions that not everyone else may have does not mean we are not realistic. Do you really think people who are not realistic will survive in this society, I don't think so not if they want to have a decent life style . We are Dreamers and Doers. When we envision something that we would like to do we put it upon us to realize that dream that we are looking to accomplish. We don't fantasize about stupid or silly things in our lives, well maybe if you are a child 1-12 yrs old. Have you ever heard of that saying "ALL THOSE WHO FAIL TO PLAN PLAN TO FAIL" Well picture us planning. When we dream or fantasize as you put it we envision a reality that we are in pursuit of in order to improve our quality of life.
Furthermore it is not that we are not happy with ourselves it is quite the opposite we are happy with who we are, thus giving us a secure type of personality that can either bring someone closer to us or repel them alltogether. We are typically trying to help other friends out ouf their own insecurity of life in general. People who could never envision a better world or quality of life for themselves. People who are perfectly happy making $ 10 per hour at the local grocery store and stay there all their lives. Or maybe a person who is happy at that Company and does not aspire to be anyone of significance. We are highly ambitious humans who help heal the wounded and councel the lost children in this world. If we Pisces are not happy I guarantee that we find our Happiness slowly but surely. Additionally, I find your statement "They should know that there is no hope in this ugly world" Extremely pessimistic!!Although we realize that the Universe can be ugly, nor do we dwell on this and make our lives miserable because everyone else feels this way. I think everyone has friends who have been hurt by all 12 Zodia Signs not only Pisces. It is true we are the Valentino (R of all the signs and probably have been hurt and have hurt at the same time
I think your Generalization of the Pisces Sign is quite off. I think all humans have the capacity to be complicated and picky based on the situation. Pisces are not looking for something perfect we are just exact type of individuals. I think you are confusing someone who is perfect with someone who has real substance. The slightest flaw will never scare us away.
However what type of flaw are we talking about. I do not think anyone wants to endure unecessary pain because of someone else, nor should we have to put up with it, that's your problem not ours. Although we might have Visions that not everyone else may have does not mean we are not realistic. Do you really think people who are not realistic will survive in this society, I don't think so not if they want to have a decent life style . We are Dreamers and Doers. When we envision something that we would like to do we put it upon us to realize that dream that we are looking to accomplish. We don't fantasize about stupid or silly things in our lives, well maybe if you are a child 1-12 yrs old. Have you ever heard of that saying "ALL THOSE WHO FAIL TO PLAN PLAN TO FAIL" Well picture us planning. When we dream or fantasize as you put it we envision a reality that we are in pursuit of in order to improve our quality of life.
Furthermore it is not that we are not happy with ourselves it is quite the opposite we are happy with who we are, thus giving us a secure type of personality that can either bring someone closer to us or repel them alltogether. We are typically trying to help other friends out ouf their own insecurity of life in general. People who could never envision a better world or quality of life for themselves. People who are perfectly happy making $ 10 per hour at the local grocery store and stay there all their lives. Or maybe a person who is happy at that Company and does not aspire to be anyone of significance. We are highly ambitious humans who help heal the wounded and councel the lost children in this world. If we Pisces are not happy I guarantee that we find our Happiness slowly but surely. Additionally, I find your statement "They should know that there is no hope in this ugly world" Extremely pessimistic!!Although we realize that the Universe can be ugly, nor do we dwell on this and make our lives miserable because everyone else feels this way. I think everyone has friends who have been hurt by all 12 Zodia Signs not only Pisces. It is true we are the Valentino of all the signs and probably have been hurt and have hurt at the same time. Ithink every situation is different from the other it is hard to really pinpoint what types of problems you or your friends have had in the past with a Person born under this sign. What I can tell you is that we are humans just like everyone else we Cry, Bleed, Love, Lust, Need, Miss, Care, Love and remember just like anyone else. We are not perfect no one is perfect but we can still try and strive for perfection if this is what we wish to do. Oh by the way you were wondering what we enjoy and how we enjoy ourselves here is some information I pulled off the net on Pisces.
Pisces
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Pisces is an incurable romantic, so to fully enjoy their trip Pisces requires a touch of fantasy. Anything too mundane will remind them of "real life" and will dampen their style . Since Pisces is a water sign, islands and sea shores are the best vacation choices. Look for a small hotel or vacation cottage that offers a view of the ocean--the sound of the surf rolling in will soothe and comfort gentle Pisces. Since Pisces tends to be more creative than athletic, they tend to shun strenuous sports. Instead, they favor swimming, sailing, rowing, snorkeling and long walks along the beach. Chartering a yacht or private boat to sightsee would be a great hit, as would taking artistic, creative photographs of their
However what type of flaw are we talking about. I do not think anyone wants to endure unecessary pain because of someone else, nor should we have to put up with it, that's your problem not ours. Although we might have Visions that not everyone else may have does not mean we are not realistic. Do you really think people who are not realistic will survive in this society, I don't think so not if they want to have a decent life style . We are Dreamers and Doers. When we envision something that we would like to do we put it upon us to realize that dream that we are looking to accomplish. We don't fantasize about stupid or silly things in our lives, well maybe if you are a child 1-12 yrs old. Have you ever heard of that saying "ALL THOSE WHO FAIL TO PLAN PLAN TO FAIL" Well picture us planning. When we dream or fantasize as you put it we envision a reality that we are in pursuit of in order to improve our quality of life.
