Past Partner's birth chart placements..

Have you looked up your past relationships charts and dissected them with a Ahhh that's why he/she was that way or this way now that you know a few things about Astrology? Was there a pattern? Did it make you just want to date certain signs that worked hoping to find that same Wow factor in the past? I find myself doing this now. I think though, I'm jinxing myself....LOL I am a Pisces Sun, Taurus Moon, Cap Venus, Scorpio Rising.

I had a couple of horrible ones...

Pisces Sun,
Taurus Moon
Taurus Rising
Aries Venus

Aries Sun
Leo Moon
Taurus Venus
Rising in Sag

These two...oh my, abusive..violent..just outrageous. Sex was fierce with both.

Sag Sun
Virgo Moon
Scorpio Venus
Rising in Pisces

This one was my ultimate best friend, great husband and father to my kids. Military changed him...if it wasn't for that we would still be together. He was/is the "one" We talk even now since the divorce and are really good friends. He asked for a second chance but I declined. I don't go backwards and his issues with PTSD and some differences in him are still apparent. Horrible sex but that didn't matter.

Cap Sun
Virgo Moon
Pisces Venus
Rising in Virgo

Another really good relationship. Got along very well. Did everything together. We fought but only because of the drug use he was doing. That is what ultimately broke us up I couldn't take it anymore so I left. We still talk to this day. We are great friends and he is clean always wants that second chance...I just don't go backwards. Sex was okay not bad but not the best.

Current ex

Virgo Sun
Taurus Moon
Cancer Venus
Scorpio Rising

I swear this one...Magnetic...I have zero clue why I had such intense feelings for him. He did nothing. He tossed me breadcrumbs that I eagerly caught and ate! Silly me. I snapped out of it and let it go but interesting how you can fall for someone with no reason why.

Dating has turned out to be a chore. It really isn't fun anymore. Dating consisted of courting and slowly building a relationship. Enjoying each other and being fascinated with the process. You have people now, boom in love marching you down an aisle in a matter of months saying this is my "one" Or just playing a game to get in the panties. Daunting it is.

Posted by tiziani
Thing is, how can you court and slowly build a relationship if you're looking up people's chart details expecting them to fill a stereotype? That is controlling, and control and love are near mutually exclusive.

I've encountered people that do this. I'm never surprised to hear the fun has died out of it for them. Life is generally better off when you leave room to surprise yourself, that's what I've seen.

I JUST pulled these charts since I learned how to do it recently. These are past relationships. I stated currently with dating I find myself wondering if the Gemini I am having lunch with will work...instead of seeing him as just a person only because I started to read up on planet placements etc.
Regardless of surprise or controlling, as you put it either it will work or it won't. You just have to know when to give it up or keep working at it. Some times you sit in a relationship longer than you should or give up sooner than you should. I am just tired of these short term relationships. People come at you with a mask on and slowly as time passes these red flags pop up them boom it just wasn't meant to be and you need to end it. These type are such a waste of time. Which is why I stated it is daunting. I'm a longevity girl. I dislike short term. But you cannot stay in something if it does more harm than good.

People today do not date as they did back in the day as I stated. It is very different and very mechanical. Either it's a long drawn out game or it is too quick because of insecurities. Tough to find something in the middle that you can just enjoy. First dates just getting coffee and chatting, second date say bowling, golf etc, third date maybe a DYI class and lunch. These things are slow and you get you enjoy each other and have fun. Most want a movie and dinner then expectations of a kiss and sex. If you say no they are pissy. You stop calling, they blow up your phone next you know you have a stalker. It is crazy today is all I am saying.

Posted by SpinCycle


People today do not date as they did back in the day as I stated. It is very different and very mechanical. Either it's a long drawn out game or it is too quick because of insecurities. Tough to find something in the middle that you can just enjoy. First dates just getting coffee and chatting, second date say bowling, golf etc, third date maybe a DYI class and lunch. These things are slow and you get you enjoy each other and have fun. Most want a movie and dinner then expectations of a kiss and sex. If you say no they are pissy. You stop calling, they blow up your phone next you know you have a stalker. It is crazy today is all I am saying.

i find this really true. how come some people want things fast paced? why not just get to know a person without having all the physical intimacy just yet? You know, just spending time. Some may say people don't have time for all those, but i think if you believe a man/woman is worth it, who has not enough time?