Libra man confused about Pisces Girl

I need some help in understanding this amazingly sweet and beautiful Pisces girl at work I am interested in!

We have been working together for more than 6 months now and each day I feel like I am falling for her more than ever. To be honest I fell for her the first day I saw her when she looked at me and smiled and approached me to introduce her. We spoke for a bit and I asked for her number which she gave. I called her a few days after and we only spoke for a few minutes. Later I offered her a ride to an office lunch which she accepted. The day of the lunch she told me that she would be going with someone else from her department. I gathered that she was not interested in me anymore so I moved on ??_.. few weeks later fate brought us in a situation where we were to work closely together??_.I was kinda cocky at first and kept my distance from her but it seemed like she wanted to come close to me??_.I always felt this connection with her and I am sure she does the same way but she is extremely shy and aloof. I tried talking to her alone once but she blew me off saying that —she has got a lot on her plate right now?? so I didn't bother being too pushy.

One day, we had a work related confrontation where it was her fault but I totally lost my temper. Anyway, the same day I cornered her into a room and asked her to have a few words with me alone. I apologized for my behavior earlier on and told her how much I liked her and wanted to invite her over to my place for dinner. She didn't say much other than that she is already in a serious relationship and she offered to be —friends—?_. I told her that if she ever changed her mind she should let me know and that this whole conversation will not affect our working relationship??_??_We continued to talk and act professionally.

Recently, the two of us were running this food sale organized by our team. We were pretty much alone in the hall way. I being the Libra guy started flirting with her as if there was no tomorrow??_. She responded in her own little subtle Piscean ways??_.she got a little touchy-feely and constantly brushed her hands against mine and there were times when she would look straight into my eyes??_.. I reciprocated her actions by flirting more and —accidentally?? holding her above her waist as I was making my way out of a tight space on one occasion and I could feel her melt like butter??_..she didn't say anything. Later I wanted to test the waters and invited her over for drinks at my place for some one on one time which she refused. A few days ago, I went all out and bought her some nice Xmas gifts??_..she texts me Xmas day and tells me she really likes the gifts and it was really nice and thoughtful of me and the that the gifts were way too much??_.She also tries to call me but unfortunately I couldn't answer the phone??_??_. Next morning I text her telling her not to worry about the gifts as being too much because she is too special and proceeded with an open ended question to which she never responded. I called her twice and left her a message and she hasn't called me back??_.. I am on vacation right now so I won't be seeing her for another few days.


An interesting piece of information:

She doesn't have the best taste in shoes and once I made a light remark on that by saying —nice shoes?? and she responded by laughing and admitted that shes horrible when it comes to shoes. So one of the Xmas gifts was a gift card from a shoe store on which I wrote — A little something for those pretty feet—?_. I thought it would be a nice inside joke??_.I hope she didn't get offended by it considering that Pisces easily get hurt.


I am really confused about this Pisces girl??_..She is blowing hot and cold on me??_I thought Libras were known for that kind of act. I am not very good with feelings but I think once I get emotionally tied up with someone I really care for them and don't want to hurt them especially this ultra sensitive Pisces girl??_. I am sure she has been hurt before in her past relationships and I certainly don't want to hurt her more by acting like an idiot. Should I just let her go? Am I reading too much into this? Please help me understand! Is she using me? Thanks.

"She didn't say much other than that she is already in a serious relationship and she offered to be —friends—?_"



Why are you so persistently chasing a taken woman?

Pisces people aren't so sensitive that they will ignore this kind of behaviour in a man .... she has a man already, and you are banging on her door.

If your aim is to gain her respect, then I suggest you back off. You've already told her that if and when she is available, that you are waiting for her, so, for now, let her be to live.

Thanks for your reply, P-Angel.... I know I should back off... that's the first thing I did after we had our little convo but then how do you explain her getting touchy feely with me.... the eye contact and the constant coming back and getting attention act? She is giving me mixed signals.... maybe she is not happy in her current relationship? May be she is? But one thing for sure is that she is extremely shy and I want her to open up if she wants to..... My question is will a Pisces girl be that upfront to come and tell me that she is ready to dump her current bf and go out with me? Or do they have a special way of letting you know how they feel about you? This is the first time I am romantically involved with a Pisces girl and I understand they are consoled creatures but I think I am getting emotionally drained with all this hide and seek.