Furthermore it is not that we are not happy with ourselves it is quite the opposite we are happy with who we are, thus giving us a secure type of personality that can either bring someone closer to us or repel them alltogether. We are typically trying to help other friends out ouf their own insecurity of life in general. People who could never envision a better world or quality of life for themselves. People who are perfectly happy making $ 10 per hour at the local grocery store and stay there all their lives. Or maybe a person who is happy at that Company and does not aspire to be anyone of significance. We are highly ambitious humans who help heal the wounded and councel the lost children in this world. If we Pisces are not happy I guarantee that we find our Happiness slowly but surely. Additionally, I find your statement "They should know that there is no hope in this ugly world" Extremely pessimistic!!Although we realize that the Universe can be ugly, nor do we dwell on this and make our lives miserable because everyone else feels this way. I think everyone has friends who have been hurt by all 12 Zodia Signs not only Pisces. It is true we are the Valentino of all the signs and probably have been hurt and have hurt at the same time. Ithink every situation is different from the other it is hard to really pinpoint what types of problems you or your friends have had in the past with a Person born under this sign. What I can tell you is that we are humans just like everyone else we Cry, Bleed, Love, Lust, Need, Miss, Care, Love and remember just like anyone else. We are not perfect no one is perfect but we can still try and strive for perfection if this is what we wish to do. Oh by the way you were wondering what we enjoy and how we enjoy ourselves here is some information I pulled off the net on Pisces.
Pisces
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Pisces is an incurable romantic, so to fully enjoy their trip Pisces requires a touch of fantasy. Anything too mundane will remind them of "real life" and will dampen their style . Since Pisces is a water sign, islands and sea shores are the best vacation choices. Look for a small hotel or vacation cottage that offers a view of the ocean--the sound of the surf rolling in will soothe and comfort gentle Pisces. Since Pisces tends to be more creative than athletic, they tend to shun strenuous sports. Instead, they favor swimming, sailing, rowing, snorkeling and long walks along the beach. Chartering a yacht or private boat to sightsee would be a great hit, as would taking artistic, creative photographs of their
Hey Holla...
Hmmm...I to am a little put off by your description of my sun sign, but that doesn't bother me.
Holla...I picked up some very pesimistic views of yours in your posting and these bother me more than anything.
You say that there is "no hope for this ugly world"...and that we don't "realise that nothing is perfect".
Phew...Holla, if that is your viewpoint on life then I think it makes little differance whether you are black, white, pink, piscean, cancer or anything really...you need to be a little more positive and accept that evan the right things in life can hurt like hell.
I cannot speak for other pisceans but I can say that I do realise this world is not perfect...but I also realise that that is why we are here in our imperfect world on our quest to find ourselves and prepare for our reunion with Godhead in our perfect state...what's the point of being born perfect into an imperfect world...what would you learn, what would you do that you do not already know...how boring is that existance...—
Take care of yourself Holla...and know that hope is always there waiting for you to hold it's hand...the choice is yours you just need to believe in yourself a little more.
Hmmm...I to am a little put off by your description of my sun sign, but that doesn't bother me.
Holla...I picked up some very pesimistic views of yours in your posting and these bother me more than anything.
You say that there is "no hope for this ugly world"...and that we don't "realise that nothing is perfect".
Phew...Holla, if that is your viewpoint on life then I think it makes little differance whether you are black, white, pink, piscean, cancer or anything really...you need to be a little more positive and accept that evan the right things in life can hurt like hell.
I cannot speak for other pisceans but I can say that I do realise this world is not perfect...but I also realise that that is why we are here in our imperfect world on our quest to find ourselves and prepare for our reunion with Godhead in our perfect state...what's the point of being born perfect into an imperfect world...what would you learn, what would you do that you do not already know...how boring is that existance...—
Take care of yourself Holla...and know that hope is always there waiting for you to hold it's hand...the choice is yours you just need to believe in yourself a little more.
Oh yes...and this is to you Golden Boy.
I don't mean to be horrible or sound against you...I'm not, but please stop killing the threads with your very, very lengthly replies.
We want YOUR opinion...not a cut and paste answer from some text book.
Sorry if I have offended you but people are looking for quick answers, views and opinions here.
Thank you for your concern though...you are very passionate.
I don't mean to be horrible or sound against you...I'm not, but please stop killing the threads with your very, very lengthly replies.
We want YOUR opinion...not a cut and paste answer from some text book.
Sorry if I have offended you but people are looking for quick answers, views and opinions here.
Thank you for your concern though...you are very passionate.
Hello. I only read the first few sentences of your very long post (I will read it later maybe)...but if you don't like what I am saying, you can say it plain simple. Do not go and write two pages of bla bla. I was only telling my thoughts I wasn't trying to diss the pisces. But I guess it is easy to be missunderstood in here. I believe in myself yes, you don't need to tell me to. what are you talking about. This was just kind of my poem to the pisces. Real pisces are like that. If my thoughts offended you, then I am sorry. But it is true that you pisces are too dreamy and you must admit it. This world is indeed ugly. No it's not pessimistic it is a fact, it is true, but I personally don't give a damn about this world. I have many pisces friends, I know what I am talking about. I have talked to them about things and they agree. You are not necassarily doers. You like to think that you are but you aren't really. However, you are doers in your head. It is good to imagine the perfect world but we all just live this crazy life how we can I guess. Well sweet dreams dear pisces. Much love to all.
