PISCES MAN, WILL HE COME BACK?

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by Cmaa16 on Sunday, March 16, 2014 and has 9 replies.

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@Cmaa16
12 Years

I am Aries man and I dated a Pisces man for 4 weeks, it was the must marvellous time I ever had with anyone, we had this perfect connection that seemed to be blessed by God himself. On the 4th week a series of unfortunate events started happening in his family, and also in mine, so we were both going through this very tough time. I never stopped checking how he was feeling, how everything was going on for him. But it seemed he needed SPACE, and I didn't quite understand that, I noticed he was a bit distant and that drove me crazy. I started asking if he was ok, what was going on and all sort of questions, he told me it was all fine, but I didnt understand he just needed time and space, also I was having a hard time myself. After a couple of messages and some little arguments he told me he felt different about me and that he doesn't think we are compatible. This broke my heart in a million pieces, and I am one of those that never give up. So I kept on texting him, calling him, etc etc, I acted very needy and pushy. I actually went to his work place and waited for him outside with his favourite flowers, and when I managed to talk to him he told me he needed space and he needed to find how he feel about US. Although, after I left he texted me saying that he didnt think his feelings were changing and that I must STOP contacting him. So I didnt write anymore until his bday (2 weeks ago), and I invited him to the theatre but he never replied until now. He said I put a lot of pressure on him. But I could tell he really liked me, he was absolutely amazed by me, at least that is what he said. We are both the same age and live in the same city. I am just scared that I screwed everything up. Will he ever be back—?

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@Cmaa16
12 Years

By the way, he was the one who un-friend me on facebook, he was the one that stopped talking to me, he was the one that blocked me on this website we met. Is he going to come back?

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@bloodflood
12 Years500+ Posts

well i know from personal experience with a pisces man, they generally speak in riddles. indirect and roundabout. but if he's telling you to stop contacting him outright... no ifs or buts about it, then i can only assume that's truly what he means. and besides, you guys have only known each other for 4 weeks...

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@hydorah
13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

we come and we leave this world alone, so play it cool and move on.
And I'm pretty sure this has nothing to do with him being pisces. If he doesn't want to contact you then tell yourself than you're worth better than that. You don't owe him understanding.

Also, do men really offer each others flowers? Never heard of that.

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@RoseAngel81
12 Years

He prob wont come back.

I had similar with a pisces guy....tough time on life but not so tough for him to date someone else.

I suspect as he's removed you from social media that he doesn't want you seeing things. ..probably that he's seeing someone else.

even my pisces guy didnt delete me from WhatsApp etc.

I think your guy met someone else. If they break up he may he back but dont count on it.

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@Cmaa16
12 Years

What I am doing at the moment is giving him space, all the time in the world, I thought of sending him a message saying, 'I am giving you all the space you need, I just want you to know I will be here always waiting for you'. i really like this guy and I know he is got feelings for me, he just seems to be swimming away from me as I put too much pressure on him

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@Cmaa16
12 Years

Posted by ZQKES
For me personally (keyword: personally), if I tell someone to stop contacting me, it's because I need some time alone. Sometimes I just realized that there are so many things left to do and not enough time - in which case I just need to go somewhere and work through these things.

Give him some time alone. Once he's ready - and if he does indeed still have feelings for you - he will contact you.

Is this a very typical of a Pisces to suddenly just change their mind? How long does it take then before they make any contact again?

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@RoseAngel81
12 Years

Posted by Cmaa16
What I am doing at the moment is giving him space, all the time in the world, I thought of sending him a message saying, 'I am giving you all the space you need, I just want you to know I will be here always waiting for you'. i really like this guy and I know he is got feelings for me, he just seems to be swimming away from me as I put too much pressure on him

No don't do that. It smacks of desperation....knowing you're sitting around waiting for him.

When my pisces guy swam away he did not delete from any social media and seems ok with friendly contact.

My second pisces guy said he didnt want to date for now but he has and continues to pursue friendly contact. He left me on Facebook and said he likes me alot.

Your has actually told you not to contact him....which part of that didnt you understand?

Easier said than done but leave it alone