Insight on why Pisces man lost interest?

I don't think the sex part has much to do with him losing interest. He probably thinks your playing games with the text message situation. Don't read into thus too much though.

Pisces men generally like aggressive women. I don't know if your into that. If not, you might just want to fall back for a bit and let him come to you.

So by aggressive, do you think I should contact him once more and maybe give an indication of my feelings? I haven't done so yet as I don't want to scare him off completely. I'm pretty sure I won't hear from him again but I don't want to possibly miss an opportunity by not telling him how I feel. I do actually feel quite upset about the whole thing as I really liked him...

Looks like everything his going great he's probably just busy give him more time and when you see him he'll tell you why he's haven't respond to you lately.

Posted by capripants
So by aggressive, do you think I should contact him once more and maybe give an indication of my feelings? I haven't done so yet as I don't want to scare him off completely. I'm pretty sure I won't hear from him again but I don't want to possibly miss an opportunity by not telling him how I feel. I do actually feel quite upset about the whole thing as I really liked him...

I know its tempting to tell him your feelings and that will have to be your decision. I definitely wouldn't do it via text. If you want to share, wait for the right time to do it in-person.

Communicating emotions via text can come off as confusing or airy fairy, especially if you neither one of you has expressed those type of feelings before. This has been my experience. Men don't handle feelings the way we do, even the sensitive ones. He has to acknowledge your existance before you open up and share your feelings.

If you contact, be neutral. Show no emotion. No I miss you etc. I know its banal. But if you beliebe he is being distant, even if he likes you, the best thing to do is mirror his behaviour.

I know my approach might seem a little cold. I've experienced similar situations with a few guys in the past year. They all liked me. But i still ended up dissapointed, either b/c they were emotionally unavailable or just not mature enough to deal with the challenges of a relationship. I just don't want you to put all your feelings on the line and end up hurt if he chooses not to reciprocate.

Yes I agree, that's what's held me back in contacting him these last few days, I just feel now that I'm not going to hear from again. And if there was the slightest chance it was because he thought I wasn't interested I didn't want to pass that up. But when I think about it, I initiated all the contact and dates the last couple of weeks and he just wasn't with it. Don't know what I did wrong! It's hard to comprehend as I keep thinking about what he told me about his past relationships and it seemed what we had was ideal in comparison. Oh well, his loss. Thanks for the advice 🙂

Posted by capripants

I thought we were on the same page regarding where we wanted it to go.

you're not .... so grow some fucking dignity and step away

dj presented reality to you rather concisely and your response was to make excuses for why you failed yourself, by your own choices, while attempting to proclaim that his accusation was the reason why you're a bad director for your life.

How ignorant of you.

Then you proceed to discuss ways to manipulate the presence of your feelings with him.



You are completely out of your element ... you should probably get a grip and pull away before your REAL feelings get hurt.