Durrie : "I cannot speak for other pisceans but I can say that I do realise this world is not perfect...but I also realise that that is why we are here in our imperfect world on our quest to find ourselves and prepare for our reunion with Godhead in our perfect state...what's the point of being born perfect into an imperfect world...what would you learn, what would you do that you do not already know...how boring is that existance...—"
reunion with Godhead, here we go, more fantasies. But that's cute.
Going a little off topic here, when I say this world is ugly it is because of things like death, murder, hunger, illnesses and horrible things like that. The list goes on and on. Yes, I would rather live in a perfect world but I know that is hopeless. It wouldn't be boring to me, no. Perfection would inculde being happy and never bored all the time so...
Well just wanted to add that little comment.
P.S. I like the pisces, don't get me wrong! But you folks need to come back down to earth sometimes.
reunion with Godhead, here we go, more fantasies. But that's cute.
Going a little off topic here, when I say this world is ugly it is because of things like death, murder, hunger, illnesses and horrible things like that. The list goes on and on. Yes, I would rather live in a perfect world but I know that is hopeless. It wouldn't be boring to me, no. Perfection would inculde being happy and never bored all the time so...
Well just wanted to add that little comment.
P.S. I like the pisces, don't get me wrong! But you folks need to come back down to earth sometimes.
Gosh, that is really a good question for any and all fish to answer. I am a fish and that question baffels the hell out of me. You have really put something on my mind. What if I couldn't swim away when times got tuff or I just chose to do so? I will make it a point to figure this one out. Thanks
Don't think too hard 😉 it is not that much of a big deal really. But I am glad you understand what I am talking about.
Love, always, anyway.
Love, always, anyway.
Alway's think hard if not I would not be the Person that I am. I am just sticking up for us Pisces we really are caring individuals much more than all signs out there. Yes we do take things to heart because we feel more than your typical person. No biggy I wish you the best in your pursuit of Happiness and a good life!
Peace "C"
Peace "C"
Finally, a response I thought you were dead holla (Just kidding). No time for an egotistical battle. I respect your opinion on this subject. I was not trying to make you look incompetent or stupid. I was just voicing my own opinion on your foresight.
Durrie,
Unless if you are the owner of this site why don't you keep your thoughts to yourself. This site is up for a reason and that is to share information at least I was able to formulate an idea
and speak up for myself what are you doing just "Hating" "DON'T HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME"
"C"
Durrie,
Unless if you are the owner of this site why don't you keep your thoughts to yourself. This site is up for a reason and that is to share information at least I was able to formulate an idea
and speak up for myself what are you doing just "Hating" "DON'T HATE THE PLAYER HATE THE GAME"
"C"
It is all good "C" 🙂
But about Durrie, I think he was only asking you to reduce the amount of text that you write because it was too long. You can say what you want but you should not tell Durrie to keep his thoughts to himself. I don't really know any of you people but I know everyone should say whatever they want. That is fun. Pisces should all be about love people!! 🙂 No hating. Peace.
But about Durrie, I think he was only asking you to reduce the amount of text that you write because it was too long. You can say what you want but you should not tell Durrie to keep his thoughts to himself. I don't really know any of you people but I know everyone should say whatever they want. That is fun. Pisces should all be about love people!! 🙂 No hating. Peace.
I would say that as a fish I do find myself quick to escape into my dream world if I can't or choose not to deal with something. For some reason it allows me to wish the bad away. And luckilly that seems to work for me, as if I have a hidden angel on my side. I don't like to run from problems but sometimes it's easier to just let the heavens take and lead my direction. Hiding, maybe but never hurting anyone intentionally. It's all love for this fish.
It's hard to except negative traits about ourselves, but I will say that this fish is guilty of escapism. Sorry my felow fishes.
It's hard to except negative traits about ourselves, but I will say that this fish is guilty of escapism. Sorry my felow fishes.
Durrie,
I am not lashing out at you, I was just sharing information about the Pisces sign that you all may not know about.
If the lengthy text bothers you that much just don't read it Ignore it.
I believe we live in a democratic society and have the right to post what we want as long as it is not derrogatory. To long to much information for you both just don't read it skip it. Maybe other fellow signs out there would like to know more about the Pisces sign in detail. This website does not cover this type of data just a generalization no details about astrology. Anyhow just skip whatever I post and you will not have to read all the data. If a person does not like something they should learn how to ignore it.
"C"
I am not lashing out at you, I was just sharing information about the Pisces sign that you all may not know about.
If the lengthy text bothers you that much just don't read it Ignore it.
I believe we live in a democratic society and have the right to post what we want as long as it is not derrogatory. To long to much information for you both just don't read it skip it. Maybe other fellow signs out there would like to know more about the Pisces sign in detail. This website does not cover this type of data just a generalization no details about astrology. Anyhow just skip whatever I post and you will not have to read all the data. If a person does not like something they should learn how to ignore it.