Thanks for the help, seavixen2. I am sure there are a lot more truthseekers out there other than me.... :o)

Hmm. Well, I'm a Pisces woman with a Libra man, so hopefully I can give you something to think about.

She's clearly one of us warm, sensitive, touchy-feely type Pisces. And yes, Pisces DO engage in harmless flirting. It's fun, it's flattering, it feels good. Doesn't mean we're going to leave our lover for a new one, though. But I wouldn't say direct eye contact is necessarily flirting - it's showing interest in what you are saying. We Pisces love words - we use them to weigh and measure against our impressions and feelings and intuitions, to see what matches up and what's underneath - for all kinds of relationships, not just romantic ones. We need both ACTIONS *and* WORDS. You're a Libra, probably a great communicator, great at talking -- and she finds it POLITE to look at a person directly when they are talking. She's a deep, gentle, somewhat mysterious, aloof, and enigmatic soul... I'd be more inclined to think coy, sidelong glances are flirting - esp with a Pisces. Actually, my deepest emotions bubbling up tend to get caught in my throat, unable to come out as words, and I tend to break eye contact and look away... my Libra doesn't understand this about me. I mean, sure he realizes it's part of me, and he simply touches my chin and turns me back towards him. So he comprehends, and knows what to do to get the direct eye contact he's wanting, but he's NOT the same way. To him, it's EASY to just spit out words, whatever you're thinking, the good, the bad, and the ugly. He feels actions speak louder than words, and sometimes neglects speaking the words because he feels his actions are showing what he hasn't said. But me, I need the words to back the actions, to know my perceptions aren't off, to know I'm not reading more into something, or misinterpreting something. I have to weigh and measure, the tangibles and intangibles, to reach my conclusions. Therefore, what I SAY (because I do not throw words around lightly, and consider them very important) carries far more weight than any interpretation you might make on my actions. LISTEN to what she's SAYING -- if she's moved to SAY it, it is very, very important to her. And she SAYS, "I have a boyfriend. I can only be your friend. Thank you for the gifts, but you spent too much." She's speaking TRUTH to you, truth you are ignoring because you have feelings for her, and you hope she's developing feelings for you too.

Is that why you ask about "using"? Because of the expensive gifts? That's all on YOU buddy - YOU spent the money, knowing she's got a man already. She accepted them as gifts, because she liked them, and because refusing gifts is terribly rude to us. (I'm pretty sure she didn't ASK you to buy her the gifts, right?) I actually dated a guy many years ago, who several weeks into casual dating, not even intimacy or sex - bought me a platinum and Australian turquoise ring for my birthday - very beautiful. And very expensive, about $ 1,700. I was mortified - I did not feel it was an appropriate gift for a guy I'd gone out on a few dates with, and was just getting to know. But yes, I accepted the gift - it would have been rude of me not to, and as a Pisces my pleasure is in the gifting not receiving, so I figured it would really hurt a very nice guy if I refused. Several weeks later, because he was not listenting to me insisting over and over that I STILL was not ready for more than casual FRIENDLY dates, I broke everything off, and returned the ring - despite him insisting I keep it. I wasn't playing games with him, and I wasn't blowing hot and cold - I TOLD him all along that I was not ready for a relationship. But after I (foolishly) accepted the ring, he DID seem to think that washed away all of my words, and I had to get really insistent that it did not. You're doing the same thing he did, bucko. Misinterpreting warmth and friendliness and flirting... and accepting an expensive gift.. as a sign of deeper feelings that just aren't there!


She has told you very clearly that she is in a relationship. Her accidental hand-brushes, and "melting" into you touching her side, and her looking at you when you talk... that's not more than casual flirting, especially coupled with the fact that she clearly told you she's unavailable for anything but friendship. It seems to me that you're taking her warm friendliness and possible mild flirtations to mean much, much more than they do. I don't feel that she's harboring some secret fantasy or attraction for you. You are projecting your own feelings onto her, interpreting her every action to be what you want it to be, possibly because if YOU did those things it would be because you have feelings for someone. But she is NOT a Libra... she does not flirt or express her feelings like a Libra. She's a Pisces, and does things very, very differently from you.

