-unstable in career, relationship, etc. The classic wanderer.
-constanly has to be surrounded by people. The "quality" of the person does not matter. They just need the energy. (Can be seen as a non-judgemental person)
-Friends are usually low lives or people that need "fixing".
-If there is no one to fix they will tear down the nearest person by invalidating them or by way of mental boot camp. All the while stealing their juice (energy).
-will not filter the juice or energy he/she leeches from another. Multiple personalities ensue.
-will disguise invalidation techniques as "jokes". When you are upset this person will be happy and vice versa.
-entitlement issues...
-emotionally draining. Parasitic..by the time you realize you are being emotionally (& possibly moneterily) sucked dry its too late.
-an emotional black hole. Their deep thought draws u in. U are fascinated until you realize that nothing will ever become of it.
I agree, my Pisces can show most of these traits, too much sometimes. Especially the part of tearing people down when there's no one to 'fix', he does this to me a lot, and it is emotionally draining. It also seems that hs ex gf's always had emotional issues and he was always on hand to help and stayed with them through it all, but in a martyr-like way cos they never changed. I don't have any major issues like they did, so maybe in a weird way he's trying to make issues for me, so he has something to help me with so to speak. He never has an opposite mood to me if I'm upset, but if I'm happy, he sure knows how to knock that out of me with his whining. My ex-Pisces wasn't like that though, so I think I just picked one of life's whingers/moaners regardless of his sign!
"-unstable in career" No, I know exactly what I want to do, and I'm doing it.
"constanly has to be surrounded by people. The "quality" of the person does not matter. They just need the energy. (Can be seen as a non-judgemental person" No. I generally dislike other people. I have a small, select group of friends, and even by them I am considered "the loner".
"-Friends are usually low lives or people that need "fixing". Most of my friends are very successful and happy. Low lives are attracted to me because I'm nice to everyone, but once they start draining my energy, it's hasta la vista. I have not the time nor the interest in FIXING anyone. People can only do that for themselves.
"If there is no one to fix they will tear down the nearest person by invalidating them or by way of mental boot camp."
I think you have your signs confused with this one.
"will not filter the juice or energy he/she leeches from another. Multiple personalities ensue."
LMAO! Yes...let's categorize an entire sign as schizophrenic. Could you present your scientific evidence to back this up? Your opinion doesn't count.
"will disguise invalidation techniques as "jokes". When you are upset this person will be happy and vice versa."
Agreed. If you got hit by a bus right now, I would laugh. HARD.
"entitlement issues"
If you were creatively gifted and psychic, you would have entitlement issues too. But there's no need to be jealous. I'm sure you're good at other things. See what you can do with these Legos. *pat*
"emotionally draining. Parasitic..by the time you realize you are being emotionally (& possibly moneterily) sucked dry its too late."
It obviously wasn't too late, cause you're still here. Actually, people drain ME. Hence, the reason I'm a loner.
"an emotional black hole. Their deep thought draws u in. U are fascinated until you realize that nothing will ever become of it."
Well, someone needs to tell Einstein that his ideas were just rubbish! I mean, seriously! 😛
Yes, but not ALL. That's the problem when someone comes on here who is been double-crossed by someone of a certain sign. They generalize that everyone of that sign is the same, which is just not true. People are all different, all come from different backgrounds, and all have other placements in their birth charts.
Agreed, and if the poster had prefaced the statements with that, it would have put it in a much more correct context. The problem is, most of these posts are based on ONE person the poster knows. Hardly evidence that it applies to an entire group. And it is ONE person's perspective. Who knows how they behaved to the person in question? Did they deserve the behavior they got in return? Most likely.
Some pisceans can drain the fuck out of people - I myself have been guilty of this - stealing peoples energy - I learned I was doing it because I didtn realise I was doing it for ages then I stopped it.
Wow...the saying is true a hit dog hollers the loudest...lol
This post was about SPECIFIC types of Pisces people. Pisces PSYCHIC VAMPIRES to be exact. Now some of you took it upon yourselves to associate that with all pisces. The title of the thread was already prefaced @ sea siren, lol. But thanks for your err uh..umm.. rebuttle?
Prettypisces 24, I never respond back? Don't be so quick to establish a pattern my dear.
P-angel, so far you have been the only one in this thread that has made blanket statements about a particular sign. (Which is laughable!) Don't you know that there is more to a person than their sun sign sweetheart? I've read many of your posts and you tend to approach the pisces sun sign with that same blind assessment. I knew you would be amongst the first to come in with some form of "retaliation" as evidenced by your "did a cancer really say that statement"...So predictable..lol
Seasiren...how do you know my post is based "on one person I know"? Because of your lack of information (ignorance) you are drawing conclusions. Conclusion which are womp womp womp WRONG I might add.
