New relationship with Pisces man. Just - wow.

You guys are amazing. Talk about cutting through the BS of a relationship, you go straight to the heart of why we as humans couple up. A man who finds it sexy when he gets me off (Scorpio ex did too, maybe its a water sign thing?) and who doesn't shy away from the serious intellectual talk, the cuddly affectionate side (he loves spooning, kissing, romance), the relationship talk, the best friend hanging out at home talks, while still being a total man in the man taking care of a woman paradigm. Plus I feel softer yet stronger around him. How is this even happening? I have been lucky to date some amazing people in the past, men who truly loved me and vice versa. Still, this feels different. Pisces men are open and vulnerable in a way that is completely disarming. I am NEVER the one who expresses less, or last. It's honestly beautiful to just have him in my life. It's just been a week, and I'm terrified, but at the same time, I can't wait.

Um I rambled so much I forgot to ask my question - how can I make sure I'm doing all I can to make him feel as amazing as he is making me feel? What do they crave to feel accepted, loved and inspired in a relationship?

Congrats!

I think space, loyalty, honest communication, and being a do-er is a good thing for a Pisces guy. Glad you're enjoying it.
Care to post his chart?

aaawwwwww OMG CONGRATULATIONS!! i'm so happy for you!! it all sounds lovely. i feel like, if he makes you feel this good, as intuitive as Pisceans are, he will feel it and reflect that back. or that's my hope for you anyway. best wishes and positive energy your way!

Your Cap Ascendant and Moon work well with him , since your 7th house is Cancer.

Wish you well.

Sounds really good.
When dealing with pisces be careful not to show possessives and jealousy. But always show you care (a lot).
Also it has been a week?
Put some breaks down girlfriend, no need to rush. Take your sweet time.
All the best!

Posted by Goldfish
Sounds really good.
When dealing with pisces be careful not to show possessives and jealousy. But always show you care (a lot).
Also it has been a week?
Put some breaks down girlfriend, no need to rush. Take your sweet time.
All the best!

Thank you, that is helpful, I'm Gem and a very independent with a need for space myself so the possessiveness won't happen, and jealousy well we clearly like each other why would I be jealous? 🙂 I had booked flights to family friends months ago for Christmas so forced brakes have been applied till 2 Jan. Probably for the best, will help us both recover our normal lives for a bit. We were a bit insanely intense from the second date onward and I think we are both just coming up for air and making sense of it all away from each other. I'm enjoying missing him and vice versa.

Posted by AbbyNormal
aaawwwwww OMG CONGRATULATIONS!! i'm so happy for you!! it all sounds lovely. i feel like, if he makes you feel this good, as intuitive as Pisceans are, he will feel it and reflect that back. or that's my hope for you anyway. best wishes and positive energy your way!

Yeah I'm sensing the same. He's very much about navigating the waters together. The more I open up the more he pledged his allegiance, it seems. Very unlike Scorpio who are more of the reticent versions, or a Leo who would like it more as an ego stroke.

Posted by Scenic
I think space, loyalty, honest communication, and being a do-er is a good thing for a Pisces guy. Glad you're enjoying it.
Care to post his chart?

By being a do-er, you mean gestures of love, physical acts, or expression? I'm happy to do all three but I want to know what makes more of a difference to him feeling loved. I'm more of an acts of service love language person myself - the actions mean a lot more than words.

Posted by Scenic
I think space, loyalty, honest communication, and being a do-er is a good thing for a Pisces guy. Glad you're enjoying it.
Care to post his chart?

oh and I don't have his chart, but birthday is 17 March 1985, born in India. My dads a Pisces and we have a great relationship so that makes it easier for me "get" him.

Posted by sunnygirl

Posted by Goldfish
Sounds really good.
When dealing with pisces be careful not to show possessives and jealousy. But always show you care (a lot).
Also it has been a week?
Put some breaks down girlfriend, no need to rush. Take your sweet time.
All the best!

Thank you, that is helpful, I'm Gem and a very independent with a need for space myself so the possessiveness won't happen, and jealousy well we clearly like each other why would I be jealous? 🙂 I had booked flights to family friends months ago for Christmas so forced brakes have been applied till 2 Jan. Probably for the best, will help us both recover our normal lives for a bit. We were a bit insanely intense from the second date onward and I think we are both just coming up for air and making sense of it all away from each other. I'm enjoying missing him and vice versa.

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Didn't mean to call you jealous or possessive, just mentioned that as a Pisces, I know this don't go down well.
Have fun!!

Posted by Goldfish

Posted by sunnygirl

Posted by Goldfish
Sounds really good.
When dealing with pisces be careful not to show possessives and jealousy. But always show you care (a lot).
Also it has been a week?
Put some breaks down girlfriend, no need to rush. Take your sweet time.
All the best!

Thank you, that is helpful, I'm Gem and a very independent with a need for space myself so the possessiveness won't happen, and jealousy well we clearly like each other why would I be jealous? 🙂 I had booked flights to family friends months ago for Christmas so forced brakes have been applied till 2 Jan. Probably for the best, will help us both recover our normal lives for a bit. We were a bit insanely intense from the second date onward and I think we are both just coming up for air and making sense of it all away from each other. I'm enjoying missing him and vice versa.

Didn't mean to call you jealous or possessive, just mentioned that as a Pisces, I know this don't go down well.
Have fun!!

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fully intend to 😉

Posted by sunnygirl

Posted by Scenic
I think space, loyalty, honest communication, and being a do-er is a good thing for a Pisces guy. Glad you're enjoying it.
Care to post his chart?

By being a do-er, you mean gestures of love, physical acts, or expression? I'm happy to do all three but I want to know what makes more of a difference to him feeling loved. I'm more of an acts of service love language person myself - the actions mean a lot more than words.

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I would say mostly with acts. Such as, driving over to see him or making plans to do things.
If he's a sensitive sort, verbalizing your feelings for him may also be really important. I'm sure you'll come to realize what he likes and appreciates from you, though. : )