Do Acqus REALLY Cherish Their Freedom?

Hi Acqus! Hope you're all doing great tonite/day. I have a question for all of you (yes a REAL question) I am a "sun" saggie but moon in acqu person so I consider myself more acqu than anything although the saggie humor is ALWAYS with me. Everyone knows that saggies love their freedom, but it seems that Acqus relish it more? I emotionally go back and forth on whether to give up my freedom and "settle down". Part of me would love to and the other part says...NO WAY JOSE!!! Not in this life time anyways!

I have many acqu friends. They are either "players" or have been "engaged for an eternity" and have yet "not set a date and with no intentions of doing so any time soon!". LOL

I'd like to know how common is this amongst all you guys/gals? Is it a myth? IMO it doesn't seem that way.

For those of you who are married, what sign is your partner and do you get along and how long have you been together? And this is important...do they respect your need for freedom and understand you needing to be that way or do they question you 24/7 when you're not where you're supposed to be?

For those of you in committed relationships, do you see yourselves getting married sometime in the near future or does the thought of settling down scare you to death like it pretty much does me and all my Acqu friends?

Love to hear your Acqu thoughts on these questions.

I don't know about all Aquarians but for me, I never think about it in a new relationship. The awful thing that happens to me is, after a while (could be six months, one year, three years, etc.) all of a sudden it will hit me and I feel trapped and run away (married or not). Sometimes I don't want to be in a relationship for fear I will eventually hurt my partner and it makes me feel terrible but I can't control it and never know when it will hit.

I have always been the one to 'leave' (or end it) in every relationship, except the first one...when I was 12. I have found I have the most successful relationships with a fellow Aqua as they are not controlling, do not question me on my comings and goings....

I am faithful when I am in a relationship...(and told on myself when I did cheat in one)...although, since then I concluded that if the urge to cheat comes, I must end that relationship. So, it has not occurred since.

I am in the most perfect relationship at present for me. We are both Aqua Sun. I am Cap Rising, while he is Leo Rising. My Moon is in Gemini and his is in Virgo. We have so much fun together and because of all we have learned from failed marriages/relationships, we truly cherish what we have.

We do not expect a fairytale. We just expect to enjoy each other and have no concern for marriage at this point. We may never go there...which I know does not bother me...and I think it doesn't bother him either. We have been having too much fun to discuss something as mundane as marriage. Even to a female, marriage sounds stifling...when you are Aquarian...

yes-yes-yes - no-no-no goodthing I undestand these people : ] hahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa love you ladys.

am sefisssacted ; ] hhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I ownly make 10000000,00 a year ; ]
C-B [but oh well who whould guess]

I too have always been the one to end it in EVERY relationship and have been unfaithful to everyone with the exception of my present relationship (thus far). Awful I know and that is one trait I CANNOT STAND ABOUT MYSELF!! I've never been able to figure out why. This relationship is in its sixth month and the thought of infidelity hasn't crossed my mind. Perhaps this could be the one? I've drilled it in my head that I am not going to run this time or stray. Wish me luck.

I can relate to everything you each have posted and can truly agree with it all. WHY DO WE FEEL THIS WAY would be my question— What EXACTLY is this "freedom" we are so desperately holding on to? Is love not higher? LOL

Like I said I am a Saggie and nothing would make me happier than to settle down. But as time goes on I start to feel suffocated "thoughts" regardless of the fact that I love him. Are we with the wrong partners when we start feeling this way? I try so hard to understand this side of myself and to date have not come up with a good enough reason.

Does anyone know THE WHY we feel this way? If so I'd like to hear some of the reasons. I don't feel so alone anymore with these thoughts so thank you all for the posts. I thought I was the only one.

Hi 12, : ] had a few on those last comments, but as far as freedom yes it would be nice to be free and treat all folks nice, and still have your partner or soul mate understand this, and this is what am looking for the one speacial Lady that can see this and we know each other like a twin, found her finally and she's a AQ. BUT, hahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
she seeing a Pices hahhaaaaaaaaaa Dang the only going for me is she has not commeted, to ether one of us. She is sweet and very inteliget : ] tha I'am in trouble now. and to think she likes me hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
GBY to all and have a safe weekend.

Hi yourself CB! From my perspective why is that a man CAN'T UNDERSTAND when I tell him to repect my love of freedom? Why is that when a woman says that to a man right away they feel the woman is cheating on them or something much worse? And then they become either overbearing babysitters or, 24/7 smotherers. I just don't get it. WE MUST BE ASKING FOR THE WORLD huh?

Glad you found a honey who understands that need in you but...sorry that she's taken..or is she? If she likes ya doesn't sound like she's taken to me. Hopefully you'll get to know each other better by spending more time with one another. (She's seeing a Pisces, nah she's better off with another Acqua. Pisces are much to to sentimental for an Acqua. Charm her CB and the "fishy" will be history!)

Freedom is a beautiful thing and it amazes me as to some of the lengths some people will go to either keep it or maintain it. It is the most precious thing on this planet IMO! And even a non Acqu would agree with me.

Cause 12.89 Us Men are very { STUPID } we feel like cave-men 99.1 of the time percent we hunt and protect, dang I hate that its, natrue and for the life of me I do'nt think it will ever change sorry. But I do know the new woman of this world can stand Tall with any man. : ]

at lease its drop .9 percent : ] hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

over a few 10,000,000 years hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa