I'm Pisces...And I'm Human...What are you...?

Having just found this discussion board I was astounded, and to be honest troubled at the amount of pesimistic attitudes people have relating to other people of my Sun sign, paticularly in relation to romance.
We are all just human and we are governed by many things including and it seems predoninantly by our emotions. When people fall in love (or so they think) feelings of rejection and misunderstanding are hurtful and cause clouded judgment, so I merely wanted to express my dismay at the amount of people slagging off pisceans on this message board becasue they've been hurt by one.

In my brief time in this life, I've learned that people use the "L" word far to loosley (I can hear you now - aah there's another one, afraid of comitment) but then that's just my piscean, or could it be my human side of me waiting for the right person to absolutley and totally submerge myself in before I fling such a strong word about with such ease.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, before you lose your temper with your ex who just so happens to be piscean try and think what it feels like to belong to a sign that has never really been quite as understood as many others. Try to imagine how if feels to walk down a street and have constant signals, feelings, sights and smells bombarding your conciousness to which you have no answers but a stange pwerful yourning to experiance even deeper than just materialistically and to to fully understand.
Pisces is the begining and the end of the zodiac cycle. We tend to be either very old or very young souls as a result. We I'm sure will all agree that young people get carried away and it's in their nature to make mistakes or else whats the point of living...? As for older people, they to are misunderstood but maybe they just realise the bigger picture and also that it is not for them to show you. Your turn will come when it's your turn...patience is a virtue, so be happy with yourself, realise that you like everyone else has their place...for this is the only way to be of any use to anyone...including yourself.

Next time you are left for another by a piscean or a gemini for that matter, why not say thank you for the good times and let them continue on their jouney of life, as you should be continuing with yours, greatful that you have shared a piece of your life with them...give-in only to emotions of bliss...as humans we have a terrible habbit of dwelling on the negative aspects of life.

And besides...who said to love someone is to call them yours for the rest of yours life anyways...—...unless the feeling is mutual of course...a little unfair I'd say.

i agree when you say that a pisces can have a old or a young soul.they are two different people. the young is learning and the old is teaching them.

As for use of the L word so loosely. I can understand that. But you Pisceans have no trouble using the S word - meaning SEX.

I have been with a Gemini, Libra, Pisces, and Virgo. What I have found is that poor emtionally bombarded Pisceans are also the biggest liars and cheaters who are also wishy washy. They are great survivors because they never confront the people they hurt. They just slink away like cowards. Sensitive souls? PUHLEEZE

I am sure other signs can exhibit the same kind of behavior. But if these boards are filled with negative things about Pisceans, what does that tell you.

Thanks for your comments 198.81 but you have done exactly what the rest have done by loosing your temper and letting your grief shine through and take control of you which is the exact reason why I posted this topic.

Indeed these boards are full of negeative comments about pisceans but you are looking at it from the negative angle which shows me you haven't listened to what I suggested in my enitial posting...ie your grief has clouded you judgement.

You are holding onto your grief, which is regression not progression and yes I do agree with you that this board is full of comments from people who have been hurt by Pisceans...what does this tell me you ask...?

Well for one it tells me that Piscean people have a lasting and deeply emotional affect on the people they choose to share their time with...the fact that they hurt people just as any other sign does is inconsequential, and my guess would be that you are harbouring feelings of pain and grief towards this person because you miss their company. Company the likes of which you will never have or feel again not even with another Pisces because we are all different and adopting such an attitude and approach to these sensitive souls is the exact reason they steer clear of you.

Piseans can sense negative energy on people like a dog smells fear, and if that energy is directed toward them whether it be their fault or not (remembering that relationships are 50/50 it's hardly ever entirely their fault) is like pointing a loaded weapon at them, no wonder they run away being dubded "cowards". That negative energy you are harbouring hurts them twice as much as it hurts you...trust me...I think it's time you took a look at yourself and let that negativity go, my bet is that person you miss so much will drift back into your life.

My only comment to this is:
Pisces have good and bad points, as do all the other signs- yes. However, having weighed the good vs the bad, I'd rather avoid the Piscean male at all costs, because for me, a relationship with one wouldn't be worth the trouble. Been there, done that...moving on!LOL

That's your choice and you are entitled to that choice...

