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Pisces Men In the Bed
Understanding Pisces Men in the Bedroom
Pisces men are often gentle and affectionate, preferring emotional connection over aggression. Their intimacy may vary based on mood and comfort, and they often enjoy cuddling and emotional closeness. Changes in bedroom behavior are common and usually reflect their desire for emotional bonding rather than disinterest.
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He needs a break from all the banging. Chill out and learn how to cuddle.
Posted by LunarMaiden
He needs a break from all the banging. Chill out and learn how to cuddle.
Well thats the thing.... There hasn't been much "banging" to take a break from. There has been much more cuddling in the last 6-7 months than "banging". Hence, my asking.
Posted by MissFisk
He's getting lazy. Crack a whip on that ass. 😈Or just surprise him with something sexy...
Lol. Yea.... It feels like that might be the issue. Hmmmm.... When I see him next weekend I will try something new. Maybe that will get things on track a bit. Lol.
Tizi - I agree, I dont think it's just a man thing. I know I have gotten lazy or just gone through stages when I have not felt as frisky. But I am just used to the man being a little more hands on. Lol.
Posted by juke
be seductive and stimulate his imagination. taking off your clothes slowly and approaching them in bed on all fours like a good kitty. and plenty of eye contact. slow and sexy. that stuff always turns me on.
Hmmm..... A good kitty.... Hmmm... I think I can do that. Ha! Yes, I think he prefers things slow much better.
Posted by natural25
Tizi - I agree, I dont think it's just a man thing. I know I have gotten lazy or just gone through stages when I have not felt as frisky. But I am just used to the man being a little more hands on. Lol.Fair play. I understand.
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Riiiiight. I dont want it to get to a point where the passion is completely gone or where I dont feel desired. That is my concern.
Posted by LunarMaiden
He needs a break from all the banging. Chill out and learn how to cuddle.Well thats the thing.... There hasn't been much "banging" to take a break from. There has been much more cuddling in the last 6-7 months than "banging". Hence, my asking.
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You've been friendzoned?
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensity
Posted by LunarMaiden
He needs a break from all the banging. Chill out and learn how to cuddle.Well thats the thing.... There hasn't been much "banging" to take a break from. There has been much more cuddling in the last 6-7 months than "banging". Hence, my asking.
You've been friendzoned?
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I would think that except for him talking about marriage and constantly bringing me around his family and his mother talking about marriage too. Hmmm....
Posted by libragemmale
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensity
This is where it gets crazy. He has Sag in Mars!! WTH!?!?
Posted by libragemmale
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensityThis is where it gets crazy. He has Sag in Mars!! WTH!?!?
one down. now learn about his venus, the things that attract him.
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He has Pisces in Venus. I am going to read about that placement now.
Starlover - I was going to say something about being on all fours but I am going to refrain. Lol. Smh.
Posted by libragemmale
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensityThis is where it gets crazy. He has Sag in Mars!! WTH!?!?
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That's not an aggressive placement.
More philosophical. He's probably just thinking about the future.
What exactly do you want? More sex or more aggressive sex?
Posted by libragemmale
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensityThis is where it gets crazy. He has Sag in Mars!! WTH!?!?
That's not an aggressive placement.
More philosophical. He's probably just thinking about the future.What exactly do you want? More sex or more aggressive sex?
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We could start off with more sex in general, and yes, maybe he could be a little more aggressive. I feel so terrible saying this... Lol. Smh.
Posted by libragemmale
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensityThis is where it gets crazy. He has Sag in Mars!! WTH!?!?
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that's my husband's mars. It's very good IMO
what house is it in? does that even matter? Lmao
Based on what I have read so far, it seems like he might respond to very soft and feminine qualities and behaviors. I am very feminine, probably hyper feminine but I do have a strong personality. I am outgoing and talkative. I am very social and I move quickly. Maybe I need to slow it down and quiet down a little bit in the bed room. In stead of red silk... I need to think pink silk... Lol.
I think he enjoys and is highly attracted to the woman I am outside of the bedroom, but he might respond better to something a little different while intimate.
Posted by starlover
One of my exes Mars is in Sag...he didnt have a very strong libido either
lmao
well dayuuuum, star...how many guys in how many placements have you had? 😄
Posted by libragemmale
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensityThis is where it gets crazy. He has Sag in Mars!! WTH!?!?
that's my husband's mars. It's very good IMO
what house is it in? does that even matter? Lmao
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I have no idea what house its in OR if it matters. I suck at that stuff. LOL.