"C"
Cool beans "C"...
I'm glad you have shared you opinion and your thirst for knowledge is obviously as deep as you heart is...all I was saying is that you have posted very lengthly replies to many of these threads on the site and I fear that it ends them because people don't want to read all of that...well not here on this message board anyways...
Give us a link to a site or a name of a book rather and your thoughts on the plot or aspects of the material you wish to read and share with us...this we like...
People are after quick answers and opinion sharing here...that's the game and Yes...we do loke to play it.
I'm glad you have shared you opinion and your thirst for knowledge is obviously as deep as you heart is...all I was saying is that you have posted very lengthly replies to many of these threads on the site and I fear that it ends them because people don't want to read all of that...well not here on this message board anyways...
Give us a link to a site or a name of a book rather and your thoughts on the plot or aspects of the material you wish to read and share with us...this we like...
People are after quick answers and opinion sharing here...that's the game and Yes...we do loke to play it.
Holla...
You asked a great question to start this thread but your replies to some of the replies are a bit short sighted in my opinion.
Can I ask you a question...do you believe you have a soul...and if so what is the point of that soul...—
I believe I have a soul just as you do and our reason for life on earth as a "human" is to learn that life sucks if you let it...!!!
To say I was "off the point" and being "cute" by believing in a Godhead and my journey of life is to not acknoledge my answer to your question which makes me wonder why you asked in the first place...—
Holla...you show great compassion and caring in asking why there is murder, rape and all of that in this world. You as I and many others realise it is wrong and that tells me you are on the right track the only differance between you and I seems to be that I believe in the journey and...
That's where I escape to...not some piscean dream world although I am piscean and this helps me do it.
Because I have a quest...a goal...a meaning, I find it easier to accept life for what it is...all of it...the good and the bad because I didn't creat it...I was given it, and it is up to me to live it as I please...
I choose to water ski, I choose to ride my bike, I choose to take breathtakeing walks in the mountains or by the rivers of our world, to swim in the beatiful oceans that we have. I choose to work a nine to five job to earn money to do those things and provide for myself and my girlfriend...yes I know there is lots of hate, yes I know there is bad and yes I know there is negativity in the world and yes it affects my life but I know it can never really do me harm because I won't let it...it has no place in my life.
The gift of Life is possibly the only thing as important as the gift of choice given to us by God....
And I do not believe in Jesus Crist, I do no believe in Allah, I do not believe in Buddah I have no religion to which I call myself a member other than LIFE...!
I have read many religious scriptures from all corners of the earth but I don't live my life by their rules. If I like their angle or the meaning behind them I might and have adopted many of them because I believe in their morals and outcome, but most of all I just love to live life and experiance it in the millions of forms it takes here on earth...
Life is a journey...enjoy the ride...!
You asked a great question to start this thread but your replies to some of the replies are a bit short sighted in my opinion.
Can I ask you a question...do you believe you have a soul...and if so what is the point of that soul...—
I believe I have a soul just as you do and our reason for life on earth as a "human" is to learn that life sucks if you let it...!!!
To say I was "off the point" and being "cute" by believing in a Godhead and my journey of life is to not acknoledge my answer to your question which makes me wonder why you asked in the first place...—
Holla...you show great compassion and caring in asking why there is murder, rape and all of that in this world. You as I and many others realise it is wrong and that tells me you are on the right track the only differance between you and I seems to be that I believe in the journey and...
That's where I escape to...not some piscean dream world although I am piscean and this helps me do it.
Because I have a quest...a goal...a meaning, I find it easier to accept life for what it is...all of it...the good and the bad because I didn't creat it...I was given it, and it is up to me to live it as I please...
I choose to water ski, I choose to ride my bike, I choose to take breathtakeing walks in the mountains or by the rivers of our world, to swim in the beatiful oceans that we have. I choose to work a nine to five job to earn money to do those things and provide for myself and my girlfriend...yes I know there is lots of hate, yes I know there is bad and yes I know there is negativity in the world and yes it affects my life but I know it can never really do me harm because I won't let it...it has no place in my life.
The gift of Life is possibly the only thing as important as the gift of choice given to us by God....
And I do not believe in Jesus Crist, I do no believe in Allah, I do not believe in Buddah I have no religion to which I call myself a member other than LIFE...!
I have read many religious scriptures from all corners of the earth but I don't live my life by their rules. If I like their angle or the meaning behind them I might and have adopted many of them because I believe in their morals and outcome, but most of all I just love to live life and experiance it in the millions of forms it takes here on earth...
Life is a journey...enjoy the ride...!
"yes I know there is bad and yes I know there is negativity in the world and yes it affects my life but I know it can never really do me harm because I won't let it...it has no place in my life."
Until something happens to you! Then where are you gonna go?! To who will you turn or what for comfort? There is more to life than what our immediate senses can enjoy. There are children that die everyday and don't get to enjoy the things that you do. I happen to believe in Jesus Christ and I am not ashamed to admit it. Quite the opposite, and I am not a weak person. I believe there is a God and that he will make it up to all those who got robbed of life.
I am glad Durrie that you are able to enjoy all of it, but I think you should think about those that don't get to and consider them too!!! It is not a weak person who believes in God. You make them sound as if they are, and I personally resent it!