Understandable; you like the girl. What's NOT so understandable; she told youbasically to back off the romantic angle, that she's taken... but you keep pushing. Asking her over for drinks, some intimate one-on-one time?! Are you mental? Of course she refused - she's not single!! But you are seeing what you want to see, out of hopeful desire to have more with this girl. You are flat out ignoring the things you DON'T want to see/hear, focusing only on those that support your desire/wish that she wants more than friendship with you.

But seriously... would you actually WANT a girl who would leave her man for a co-worker she flirted with for a few months? (Cheating/Dumping: If they'll do it WITH/FOR you, they'll do it TO you!) I'd wager my money on the sure bet - she's not interested in dating you, and will not leave her man for you. It's not how a Pisces rolls. However, I DO know that Libras tend to want most.. what they cannot have. This girl is a challenge to you, exciting, different - and it's sparking your interest and driving you higher. You can't catch her, so you'll keep chasing her. Pisces women are wonderful, aren't they? But let me warn you about something... keep pushing, and she's either going to swim away *swish* *swish* GONE... or she's gonna blow... and when she does, it will be horriffic, and then she will not even speak to you beyond what's necessary for a work atmosphere. You will drive her to it, and you will have no one to blame but yourself.

Wow! I appreciate your post, a little in your face but honest nonetheless and I thank you for that. However, it seems to me that this thread is turning into a Pisces feminist sparring ring. Listen, I respect her decision hence I never brought up the whole issue after we had the —talk??. She initiated the whole getting physical thing. I just played along and thought that maybe she is developing some interest in me. The Christmas gift idea was just a litmus test of where this would lead. It was never my intention and never will be that she —owes me?? something. To put the record straight, I gave out gifts to all the ladies in my team, it was just that hers happen to be a little extra and meaningful.

But when you Pisces ladies say —harmless flirting??, I don't agree with that at all! How can she be —harmlessly flirting?? with me when she knows that I have feelings for her?
She is no doubt being a little c**k tease isn't she? She likes to see guys suffer, eh? Just a way of getting back at guys for breaking her fragile little heart in the past??_. Unfortunately, I am on the receiving end even tough I have good intentions and I am sincere about any future possibilities :o)

Speaking of coy sidelong glances??_. She does that from time to time as well??_ and the extended eye contact I was talking about does not happen only when we are having conversations but often take place when we are not talking at all??_..in a room full of people! She also checks me out often and when I catch her eyes she looks away.

Please don't judge me for being attracted to a —taken?? Pisces woman. I guess when you are in love with a girl you think anything??s possible??_..guys also have feelings you know. :o) The whole point of me posting here for the first time is to make sense and understand this mysterious Pisces girl. I am a pretty attractive guy and can get any girl I want ??_ if not all most of them at least most of 'em...but then isn't it true what they say about Libra; You can't choose them they choose you ??_ besides there is a lot of —FISH?? (excuse the pun) in the pond??_but somehow this girl got me. Yes, Pieces girls especially this one is special!

Oh and one piece of crucial info that I left out in my previous post was that she mentioned she was in an —on and off relationship?? ??_also she never said that she had a boyfriend but said that she is dating —someone—?_.I am beginning to feel maybe she is a lesbian if that is t

Okay - I hate it when my brain trips over something and it spills out of my fingers too fast for me to catch. The self-perfectionist in me INSISTS I correct something I mistyped.

It was an Australian OPAL, not a turquoise. Opals are my favorite gem, and he chose an AU Boulder Opal because of its rich, vibrant colors. And set it in platinum, because I wear silver - but I guess he wanted it to be expensive. BAD move, seriously. Also, he *designed* and *ordered* that (absolutely gorgeous) ring -- which also made me realize immediately that he must have done so RIGHT after we started dating, like within a week or two. Which is WAY too fast, and WAY too freaky for a skittish once-bitten twice-shy Pisces gal.

DON'T push and pressure the Pisces, truth_seeker. That never, ever works very well with us.