I just fear you are cutting off your nose to spite your face in that choice because how can you expect to live life at all let alone to the fullest by choosing only to accept 11/12 pieces of the pie.

Accept things for what they are...that was him...not all piseans.

In reference to 194.

I have to say, your posts were very deep and intelligent responses to the negativity you guys get. And I have to agree with you in a lot of ways.

But in my experience, I have to say also, most male Pisceans do lie and cheat? I have met and been involved with most signs, and as you say, every sign has good and bad, but pisceans just seem to have this characteristic? I have never even gone out with these people, I have just watched them hurt their partners (this is probably why I know so much - Re: cheating LOL).

Why is that? I'm not sure if you are a male or female - whatever the reason - maybe they are too sensitive to commitment?

Anyhow I just thought I would comment on this - Have to go now. Bye Bye

You guys just don't get it. EVERY SIGN HAS ITS GOOD AND BAD. Obvioslly we have made and impact on you or someone you know. I know plenty of ahole caps, gems, virgos and I could go on. Stop hating on fishes and try to understand and not be understood. Most of use are healers and come equiped with a intuitive gift. Some will use it for the good and some will use it for manipulation getting exactlly what they want then moving on -but again this is an individual choice. NO ONE IS PERFECT- not even the ones who constantly want to judge use fish. Most fish represent what brings out the best in you- believe it or not. We may have cheated you or hurt you- but it could have easily been a scorpio or an leo, in the end there will always be something about that fish that you will always yern for and that is the very reason for the resentment. Please look within and before you cast a stone know that you to have done something that you are not too proud of. If you know a fish and you are really true to self and love with a sincere heart, we will know it and sense it even before you open your mouth, if we sense good we will never let you down. Spoken form a true old souled fish :-)

hey,, u say Piceans can sence negative energy?? what about all the love that is cherished on them,, Im a very stable taurus and u think my pices man be ready to comit,, to a really sensible loving, and exciting realtionship.. whats holds 'em back>— where is the common sence and love that they are known for??.. im 50 so no more childrens games,, u understand,,,time to settle

hey,, u say Piceans can sence negative energy?? what about all the love that is cherished on them,, Im a very stable taurus and u think my pices man be ready to comit,, to a really sensible loving, and exciting realtionship.. whats holds 'em back>— where is the common sence and love that they are known for??.. im 50 so no more childrens games,, u understand,,,time to settle

I cannot say what holds that particular fish back (stable Taurus) I can only say that you like a few others have once again replied to this topic with a certain aire of resentment (negativity)in your tone of writing...!!!

This is exactly what I'm talking about right there in your reply...I can sense you "may" well be a stable loving Taurus but I can "definatley" sense that once again your reply is all about what you feel you are entitled to as a result of that love you have showed and bestowed upon your Pisces man...giving rise to a negative attitude toward him.

For him to be with you is "his" choice, NOT yours...regardless of how much love you have bestowed upon that person.

People fall in love with people all the time, but that doesn't mean that the feelings are mutual and this may be the crux of this entire discusion that I have just realised...

Pisces are almost selfless people. We are almost etherial beings that live on a physical plane, unworldly and almost out of their place here on earth. Our chameleon like behaviour is testiment to this and we are as you will all agree masters of deseption if we "need" be.

The bulk of the comments are comming from fixed sign people who are very self assured as a result but are being hurt so yes maybe you are right...you should steer clear of the up in the air type Pisces as a precautionary step...BUT...

Building protective walls around yourselves and choosing not to accept people for what "they are" is short sightedness and in my opinion only highlights your insecurity. Get over the fact that life hurts because it does, we "all" know this.

In all these pionts and arguments raised not one of the plaintifs have questioned the depth and quality of that piscean love they recieved...yet all have have felt the need to warn people about the pain, grief and dissapiontment of whatis in my opinion life moving on in the future...

Now if that doesn't highlight my origional piont of people holding on to negative energy and grief, causing clouded judgement...I just don't know what else I can say...except...

Smile...it's infectious and it spreads positive energy...try it, you'll be surprised.

I really like your posts 204, you are beautiful.

Thank you 210...you are very kind and I am immediatley drawn to positive response...

May I ask your sun & moon sign...?

Its a bit dubious, Im libran with a gemini moon! Im going over to answer your new post. Stay positive and thanks for your posts.