LS/C
Who loves the Lord!
Until something happens to you! Then where are you gonna go?! To who will you turn or what for comfort? There is more to life than what our immediate senses can enjoy. There are children that die everyday and don't get to enjoy the things that you do. I happen to believe in Jesus Christ and I am not ashamed to admit it. Quite the opposite, and I am not a weak person. I believe there is a God and that he will make it up to all those who got robbed of life.
I am glad Durrie that you are able to enjoy all of it, but I think you should think about those that don't get to and consider them too!!! It is not a weak person who believes in God. You make them sound as if they are, and I personally resent it!
LS/C
Who loves the Lord!
Short sighted...yes that is true, maybe. I will say that I am not really deep but oh well...
I think we have a soul. Maybe we do or maybe we don't. Why might we have a soul? I don't know. But I am realistic. I have a brain and reason, that is for certain.
I guess the reason I was asking you pisces the things that I've asked is because you are really confusing to me. In a good way 😉 Somehow I admire you fish people...the way that you think, it is so odd and different from the others...so strange...you are all weird but it's good 🙂 In my first post I was only telling my thoughts. I wasn't really expecting you to give me a clear answer, that is for sure. You are all mind-bogling to me but I care about my sweet fish friends and they love me so it's all good... 🙂 (I am the only arian in the gang, lol)
You believe in the journey Durrie... But I just think it is hopeless. But like I have said I just plain don't care. I just don't drift away in a dream, I face the sh*t. In my poem to you pisces, I tell how I like the way you can just let go of all the hundreds of problems...if you could not do it, I wonder what would happen to you...
It is hard to explain but there is just this little thing about the pisces...
Durrie: "yes I know there is negativity in the world and yes it affects my life but I know it can never really do me harm because I won't let it...it has no place in my life."
That is sweet.
I think we have a soul. Maybe we do or maybe we don't. Why might we have a soul? I don't know. But I am realistic. I have a brain and reason, that is for certain.
I guess the reason I was asking you pisces the things that I've asked is because you are really confusing to me. In a good way 😉 Somehow I admire you fish people...the way that you think, it is so odd and different from the others...so strange...you are all weird but it's good 🙂 In my first post I was only telling my thoughts. I wasn't really expecting you to give me a clear answer, that is for sure. You are all mind-bogling to me but I care about my sweet fish friends and they love me so it's all good... 🙂 (I am the only arian in the gang, lol)
You believe in the journey Durrie... But I just think it is hopeless. But like I have said I just plain don't care. I just don't drift away in a dream, I face the sh*t. In my poem to you pisces, I tell how I like the way you can just let go of all the hundreds of problems...if you could not do it, I wonder what would happen to you...
It is hard to explain but there is just this little thing about the pisces...
Durrie: "yes I know there is negativity in the world and yes it affects my life but I know it can never really do me harm because I won't let it...it has no place in my life."
That is sweet.
LS/C I sincerely appologise if I offended you, this is and will always be my last intention in life...if at all as that is not a part of my journey.
I never said a person was weak by believing in God...indeed, if that is where your journey has taken you then all the best to you...enjoy the ride.
All I said was that I myself do not believe in a God and the reason I say that is that I believe I am a part of a Godhead as are you. Great and majestic as Godhead is, as am I in potential and only through takeing control of my own actions, thoughts, desires and dreams is it my souls journey to best deliver myself to the rest of the world of which I am also a part of and hence work toward my reunion with Godhead...in other words to realise my true potential...that of Godhead itself...God is not human...God is perfection, a state of being...our souls use our human bodies to realise this state...that is my belief and that is my journey.
You ask to whom I will turn and where will I go once something happens to me and after explaining myself I hope I have made the answer very clear...
I turn to myself...as you would to God because here on earth we are like God's in training. We have full power to do what and as we please whether we believe in a God or not. We can create life, we can destroy life, we can sustain life and we can ruin it too...but
To realise our true potential as being part of a perfect state or else part of Godhead, it is up to us to excercise our gift of choice and that is where I choose to conduct myself through my journey exactly as you suggested...By considering those around me...as well as myself the best way I see fit.
The fact that my journey takes place in a world that has millions of starving and dying children doesn't change that or make it harder to endure...it makes it what it is and add's perspective to my journey if anything.
Please don't think I have no compassion, that I turn a blind eye to try and protect myself when infact I was born and raised in Africa and have seen poverty with my very own two eye's and my heart aches just as yours does.
I never said a person was weak by believing in God...indeed, if that is where your journey has taken you then all the best to you...enjoy the ride.
All I said was that I myself do not believe in a God and the reason I say that is that I believe I am a part of a Godhead as are you. Great and majestic as Godhead is, as am I in potential and only through takeing control of my own actions, thoughts, desires and dreams is it my souls journey to best deliver myself to the rest of the world of which I am also a part of and hence work toward my reunion with Godhead...in other words to realise my true potential...that of Godhead itself...God is not human...God is perfection, a state of being...our souls use our human bodies to realise this state...that is my belief and that is my journey.
You ask to whom I will turn and where will I go once something happens to me and after explaining myself I hope I have made the answer very clear...
