Maintaining a healthy relationship w/a Pisces Man

Hey guys. I'm a 27yr old Pisces/Aries cusp female dating a much older (12 yr diff) Pisces man. We started out on a constant contact with one another. He has met my daughter but I haven't met his son. We have been dating for 3 months and we have already made plans to have a child together and maybe get married. I'm confused because he doesn't initiate contact at times and makes plan but doesn't call to tell me to get ready. I have learned to tame my Aries side and to not be concerned much about him being distant and not worrying about the arrogance. What I really want to know is how can I still be that woman that he fell for and learn how to maintain making him happy.

Just be yourself! If there is one thing I've learned from my Pisces father (or any man for that matter) make yourself happy first, don't worry too much about making him happy. He's with you for a reason and if he really loves you he will love you with out the trying of making him happy. TRUST ME. My Libra mom went down that path and he cheated on her. Not saying it's her fault but thats the way Pisces men are IME they prefer to be the pleaser not the one being pleased.

Just be yourself and don't worry to much about making him happy. Pisces prefer strong women not doormats.

Thanks XTINA. Yeah being strong isn't the problem. Nor is it being myself. I feel like he gets hurt if I talk to other men but being an Aries it's rare we find another female that we can get along with. In fact all my friends that were girls were Aries. He's just so hard to read and I don't want my brashness to push him away.

Trust me it won't! Hahaha... and if it does (which I doubt) he will tell you before it's too late. It's good that you consider his happiness and as well you should...but don't fall into the trap of jumping through hoops (ie. change who you are) to make him happy. He's in this relationship with you for a reason and there was something that he loved about your personality to continue on as he does with this relationship. So, good luck! 🙂