.....if that is the case I??ll be so pissed off with myself for wasting my time on her.

truth, hon... wow, you're a Libra. LOL

I'm NOT a feminist - I'm the epitome of feminine, not feminism LOL (I'd just about HAVE to be, to be with a Libra, don't you think? They aren't generally taken in by ball-busters!) And I was NOT judging you or looking down on you - one thing a Pisces absolutely understands is developing feelings and emotions for people! And heavens, *I* certainly support Pisces/Libra relationships - there are both soothing similarities AND exciting differences between them!

I was merely explaining that she MAY.. or she MAY NOT be actually flirting. Pisces warmth is OFTEN mistaken for more than it is, especially by typically detached Air signs. But YES, Pisces tend to flirt.. I would have actually expected YOU to understand that, especially as a LIBRA... Libras tend to be very flirtatious themselves. YES, the casual flirting you described is HARMLESS. What would NOT be "harmless" would be.. say... her accepting your invitation for private drinks... her calling you or texting you back quite often and responding in kind to your intensely flirtatious comments, instead of not answering your leading question, not taking your calls, and not returning them. She CAN'T... she's taken. The actions you describe of hers do not strike me as any sort of using, lying, man-eating and gotta keep you on the line ... you are still reading more into her (mild) possible flirtations.

Now, if it's on & off again.. bide your time, find a little patience, continue to be her friend. Your chance may come, though her straight up leaving the man for you is a very dim chance at best. Pisces tend to hang in there tooth and nail, until we simply CANNOT anymore.

Now, I know that my use of "HARMLESS flirting" got to you... because now that your emotions and feelings got involved. However.. wasn't it FUN and HARMLESS to you BEFORE? Now she's some kind of using bitch cuz she's still warm and friendly... but refuses your advances and "dates"... took the gifts YOU chose to get her and thanked you for them BUT still did not actively and openly pursue you back.. wouldn't even take or return your calls? I think she probably sees that you are getting WAY too emotionally invested in her, despite her TELLING you over and over that she's taken. Whether they're having troubles or about to break up, or whatever - she's still with him and clearly won't make a move with you while that's still on.

Listen to what she SAYS, it's important enough for her to speak it. And b

LOL I was cut off...

I was going to say: And be patient. That's what she needs... you will get further with her by NOT pressuring her.

I don't get all this getting further with her stuff.

She isn't available .. there is no further.

Here's the bottom line ... YOU are taking advantage of her being a Piscean, which equates to being extremely sensitive to people and their environment .. and then when she responds to you, as you are expecting her to respond, you then are taking this out of the intended context.

"we were to work closely together??_.I was kinda cocky at first and kept my distance from her but it seemed like she wanted to come close to me"

Of course she would come close to you .. you were acting like a dipshit for no reason. Before this, you would smile at her, give her your phone number, offer to drive her places .. then when you are working close together you decide to talk through your asshole. What did you think she was going to do when she realized that she must have done something to hurt your feelings, since you were treating her this way?



"we had a work related confrontation where it was her fault but I totally lost my temper. Anyway, the same day I cornered her into a room and asked her to have a few words with me alone. I apologized for my behavior earlier on and told her how much I liked her and wanted to invite her over to my place for dinner."

So, this time you lose your temper to where you then have to eat your pride and go apologize? I would suggest you work on controlling yourself, rather than work on how to understand another person. You ... YOU .. keep approaching her inappropriately, simply because you cannnot control yourself.


She is taken ... what part of that don't you comprehend?


You would say ... what about when she was touchy feely? Again ... YOU ... created this environment, and she is responding to YOU, as a Piscean will do.

"I being the Libra guy started flirting with her as if there was no tomorrow"



Leave her the fuck alone. 😭

"You ... YOU .. keep approaching her inappropriately, simply because you cannnot control yourself."

This is it in a nutshell ..how she responds and reacts to you when "you know" she is already taken is pretty moot. It is your own behaviour that is the confusing factor. Ask yourself this; if the shoe were on the other foot and you were both committed to each other, would you like another guy to be incessently flirting with her, trying to pull her away? You have to look at both sides. Keep some integrity and find someone single and appropriate. Whether she IS happy or not is not your concern either, let her find her own way unencumbered and "respect" the relationship she is in. Pisces will respect you "alot" more for that, anyway ..