I turn to myself...as you would to God because here on earth we are like God's in training. We have full power to do what and as we please whether we believe in a God or not. We can create life, we can destroy life, we can sustain life and we can ruin it too...but
To realise our true potential as being part of a perfect state or else part of Godhead, it is up to us to excercise our gift of choice and that is where I choose to conduct myself through my journey exactly as you suggested...By considering those around me...as well as myself the best way I see fit.
The fact that my journey takes place in a world that has millions of starving and dying children doesn't change that or make it harder to endure...it makes it what it is and add's perspective to my journey if anything.
Please don't think I have no compassion, that I turn a blind eye to try and protect myself when infact I was born and raised in Africa and have seen poverty with my very own two eye's and my heart aches just as yours does.
Sorry guys...forgot to sign in above...but Holla...this is in peply to you...
Firstly thank you for the kind words they are much appreciated but I just wish you would stop thinking it's so hopeless...remaining positive is step # 1.
I hope you are in no way envious of this ability you speak of that we fish have to escape because it is often our downfall, but...
Most of all I hope you realise this things I speak of above are not my escapist type of scenario's. The things I speak of above are real and to try and escape from they would be cowardly and contrary to my beliefs. You said it yourself..."I face the sh*t"...as do I Holla, it's just that I don't dwell on those feelings of hurt, hopelessness and regret and I choose to remain positive that it will all be ok if I conduct myself in the correct manner because that is all I can be held accountable for if you think about it...—
When I see or hear of these negative things I aknoledge them for what they are...they hurt me, they wind me up as much I'm sure as they do you but I am teaching myself to channel those emotions of anger, frustration and hoplessness into a positive outcome.
I just wanted to clear that up...when I escape to fairyland as we pisceans do it's more often than not silly little daydreams or love interests, or fatasy worlds which I create to satisfy a craving or fetish desire...
To use that as an escape from the the reality of life of which you orrigionally spoke would be totally contrary to my belief in the journey.
Firstly thank you for the kind words they are much appreciated but I just wish you would stop thinking it's so hopeless...remaining positive is step # 1.
I hope you are in no way envious of this ability you speak of that we fish have to escape because it is often our downfall, but...
Most of all I hope you realise this things I speak of above are not my escapist type of scenario's. The things I speak of above are real and to try and escape from they would be cowardly and contrary to my beliefs. You said it yourself..."I face the sh*t"...as do I Holla, it's just that I don't dwell on those feelings of hurt, hopelessness and regret and I choose to remain positive that it will all be ok if I conduct myself in the correct manner because that is all I can be held accountable for if you think about it...—
When I see or hear of these negative things I aknoledge them for what they are...they hurt me, they wind me up as much I'm sure as they do you but I am teaching myself to channel those emotions of anger, frustration and hoplessness into a positive outcome.
I just wanted to clear that up...when I escape to fairyland as we pisceans do it's more often than not silly little daydreams or love interests, or fatasy worlds which I create to satisfy a craving or fetish desire...
To use that as an escape from the the reality of life of which you orrigionally spoke would be totally contrary to my belief in the journey.
Hi Durrie,
What do you say to a child who is dying about why things are the way they are and what is going to happen to them and why are others ok and they are not—? I would like to know if you would tell them it is up to them and they should remain positive!
LS/C
What do you say to a child who is dying about why things are the way they are and what is going to happen to them and why are others ok and they are not—? I would like to know if you would tell them it is up to them and they should remain positive!
LS/C
First of all I want to start by saying dying is by no means a bad thing. Death is as important to life as being born...and it baffles me why people are so scared of dying when it is utterlly and totally out of our hands and has to happen...—
Secondly...say this child does die...what happens to him regardless of the fact that his life was in your opinion tragically and prematurely ended.
Does God say aah...sorry my friend you didn't read the bible and confess your love for me and hand your life over to me so Ummm...I'm afraid you can't come to heavan...no I don't think so LS/C...how is that fair, how was that child ever given evan the slightest chance...—
Have you ever watched a child's reaction to a foreign scenario...by that i mean anything...evan if they were to witness a car accident.
They stand there almost in awe...they look intently and they accept what they see then...only then as humans do they look around to their elders and learn what to do about it, by observing our response.
A child doesn't care for world politics, a child cares for finger painting and mud pies...a child doesn't care for anything outside of his home because that is their universe they don't know America is differant from Asia let alone that the two continents exist...so for you to think you even need to explain to them that their situation is an unfortunate one is your disposition not theirs.
A child accepts their fate until otherwise told by their peers and or elders...a white lie in that scenario is by no means to my mind a lie at all...tell them what you must LS/C keep them smiling keep them happy because that way it will be easier to accept what ever fate has in store for them on the other side if at all...
Secondly...say this child does die...what happens to him regardless of the fact that his life was in your opinion tragically and prematurely ended.
Does God say aah...sorry my friend you didn't read the bible and confess your love for me and hand your life over to me so Ummm...I'm afraid you can't come to heavan...no I don't think so LS/C...how is that fair, how was that child ever given evan the slightest chance...—
Have you ever watched a child's reaction to a foreign scenario...by that i mean anything...evan if they were to witness a car accident.
