Libra: Pisces aloofness

Hi this is a libra female. Why are pisces males so aloof at times? They ignore you for a while and then give you attention and so on and so forth. Or you guys are supposed to be compassionate and sypathetic right...last time I spoke my heart out to a pisces, they gave me the cold ear. Do you guys think straight or what? No hard feelings of course! 🙂

Let me add more. Being a Libra, most guys are in love with me, yet pisces seem to avoid me unless they find they can help me in some way. And they also seem really confused mentally...like they can't think properly and imagine things too much. Life doesn't have to be confusing fellow humans. The truth is set out in stone much of the time. For example, When you are jealous, why can't you just say so instead of offering all this strange body language? HELP me here! I really love you guys...just can't understand you at all.

I get aloof when i feel somone isnt listening or dosent appreciate what im doing but thats just me.
(Pisces male)
And i know a libra female and i have the same thing i just dont feel like interacting with her as mutch as my capricorn freind does who seems to feed of her compliments to him,....so mean while im in the backround sulking and she wonders how i could be so distant. well i dont what it is i just feel like a dirty third wheel,....sure everyone likes attention who dosent! i mean....either your arrogant about wanting attention,......or you just enjoy it when it happens.......(me) so what is wrong with that—
I just think libra and pisces are on too different of wavelengths to even realise some of the subtleties going on in realtime.

That what i think.

Mike: But most Pisces males are the biggest flirts and players I know...at least of all those I know. For example read the Libra message board of what they say about Pisces...all about how they got too jealous and cheated on them and falsely accused them. Do you demand loyalty w/out giving it? This sounds absurd.

The answer it simple. We don't speak about love department with you because we don't think that you are proper person for us.

Often times, we sort of disappear. At least I do. I mean, I'll be there physically, but my mind might drift to something that is troubling me and I completely lose what is going on in the conversation. This is very rude, and I try to stop it from happening, but it still creeps up at times.

Also, I need a lot of time alone, it's how I recharge. I'll go through phases where I feel social, and then phases where I just want to be by myself. I've been fortunate enough to find friends who understand this, and they've gotten used to the fact that I sometimes will need to disappear for awhile into the "weird Pisces Place."

I know it's hard, but try not to take it personally when your fish man does this. We all do it. When we find a partner we feel completely comfortable with, we let them come to the "weird Pisces Place" with us if they want to. 😉

Is it becase our mind drifts away or is it because we dont find that person appropriate and that why our minds drift away, Sea Siren? I've found that once a person didn't catch my attention in the first place, it wont catch in the future too. I found out that this is sign to move on with that person. Oh and yes. We will drift away every person that we catch to that weird Pisces world. Take it or leave it.

dear pisceans...honestly you sound like living marvels to this world...I wish I could go to the pisces world...wow it sounds paradisial..thanks for the info though. maybe for your guys sake I wish I could dream and just feel more

Yes haffo i agree completley,
i feel libra is a highly unsuitable partner for me.....i need somone more stern and surcure.
All and i mean all libras i know arent stern there just nice and that great just not for a pisces thats all.
And im turned off by libras attitude towards certain situations.
at least for me....

hope i helped any/

Just thought I might add something here - I'm a scorp fem. with Leo asc in uranus and sag venus - not sure how relevant this may be to you truevenus but may be to others. The pisces men I have known - one whom I completely adored and who unfortunately thought I was 'cheating' on him with various other fictional men - and a brother who is a pisces and who I have always adored appear to be drawn to enjoy the more quirky side of my nature and social persona - I would have loved to get to know more pisces men but alas this may not be my fate!

I am not so sure that a pisces man would actually 'go for' all that compliment stuff that libras are truly good at, probably since they sense that it is somewhat false and just a way of getting people to like them - I think this stuff actually works for many people and it is really a gift in some businesses.

Not too sure about the comment that all men fall in love with you - as my brother once explained how this type of attitude just really 'turned him off'. Think may be the more pisces a man is the more likely they are to be drawn to parts of a person's character that is actually 'off the wall' and perhaps not deemed to be considered standard beauty or 'chocolate box' beautiful. I have very fond memories of talking with my [isces brother about everything from religion to politics until we noticed that it was daylight and that we had talked all night without noticing.

Anyway, these are just my personal thoughts about this but perhaps a pisces man would disagree.

I think sea siren hit the nail on the head for the pisces that I know as well as myself doing it,I get the aloft label too for the same reason.It isn't intended to be hurtful or say that your doing something wrong or anything,it's just getting so deeply involved in your thoughts that the world seems to disappear.You can examine it from more angles inside your own head then with other peoples what would they do,actually it usually involves other peoples opinions as well for more perspectives and possibilities in the thinking process.Also while we're on the topic,I've read your history on the libra board that when people ignore you it causes a insecurity of sorts for you,don't worry about if it's something you did it's usually not anything to do with you directly they just don't notice things around them in that state.

Truevenusian,
This is Dreamy-Eyez. I'm not going to speak for all of my other fellow male Pisceans, but I will speak from my stand point, taking it that I am one. I'm a very deep thinker and it takes alot to get me to open up to anyone. Close relationships aren't considered so much of a good thing for me because in the back drafts of my mind, there will always be the fear of getting hurt. I actually suck at dealing with close relationships because at times it can be so tricky. I mean there's the loaded "what would you do questions" and the insecurities. Those things sometimes infuriates me. As a Pisces male, if I was being aloof to someone that spoke their heart to me, then its probably because I'm not into you because your not my type. Me personally, I love a woman that's funny, vibrant and confidant. I don't know why, but I just do. Also, I use aloofness as weapon towards people that disturbs my tranquil quiet nature. I hate it when people disturb me with sloppily displayed emotions. They frighten me and it tells me that you are being reckless with you emotions, that'll lead to you being reckless in a relationship with assumptions, insecurites, and mis-trust. That's just me, though. (I'm complicated.) I don't think there is a woman in this world that could bear a man like me. If there is, then I'd be blessed to get involved with her. Dreamy-Eyez, out.