G/luck ..

I feel like I am swimming in a pool full of SHARKS rather than cute little FISH or mermaids for that matter??_haha!

Why do you guys have such a hatred for Libra men? Come on, we are not that bad??_.in fact we get along with most signs. :o)

I think Nefer and searaven2 have been the most helpful to me with their posts.

P-Angel, I found your replies to be the most unhelpful till now??_. You have been beating this message of —LEAVE HER ALONE, LEAVE HER ALONE!?? all along your posts.
I want to leaver her alone but she keeps coming back to me and giving me mixed messages.
Are you speaking from experience? Did a Libra man break your heart? If so, then I think you are clouding your judgment based on your personal experience and you see all Libra men as incurable cheats who are out to hurt your Piscean sisterhood. See, I don't blindly believe in this Astrology stuff although, I think it is a good indicator of some personality traits but there are other factors such as upbringing, education, life experiences and so on that shape you as an individual.
In a nutshell you can't classify all Libra men or Pisces women in a single category based on a few interactions or stuff that is floating around on the web.

Now, coming back to your post:

—when she responds to you, as you are expecting her to respond, you then are taking this out of the intended context.??

This doesn't really make sense??_..so you are saying that if she —harmlessly?? flirts with me then I should think that she is doing that just because she thinks that I think I want her to flirt with me? If that is the case then why wouldn't she return my calls since I definitely want her to return my calls??_. Man! P-Angel are you on crack when you right this stuff? —Cos it sure doesn't make sense to me??_. :o)

—So, this time you lose your temper to where you then have to eat your pride and go apologize? I would suggest you work on controlling yourself, rather than work on how to understand another person. You ... YOU .. keep approaching her inappropriately, simply because you cannnot control yourself.??

Yes, I did apologize because I REALIZED I was wrong to come down hard on her EVEN though it was her fault ??_.I found out later that she was a Piscean and would have never acted that way —cos I now know most of them are extremely sensitive ??_. And this —mistake?? of hers was intentional??_. I am sure she wanted to get a reaction out of me??_. You probably know it is very hard to drive a Libra over the edge and when we do we go bananas, although that day I didn't go bananas I was borderline bananas.

— She is taken ... what part of that don't you comprehend—

Like I said I understand that and I respect her decision but if she keeps screwing with my mind then I will screw with hers and keep her guessing as well.

"I being the Libra guy started flirting with her as if there was no tomorrow"

Yes, I did start some verbal flirting with her that day??_ but SHE initiated the physical flirting/contact and to any mature guy that qualifies as a sign of interest especially if it is coming from a woman.

Let*It*Be, what's up with this truthseeker_10 stuff? :o) I got asked this the second time??_.Why would I be going around and posting random stuff in other forums—? I have a job and friends and a life??_you know??_ If I was the same guy then don't you think I would be a little more creative with my userIDs ??_.hahah

love_365 , Yes I like nasty chicks??_a nasty Pisces chick will definitely turn me on!

"If I was the same guy then don't you think I would be a little more creative with my userIDs ??_.hahah"


lol..

But why would she give you her number if she was in a serious relationship?

Sounds like shes enjoying the attention she gets from you, but then feels bad about it. Hence the hot and cold behavior. You probably have a shot with her from the sound of it..but whether or not you want to possibly set yourself up for disappointment if I'm wrong though, is up to you..

"Lucky this girl is a Pisces, because I would have made it EVIDENTLY clear that I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP."



So you think the Pisces is just being the stereotypical sweetheart who is too afraid of being blunt with him, as to spare his feelings??



Please. If that were the case, she wouldn't be handing out her number to guys while shes in a relationship.