They stand there almost in awe...they look intently and they accept what they see then...only then as humans do they look around to their elders and learn what to do about it, by observing our response.
A child doesn't care for world politics, a child cares for finger painting and mud pies...a child doesn't care for anything outside of his home because that is their universe they don't know America is differant from Asia let alone that the two continents exist...so for you to think you even need to explain to them that their situation is an unfortunate one is your disposition not theirs.
A child accepts their fate until otherwise told by their peers and or elders...a white lie in that scenario is by no means to my mind a lie at all...tell them what you must LS/C keep them smiling keep them happy because that way it will be easier to accept what ever fate has in store for them on the other side if at all...
First of all Durrie,
I never said anything about life being fair. It isn't! I never said anything about children having to confess their sins to get to heaven. What would there be to confess. So give it a rest and come down off your soapbox!
Secondly,
You don't know what goes on after death so all got is speculation! The difference with what I have is testimoney and history telling me the truth. You can dream anything you want up, but in this case you can't materilize your dream. I alos wonder how many times you have spent with a dying child or even a person— If you did then you would know the last thing they do is give there life over to a higher power, Why? because they don't know what is going to happen to them!!! They are scared.
I offered you some insight on near death experiences. There is plenty of truth to it too. You might find it very interesting to know what they saw in their experience! Just like what the bible speaks of. In these experiences were adults and children and after being revived from death they were asked to draw a picture of what they saw. They all said the same thing! Look into it is fascinating.
I like to hear all opinions and then respect those who don't agree with mine and move on. There are alot of people who don't believe in anything that is their choice, but to come to the conclusions you have leads me to wonder what kind of false messiah are you trying to be?! You sound so sure of yourself when this has eluded everybody else since time! How can that be?
I never said anything about life being fair. It isn't! I never said anything about children having to confess their sins to get to heaven. What would there be to confess. So give it a rest and come down off your soapbox!
Secondly,
You don't know what goes on after death so all got is speculation! The difference with what I have is testimoney and history telling me the truth. You can dream anything you want up, but in this case you can't materilize your dream. I alos wonder how many times you have spent with a dying child or even a person— If you did then you would know the last thing they do is give there life over to a higher power, Why? because they don't know what is going to happen to them!!! They are scared.
I offered you some insight on near death experiences. There is plenty of truth to it too. You might find it very interesting to know what they saw in their experience! Just like what the bible speaks of. In these experiences were adults and children and after being revived from death they were asked to draw a picture of what they saw. They all said the same thing! Look into it is fascinating.
I like to hear all opinions and then respect those who don't agree with mine and move on. There are alot of people who don't believe in anything that is their choice, but to come to the conclusions you have leads me to wonder what kind of false messiah are you trying to be?! You sound so sure of yourself when this has eluded everybody else since time! How can that be?
"A child accepts their fate until otherwise told by their peers and or elders...a white lie in that scenario is by no means to my mind a lie at all...tell them what you must LS/C keep them smiling keep them happy because that way it will be easier to accept what ever fate has in store for them on the other side if at all..."
I do! I tell them they will be riding that beautiful pony again someday right along side God! And they will ride faster and farther then ever, But he won't ever let them fall and get hurt ever!
What do you tell them?
I do! I tell them they will be riding that beautiful pony again someday right along side God! And they will ride faster and farther then ever, But he won't ever let them fall and get hurt ever!
What do you tell them?
"First of all I want to start by saying dying is by no means a bad thing. Death is as important to life as being born...and it baffles me why people are so scared of dying when it is utterlly and totally out of our hands and has to happen...—"
I have heard this too! And when the moment arrives you would feel just like anyone else! We are wired the same way! You can say whatever you want, I know this is true! Death is only important in order to keep the planet sustainable! I would like to live here for much longer. What we get to witness is worth all of the trouble!!!
I have heard this too! And when the moment arrives you would feel just like anyone else! We are wired the same way! You can say whatever you want, I know this is true! Death is only important in order to keep the planet sustainable! I would like to live here for much longer. What we get to witness is worth all of the trouble!!!
PS: Durrie, I wouldn't lie at all to a child. If they were sick you tell them they are, but I would also tell what is in your heart as to what happens after that! A child dying of cancer or leukimia has alot of anger and questions and all the same emotions as we do! You can't just leave them in such a state! There has to be something wonderful to think about and imagine, not just death and hopital rooms and etc and they were sacraficed in this cruel imperfect world so others could become perfect. NO! If it is all just fantasy then so what!!! and if it is true and I believe it is they will have all that should have been theirs!
LS/C
LS/C
LS/C...you are very passionate, keep your faith it is very admirable but please know that I would never want to change your opinion...that is not part my journey nor is it my job, I merely speak my mind and the rest is up to you to take as you please...
I agree with you that life is not fair...that was one of my origional points. You see, you have your faith and you place your entire existance in the hands of that faith and believe whole heartedly that the scripture of the bible is the law and truth to all man kind.
Maybe it's my moon in Scorpio that makes me the sceptic that is often associated with that moon sign but....
Life is far to infinate and diverse to me...daily I am astounded by the intracasies of the human mind, life, body and soul and how they interact with the universe and I am astounded through experiancing it first hand...I find it very hard to believe anything other that what I myself know to be the truth or can see some truth in because it relates to things I already know to be true.