That WAS a great post 204....We need to live life like there's no tomorrow. Embrace every moment if you will. Life is too short for so much hatred and anger in any sign. Thank you🙂

Oh! Durrie,

Your are one heck of a person!!!!!!!!!!!

Everything you have written on this board is a blessing. What wisdom!!!

You are LOVE in it's finest form. I hope you stick around! You make me think!

Susan
Libra/Scorpio Cusp
Libra Moon

I'm Sorry 198 that you feel that way, now ask yourself a serious question, does feeling that way about pisces make you feel any better about yourself? Your the only person that knows the answer to that, be honest with yourself.

Hello I've been married to a Pisces guy for 8 years now. Just want to say I am still not sure exactly what kind of person he is and what he does 🙂🙂 in life, or how to handle him. But as someone said, fixed types can't bear this but myself being mutable also (sag) I guess I have learned to cope with all a Pisces male can offer 🙂🙂 It is a challenge, at least 🙂 which goes well with us Sags... Mixed in with a bit of fun, I guess it is OK...

Oh, and I forgot to say, at least you constantly have to develop your mind, intuition and perception skills, in order to guess what hes gonna do next 🙂🙂which is also fine with us Sags. You dont get dumb over years to come... I am proud that I have come to the point to be able to at least SOMETIMES guess it and then I feel awfully good 🙂🙂 Anyone comments...

After reading all of these messages I feel like everyone needs Astrology 101
Enjoy.

About Signs
& Horoscopes
(continued)
The Individual Horoscope:
The horoscope of an individual is essentially a circular diagram of our sun with its rotating planets, drawn for the time and date of birth and taken from the point of view of the birthplace. The positions of the sun, moon and each of the planets in the solar system is mathematically calculated and placed around the wheel according to its precise position just as a map is drawn. This replica of the solar system offers images that tell the story of our history, character development, early life conflicts, natural gifts and what we offer the world in which we live. An individually drawn horoscope is far more informative than a sun sign book or a newspaper column in describing who we really came into the world to be.
The time of an individual's birth can be used to calculate what is known as the Ascendant, or Rising sign. We are looking for the zodiac sign that was ascending on the eastern horizon at the moment of the first breath. It symbolizes how we are likely to approach anything new throughout life. The Ascendant often describes the circumstances of our literal birth and earliest months of life. The appearance and traits of one's rising sign is usually visible as a characteristic style of behavior. It is worn much as we wear clothing, both as protection and as a way to move about in the world. As we come to know another individual better, the signs of the sun, moon, and the planets of the horoscope become more apparent.

Astrologers can compare the present positions of the planets to those of the original horoscope. The interpretation of this overlaid imagery is the astrological art of prediction. We look at the orbits of the planets as representations of the multiple cycles we are living. We experience love, career, self-esteem, financial conditions and health in cycles, to name only a few. To "read" a horoscope, astrologers begin by studying the original pattern at birth in the solar system. We then examine the present geometrical arrangement of planets and observe their relationships to the individual's primal model. Usually some cycles are on the rise while others have passed their peak of performance and are in a "falling" pattern. These images translate into increasing or decreasing energy of a particular life concern and the trajectory tells the story.

Your Zodiac Sign:
Contrary to popular belief, the sun sign is not who you are, but who you are becoming during this existence. Some people identify firmly with their sign and others do not. The variations are usually related to whether the moon or any of the planets were in the same section of the zodiac as the sun at birth. If the sun's sign has the support of one or more planets, an individual is more likely to recognize himself in the trait description. It is fairly common for a person to feel affinity for the sign preceding or following the birth sign. This is due to the fact that the planets Mercury and Venus are often located one sign away from the sun and the traits they represent may "confuse" the issue.

Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) are warm, enthusiastic and outgoing. They need a lot of fuel and therefore are constantly on the search for something new to "feed" them. Other signs must often create boundaries in order to prevent the fire signs from absorbing all the resources and space in the vicinity. One cannot really find fault with this, as the fire signs are usually quite unaware of the effects of their massive energy. When they reach a clearly defined edge drawn by another sign, they rarely take offense, and readily move in another direction. The fire signs are very intuitive and rely heavily on an element of luck which seems to be always with them. Fires often attract Earths to stabilize and center them.



Arie