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Hey all...
I am a capri girl! i met this piscean man some weeks back! We started talking intially because i guess he liked my witty attitude and comments!🙂 I continued because he was drop dead charming with words!
Whats amazing was that he communicates his feelings soo freely! i have never met a man (thats probably because i am pretty young and havent had a chance to see all kinds of men!! - so no offence to any men out there!) who would tell me that they missed me on the first weekend that we met!!!! He compliments me every now and then! He takes time out to write these huge mails and he is ever so open about all his feelings!
I am a capri and i am not like that....i am cautious and i thought till now that i like it when emotions are not thrown around at each other everytime...espescially not during inital dating! (well thats what i thought till now...but i like it when i am complmented ofcourse 🙂 but i would much rather prefer that i dont thave to show my feelings this fast!) Its too much too fast! It makes me very uncomfortable! I dont understandd whats happening! Are all piscean men like this?
Does he expect me to be able to tell him everything so fast? ( i hope not because i dont think ill ever be comfortable withthat!)
I wonder what i should do! SHould i try to calm downthe situation ...communicate to him that i get uncomfortable around musy talk soo soon!

ohhhh....i am soo confused!
Please help!!!!

Hi!
I certainly am not an expert...but, I would tell him that I need to take things slowly...
That friendship comes first...
It has always worked for me...and if they were not willing to accept that and continued to make me uncomfortable...it was a NO GO for me!
However, I do think Pisces will be understanding...Scorpio is the sign, in my experience (Male...this is), that doesn't give up regardless of what you say.

Good Luck!
Star

Tell him honestly, but do note it's got nothing to do with him but with the fact you need some space. He'll understand and quite possibly see himself that he's gone a little too fast (I, Pisces male, made the same mistake in the past as well).

Also...don't forget to show small signs of affection or love once in a while to show it really has nothing to do with him (e.g. a small, sweet SMS message can do wonders already for a Pisces male 🙂

totally. we piscean males fall in love hard and fast. we're sort of stupid that way. i think we could stand to improve by being a little more conservative with our emotional intensity. -above all else, experience with my virgo girlfriend has taught me this.

it's important for us to take it easy until our partners are ready for the full blast, because i don't think reservation is an inherent skill possessed by fish. there's nothing wrong with keeping pisces at a reasonable pace, but don't stop him completely. you'll be amazed by what he can and will do, once you're ready to let him go apeshit.

capricorn and pisces matches seem to work really well. the two signs are radically different, but the particular differences formed in this match are complimentary. honestly, i hope my future wife is a capricorn.

-ichthyo

Thank you for the complement ICH..
Yes, I believe that capricorn and pisces are an excellent match .
One reason is that Pisces makes the capricorn feel unhibited, throwing all caution to the wind.

Pisces brings out the 'hidden' sensuality of the cappie, and they both make dreams come true. Their love-making, is out of this world.
One little problem though...
I am yet to find an unattached pisces :-)

really? would you say pisces are more often in relationships than other signs?

-ichthyo

I am a fish and I have only had one real relationship. It lasted for close to 5 years. Now, I am only 26 years old (until March 12)and I think that was pretty good. I will say that we fishes do better in a committed relationships. As for being single we are out of our safe zone. The unknown, which can be a little scary for some of us. Currently I love being single, it's refreshing and also rejuvenating at times, but it can also be lonely.

Hey Capri...BE CAREFUL...You're right to be cautious. I am a Pisces female and very prone too going to fast too soon. With this pace of romance, I can see that jealous and possessiveness are not too far behind...You're young and should keep yourself protected. If you feel uncomfortable, communicate this to him and then see if he gives you space. Remember, the higher you soar, the faster you fall. Good Luck! Best, Ms. Experience (smile)

pisces ARE in more relationships than others...elusiveness. commitment phobic...ABSOLUTELY...