You are right...I don't know what happens after death and my belief is just speculation, but then nor do you. You choose to believe the sripture of people who died over two thousand years ago over which there is constant debate to be true...that is your choice...
What intrigues me the most now that we have defined the above is this...While I still have just as much compassion as the next person and my heart aches to see squallar, poverty, sickness and death...(and I have seen it...believe me)...how come I am the the one "without faith" but am the one most readily willing to accept mine and the situation of people around me...—
I am no messiah LS/C...and the things of which I speak are there all around us all day long...they are part of a system called nature...true, just, fair and perfect...
I agree with you that life is not fair...that was one of my origional points. You see, you have your faith and you place your entire existance in the hands of that faith and believe whole heartedly that the scripture of the bible is the law and truth to all man kind.
Maybe it's my moon in Scorpio that makes me the sceptic that is often associated with that moon sign but....
Life is far to infinate and diverse to me...daily I am astounded by the intracasies of the human mind, life, body and soul and how they interact with the universe and I am astounded through experiancing it first hand...I find it very hard to believe anything other that what I myself know to be the truth or can see some truth in because it relates to things I already know to be true.
You are right...I don't know what happens after death and my belief is just speculation, but then nor do you. You choose to believe the sripture of people who died over two thousand years ago over which there is constant debate to be true...that is your choice...
What intrigues me the most now that we have defined the above is this...While I still have just as much compassion as the next person and my heart aches to see squallar, poverty, sickness and death...(and I have seen it...believe me)...how come I am the the one "without faith" but am the one most readily willing to accept mine and the situation of people around me...—
I am no messiah LS/C...and the things of which I speak are there all around us all day long...they are part of a system called nature...true, just, fair and perfect...
I do agree with you on many points and that you should tell a child the truth LS/C but not when it has no bareing on the outcome of their situation...least of all a terminal illness unless they themselves were previously aware of that illness and it's affect on the human body.
"A child dying of cancer or leukimia has alot of anger and questions and all the same emotions as we do!"...yes this may be true but then how do they learn those emotions...? They learn that from us as their elders by observing us...they follow the laws of nature...their instinct tells them to observe us and mimic us.
Let me illustrate this by telling you a story about my childhood. When I used to complain about a head ache or that I was in pain my mother used to give me calicium pills from the dentist and I was none the wiser...my aches and pain would dissappear every time and as a result I to this day have no fillings or brocken bones in my body...
LS/C I totally agree with you on the subject that a child shouldn't be left in that state, in hospitals with nothing to believe in but then that's my origional point right there...
The last place for a terminally ill child should be a cold foreign world of a hospital bed...they should be at home in familiar souroundings with all the support of their loved ones and family to live out their life as best they can...
Nobody...least of all me said they are sacrificed to make others become perfect...a child dies of lukimia or cancer because they contracted an illness which kills their human body...that illness kills them, the world keeps turning and life goes on...that's all I said...
"A child dying of cancer or leukimia has alot of anger and questions and all the same emotions as we do!"...yes this may be true but then how do they learn those emotions...? They learn that from us as their elders by observing us...they follow the laws of nature...their instinct tells them to observe us and mimic us.
Let me illustrate this by telling you a story about my childhood. When I used to complain about a head ache or that I was in pain my mother used to give me calicium pills from the dentist and I was none the wiser...my aches and pain would dissappear every time and as a result I to this day have no fillings or brocken bones in my body...
LS/C I totally agree with you on the subject that a child shouldn't be left in that state, in hospitals with nothing to believe in but then that's my origional point right there...
The last place for a terminally ill child should be a cold foreign world of a hospital bed...they should be at home in familiar souroundings with all the support of their loved ones and family to live out their life as best they can...
Nobody...least of all me said they are sacrificed to make others become perfect...a child dies of lukimia or cancer because they contracted an illness which kills their human body...that illness kills them, the world keeps turning and life goes on...that's all I said...
Dearest Durrie,
We really arrive at the same place in our minds we just take different paths to get there.
I really don't see any disagreement with how we feel here! Not when it comes to the bottom line! I have a tendancy to just like to ruffle a few feathers now and again! Passions! Keeps things from getting too boring!
We really arrive at the same place in our minds we just take different paths to get there.
I really don't see any disagreement with how we feel here! Not when it comes to the bottom line! I have a tendancy to just like to ruffle a few feathers now and again! Passions! Keeps things from getting too boring!
PS: You have always been courageous for speaking your mind whether and I like that in a person! Always keep that trait!
Love
Sincerely,
LS/C
Love
Sincerely,
LS/C
One thing is for sure...we tested each others resolve and I'm glad to say we both came back to earth in the end...and you're right...
We were both arguing the same points and believe in the same ideals, it's just we like to take a differant route for our journey...😉
Thanks for careing LS/C...I promise to stay courageous, it's shareing the experiance with individuals like yourself that make it all worth while...
Take care...
Durrie.
We were both arguing the same points and believe in the same ideals, it's just we like to take a differant route for our journey...😉
Thanks for careing LS/C...I promise to stay courageous, it's shareing the experiance with individuals like yourself that make it all worth while...
Take care...
Durrie.
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