I don't know a single Pisces who doesn't have the backbone of a shark. We just go with the flow as much as we can, not making waves... but it's YOUR own fault if you are uneducated and unaware enough to think we're all sweetness and light, gentle mermaids who never get riled up. Back one into a corner, if you want to see that steel backbone. If you don't know it's there - you'll be stunned speechless LOL

P-Angel was actually TERRIBLY gentle with you, trust me. And she is also speaking truth you refuse to see. All of the Pisces coming here are... but we aren't telling you what you want to hear, are we? We aren't telling you how to turn this girl's head so she leaves her lover.. we aren't even encouraging it. We're telling you to leave her alone - because that's clearly what she wants and needs. This isn't because you're a Libra, for God's sake. Where would you get that idea? I'm the only one talking about your being a Libra, the rest don't care what your sign is. You could be a Sag or an Aqua or a Scorp... and we would STILL be saying the same thing... leave her alone. No, it's not what you want to hear - you want to hear that you can have her, and advice on how to get her. *headshake* You may not like what I'm about to say, though. I'm actually saying the same things P-Angel and the others are saying... my delivery is just nicer. (Today lol) Maybe it's time to slip one of the kid gloves off and see if I can make you GET IT?

Yes, truthseeker... IF she's flirting (though I still say it's JUST her warmth and that she's a touchy feely type) she's doing this (VERY MILD) "flirty" stuff with you because it's what you seem to want, what seems to make your working environment flow easier. Why doesn't she return your calls then, since that's ALSO what you want? That's easy... because that's going too far. A bit of flirting is one thing; taking it further is something else entirely. Why is that confusing to you? Just because Pisces are people-pleasers it DOESN'T meant they are doormats who do everything someone wants them to. They only do the things that are OKAY for them personally. (LOL alot of people think Pisces are weak because they are pleasers - truth is, they are anything BUT weak, and do only what they are willing to!) You can't equate outside phone calls with even flirting at work, two totally different things on two totally different levels.. as is private one-on-one anything.. IF it IS flirting... because I'm still inclined to think you're reading

too much into this... She's not doing things like stroking lazy circles on your arm and batting her eyes at you. She's not playing with your neck and hair or blowing into your ear. She's not pinching your ass as you walk by or winking or making lewd comments like, "Nice ass!" She's not even calling you and texting you outside of work, arranging to see you. If she were doing those things and claiming she's taken, YES I could understand your confusion... but what YOU call hide and seek and hot and cold... is her being her nice, sweet self... maybe a little gentle flirting... I mean, really truthseeker - what you SAY is her flirting so shamelessly and effectively with you is.. what? Hand brushes? Eye contact? Her "melting" when you touched her above the waist once? You haven't given me ANYTHING that I could look at and say, "Yup, dude - she's flirting with you hardcore. She wants you, but she's playing games." She TOLD you she's taken, thought you'd understand that.. but clearly you don't. Hey, we don't like to hurt anyone. Esp someone we have to work with - we would try to let them down easy, unless pushed until we couldn't do it in any nice and easy way. She's being NICE, that's her nature.

Oh.. and why did she give him her number? Also easy. They work together... she gave it at the beginning, as a co-worker, before he ever started this flirtatious stuff. She only talked to him a few minutes when he called her that first time, remember? She arranged another ride rather than being alone with him, etc. She was a warm, friendly, approachable co-worker who thought they would have a professional working relationship when she gave her number. As soon as he went out of bounds with the professional, work-related stuff (asking her to dinner, flirting, etc.) she let him know she was not available and could only be his friend. That's not game-playing, that's honesty. She's not taking his calls, returning his calls, or answering his texts beyond what is absolutely necessary to maintain a working relationship and be polite. He invites her for private drinks, a clandestine meeting - she refuses. He buys her (and a lot of other girls at work) Xmas gifts, she thanks him and says it was too much - but dropped the conversation when he once again stepped off the Professional Path with his "you're so special and worth it" comments and "open ended" leading question she never answered. She is doing everything she can to maintain a professional relationship with him, and

keep the working environment peaceful, WITHOUT going too far, and without stepping it outside of work. I imagine she's very uncomfortable with this whole situation and doesn't want to hurt anyone or cause problems. But he keeps misinterpreting her every tiny action to mean she's encouraging him - yet ignoring all the BIG actions that are her trying to discourage him. Wonder when she'll get desperate enough to blow?

None of this is what you WANT to hear, truthseeker. You WANT her, I know you do. But she's not available, and you're making her crazy. Please listen to us, and back off of her, for both your sakes.