Posted by starlover
One of my exes Mars is in Sag...he didnt have a very strong libido either
Hmmm... this is starting to make sense.
Posted by MissFisk
Pisces in Venus or Mars softens up a man. It's just not a masculine placement. So if you like the aggressive type, it might just fall short...
uh not my ex husband.
he was a Pisces sun AND mars with mercury too.
he was in no way soft. he was very masculine, but it could be the venus aries and leo moon combo.
Posted by MissFisk
Pisces in Venus or Mars softens up a man. It's just not a masculine placement. So if you like the aggressive type, it might just fall short...
Yea.... I am learning and it's OK. I love him and him not being aggressive in the bed is not even close to being a deal breaker. As long as I know it's not me. Lol. But I am going to use your lingerie idea! Lol. 🙂
My bf is very masculine. VERY masculine. But when it comes to sex, he softens up a bit. Also, I have observed his sensitivity which he might try to use his masculinity as a defense mechanism so he will not get hurt or appear vulnerable.
Posted by natural25
My bf is very masculine. VERY masculine. But when it comes to sex, he softens up a bit. Also, I have observed his sensitivity which he might try to use his masculinity as a defense mechanism so he will not get hurt or appear vulnerable.EXACTLY... Chest puffed out and chin held high. But they are teddy bears in bed.
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Awww bless his little, sweet, precious heart! I feel like a real Scorpio bitch now. LOL. Smh.
Lol. True. I have really held back on some of the stuff I like and have not shared it with him, for fear that he would judge me. LOL. But I understand the appropriate approach to take now.
Posted by tiziani
Tell him something outrageous. Like you were just thinking about banging the postman out of boredom. Ah wait, he's not an Aqua.
I was with an Aquarius sun man and he doesn't like outrageous stupid shit like that.
Posted by libragemmale
find out what his Mars sign is , ther in lies the key to his sexual behavior and intensityThis is where it gets crazy. He has Sag in Mars!! WTH!?!?
that's my husband's mars. It's very good IMO
what house is it in? does that even matter? LmaoI have no idea what house its in OR if it matters. I suck at that stuff. LOL.
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i dont know if it matters either. but is your man good in bed?
Posted by tiziani
Tell him something outrageous. Like you were just thinking about banging the postman out of boredom. Ah wait, he's not an Aqua.
Yea... I don't think that would go over well with him. Lol. AT ALL!!!!
lisabethur8 - Excellent! I hear sirens when we make love **Beyonce** LOL. But seriously, he is very good.
Posted by natural25
lisabethur8 - Excellent! I hear sirens when we make love **Beyonce** LOL. But seriously, he is very good.
it's that Sag Mars. lmao!!
😉
i guess you want it EVERY day huh? Every night and when you wake up, and go to bed.
scoot yourself up to him and wiggle. ^_^
i dont know why but this song came up to me:
Posted by tiziani
Tell him something outrageous. Like you were just thinking about banging the postman out of boredom. Ah wait, he's not an Aqua.I was with an Aquarius sun man and he doesn't like outrageous stupid shit like that.
Interesting that you infer that you tried nonetheless. I admire your courage.
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no i never did. I know better not to. it's called being intuitive about your partner.
Posted by tiziani
Tell him something outrageous. Like you were just thinking about banging the postman out of boredom. Ah wait, he's not an Aqua.Yea... I don't think that would go over well with him. Lol. AT ALL!!!!
Who dares wins 😄
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Trust me when I say, that would be suicide. LOL.
Posted by starlover
One of my exes Mars is in Sag...he didnt have a very strong libido eitherlmao
well dayuuuum, star...how many guys in how many placements have you had? 😄I havent had many guys at all 😄....but the two that *STAND OUT* LOL have Venus in Aries.... phew 😉
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ohhhh is this gonna big a boast? 😛 Okaaayyy. well Scorpio venus hands down. Oh you have one! Lol!
shhhhh
be a boast*
my man's placements vs. yours.
bigger and badder. Ohhhh yeaah!
lisabethur83,
More like this....
Posted by natural25
lisabethur83,More like this....
sexy! ^_^
i dont see why he's not standing to attention w/ those kind of moves.
duchessedenemours - True. Also, I am now beginning to come to a greater understanding (through this thread) of who he is. When it comes down to it, he's just a super sexual person...
lisabethur83 - Well... I haven't gotten those exact moves down just yet! LMAO. If I could move like that, I would be trying to make some money off of it. LOL. I kid... I kid...