"SHE IS IN A REALTIONSHIP. When a girl (FEMALE, WOMAN, OR WHATEVER) has a boyfriend that means SHE is NOT available to you. I don't care if she is a PISCES, ARIES, SCOPIO, and/or GEMINI??_WHAT EVER.

This PISCES WOMAN IS IN A RELATIONSHIP. She has a BOYFRIEND.

RESPECT THAT."

Exactly what i inferred in my own post and couldn't agree more, once again. It's not "about" signs, you could be aliens and we would say the same thing. I actually know and get along very* well with Libra's, btw.. At any rate, why would you even want someone who (knows) they're in a (serious) relationship, yet flirts back with you (mixed messages)? ..she could turn around and do the same thing to you, at some point, if she's that easily influenced.

Something to think about..

Sometimes/often, the best advice is NOT what you want to hear, but it's reality just the same. A Piscean in reality and speaking-up is not a shark, btw, but a piscean in reality. Sissy, sweet lil mermaids, i hope not..lol

THANK YOU, MS. PISCES! You prove that there is justice in this world after all! Btw, do you have any Libra in your chart? lol

I have been in a few relationships in the past where initially it was difficult to understand where I was standing ??_. But somehow or the other I found out if the girl was interested in me or not and took it from there??_ common dating protocols if you may like to call them??_. But this girl keeps me guessing all the time??_. She gives me her number, I call she talks , I call again she doesn't talk??_I stay quite she comes around like a cute little kitty kat seeking attention??_. She gets cozy with me I respond she pulls herself away??_.she is driving me nuts!

I will back off for now and see how things shape up??_its gonna be hard work for me but I??ll manage??_. Some points I missed out earlier before I sign off from this thread:

We are interning at an office employing more than 3000 people, she works in a separate department then me??_.we are volunteers for a club at work so we get to see each other only on a bi-weekly basis or whenever we are organizing events ??_.so it will be easy for me to forget about her its not like we sit across the same room. She was the first person I met at the orientation day for new interns??_.same goes for her??_.I asked her for her number that day, that was the first time??_..since she had moved in from another town her number had changed so I asked her again the second time ??_.this was before we crossed paths as volunteers in the club I already mentioned. She gave me her number TWICE without the possibility of knowing that we would be working together a few weeks down the road??_. Like I said this is a huge company and our departments had no business whatsoever so there was a miniscule chance of any work related interaction had we not been volunteers for this club. THIS I DON??T UNDERSTAND! TWICE ??_..she gave me her number for a reason right? I don't think she does that to every second guy she meets??_.she's not that type of girl??_and that —harmless flirting?? we already talked about it??_.. confusing the sh*t out of me. I have been in countless of situations involving meaningless flirtations and I am guilty of that as well??_. But TRUST ME this was something special??_I could feel it??_ maybe it was just me.

Thanks to all the Pisces ladies for your replies, I appreciate your comments irrespective of stuff I wanted to hear or not...I think I have learnt a thing or two about the Pisces woman??_..will let you know if there is a happy ending to this. :o)

Have a great new year!

UPDATE: she is a LESBIAN! GOD ! SHOULD HAVE KNOWN EARLIER! Those little pathetic comfortable shoes couldn't have made it more obvious.....hahaha

Hey at least she can buy a nice pair of heels from the gift card I gave her for xmas...

Wow....WHAT A F**KIN WASTE!!!!........ of time :O)

Good thing I am a Libra so on to the next one.... LESSON LEARNE😱 next time I'll look at the shoes first than tits or ass

hahahaha

She told you that?

She didn't tell me.... I just know.... lot of factors coming together to make me come to the conlcusion that she is one. I caught her playing a little footsie under the table with this butch colleague of ours at work. Maybe she is in the transition phase.... I am wondering if she can be brought back or something before its too late..ha!


BellaBulleautifu, you have beautiful eyes....is that the best part of your body? :o)

I seriously doubt she's a lesbian. She's just not taking your bait.

Incidentally, Bella's *everything* is the best part of her

straight females can easily flirt with other females, that doesn't mean anything.... but I read this all and I'm going to have to say the exact same thing everyone else has said and just move on. Find someone that doesn't have someone already.

Old posts feel good 😢((

You here @truth_seeker ? wanted to know what happened to you and your pisces girl