Posted by duchessedenemours
I think that in the beginning there is always more sex. Those levels can't be kept up forever. It's not that anything else has changed. Life just happens!bullshit. when i'm in a relationship we have sex at least once a day every single day even when there is fighting. there is never any excuse to neglect the physical side of things just because you get comfortable.
but i also have an aries stellium and a scorpio stellium so maybe i'm not normal. shrug.
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Funny, those also happen to be the exact placements of ILSA, She-Wolf of the SS!
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Girl, you have got to learn to take it slow and sweet. Make love, baby. You can do it. 😛Then when he's angry at the world, let him take it out on you.
TMI?
Not TMI at all. I love that. I will have to use that quote. "Then when he is angry at the world, let him take it out on you." Me likey...
Posted by tiziani
"When you make love to a woman, you get to take revenge for all the ways in which life has defeated you." - ElegyI like that tiz, but i would change the make love to when you have sex...making love has a different energy in my eyes
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And I would change it to "when you fuck a woman".
Guess we're all differently wired that way. 😉
Tomato, tomahto.... Either way. I like it!
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Girl, you have got to learn to take it slow and sweet. Make love, baby. You can do it. 😛Then when he's angry at the world, let him take it out on you.
TMI?
Not TMI at all. I love that. I will have to use that quote. "Then when he is angry at the world, let him take it out on you." Me likey...
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+1
Hiiiiii PhoenixRising!!! 🙂
Posted by natural25
My Pisces and I have been going strong for almost ten months. :-) I am happy with the relationship. However, I have noticed that he is not as aggressive in the bedroom as he was when we first met. We see each other on the weekends and we are intimate one to two times in a two to four day span. It seems a little infrequent.I have asked him about it and he said sometimes he likes to just lay and cuddle with me, which is very sweet. I do not think he is cheating. I think he very well might be telling the truth. Imagine that! Lol.
Pisces men, can you relate? Women, have you had similar experiences with a Pisces man?
This make no since to me if you was my girl I would be humping you like a rabbit real talk. Maybe he is gay lol.
Posted by natural25
My Pisces and I have been going strong for almost ten months. :-) I am happy with the relationship. However, I have noticed that he is not as aggressive in the bedroom as he was when we first met. We see each other on the weekends and we are intimate one to two times in a two to four day span. It seems a little infrequent.I have asked him about it and he said sometimes he likes to just lay and cuddle with me, which is very sweet. I do not think he is cheating. I think he very well might be telling the truth. Imagine that! Lol.
Pisces men, can you relate? Women, have you had similar experiences with a Pisces man?
This make no since to me if you was my girl I would be humping you like a rabbit real talk. Maybe he is gay lol.
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No, he is not gay. I think as we have discussed above, every man has a different libido and responds in different ways to intimacy.
**not laughing**
Posted by natural25
Hiiiiii PhoenixRising!!! 🙂
Hey Sunshine! Looking good in that avi
Posted by natural25
**not laughing**
In true Scorp fashion. Defend your man!
Posted by natural25
Hiiiiii PhoenixRising!!! 🙂Hey Sunshine! Looking good in that avi
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this sexy thread still up? lol 😛 I agree w/ you, PR, her photo looks tiny; she looks 5'2, or 5'1
I dont know about mind sex, but caressing and massaging works wonders. ^___^ *g*
those Asian massage parlours know what they're doing!
Posted by natural25
Hiiiiii PhoenixRising!!! 🙂Hey Sunshine! Looking good in that avi
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Lol! Awww thanks sweet pea!! Yup, I am tall glass of water. Lol.
Yea... I am going to have to slow it down a little bit and there is nothing wrong with that. I am actually excited to try this new slow and sweet approach out. LOL.
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My Pisces and I have been going strong for almost ten months. :-) I am happy with the relationship. However, I have noticed that he is not as aggressive in the bedroom as he was when we first met. We see each other on the weekends and we are intimate one to two times in a two to four day span. It seems a little infrequent.
I have asked him about it and he said sometimes he likes to just lay and cuddle with me, which is very sweet. I do not think he is cheating. I think he very well might be telling the truth. Imagine that! Lol.
Pisces men, can you relate? Women, have you had similar experiences with a Pisces man?