Yes...I am a gemini-cancer with a cappy moon for all those who are interested and/or wondering.
So why didn't you just post that has been YOUR experience with pisces or just say simply some. In fact, some pisces in here actually admitted to several of the traits.
"Don't you know that there is more to a person than their sun sign sweetheart?"
-In your post you sure didn't give pisceans that benefit of the doubt.
ETA: Starfish ...if I were talking about all pisces people...the title would have read "Pisces are Psychic Vampires" or "All Pisces are Psychic Vampires"..."Piscean Psychic Vampires" establishes that I am talking about Psychic Vampires that are Piscean (based on sun sign). For example when a person uses the term "Indian food" they are speaking of food that specifically relates to indians. A certain type of food, understand? To assume that the person is talking about all food or all indians is silly, no? Watch your modifiers people!!
Ganstalicious, read the ETA please. It further breaks down what I meant. And when I post under this screen name it is already implied that it is under MY experience...and of course I've already explained the piscean vampires bit...
Yeah I have been exposed to gemini psychic vamires. They are the worst because they are so witty and think fast on their feet. They can hide their true intentions and come up with a quick rebuttle right there on the spot. I have more experience with psychic vampires of the pisces sun sign. They are arguably the most intuitive sign and they just know where to go to suck you dry emotionally..
Explain to me... If indeed you are correct and I did want to bash all pisces people, why would I switch it up now? I mean really...I want you to really break this down for me because I don't understand. What's the worst that could happen? A few pisces people that I don't know and that don't know me...would get offended? IF it got too bad I'd just logg off, lol. And furthermore, if I were that venomous, what incentive would I have for changing? If I really had an ax to grind, do you think bashing pisces that I don't know would make me feel better? I had some info I wanted to share about pisces and I put them in the pisces section of the message board. But yeah, answer those questions for me please...
lol...leave then... you two are just clogging up the thread with useless banter anyway. Everybody in the thread didn't take it as an attack. That speaks volumes....
You should see Geminis. They do not only apply to all above, but they also create an "artificial" athmosphere to get this all more effectively.
Oh great .. not only a Cancer .. G/C cusper .. no wonder there is a need to create drama .. and then hold it to another person to validate to them why it happened.
"I don't mind you posting that stuff here. After all, it is the truth for the dark side of certain Pisces.
If you were to come in here listing all the great qualities about Pisces, no one would have complained about you generalizing then. lol Its only when the bad gets listed, that everyone starts complaining about generalizations. Thats true for all the boards here."
The first hen that cackles laid the egg...lol... I see what you mean. Now I can understand why people are on the defense. This is a war of the signs if you will lol. I haven't been as active on the boards as I will be. It doesn't take much for people to establish a pattern and taking into account the "feel" of the boards I can understand why. No telling what topic I might delve into next. The dark side of pisces is so interesting to me..
Sea Siren...girl (boy) please! I'm not dragging anybody anywhere... you sound silly. These people do exist whether you like it or not. Piscean is modified by what comes after it PISCEAN psychic vampires.... INDIAN food.... INDIAN reservation...ETHIOPIAN people...AFRICAN american. NOT ALL INCLUSIVE. Come on now...spare me please.
"She seemed intelligent enough for me to give her the benefit of the doubt that she wasn't referring to ALL pisces.
But thats what I mean, if she were listing good qualities about Pisces, no one would be saying, "Hey, not ALL Pisces are this way", or "Why are you generalizing us all?"
It seems people only care about people using words that reaffirm they aren't generalizing,(certain, some, from my experience, etc) when listing negative qualities."
"GIVE ME SYMPATHY! GIVE MEEEEEEEEEEE! MEEEEEEEEEE! MEEEEEEEEEE!"
Really though dude, I thought you were done with this.
"Oh great .. not only a Cancer .. G/C cusper .. no wonder there is a need to create drama .. and then hold it to another person to validate to them why it happened.
One more tosser, like her GBA girlfriend."
by your logic P-Angel.. You're in this thread that is full of drama because I generalized all pisces....generalizing all G/C cuspers?
Are you not creating more drama? Fanning the flames? Are you sure you're not the one with the need for drama, mama?
Reading and logic comprehension isn't your strong suit .. I'd say Gemini .. the mind is working, and that's it. It's not really going anywhere, except to babble.
If you had awareness .. you'd comprehend "what" was said .. not "that" is was said.
"Sea Siren...girl (boy) please! I'm not dragging anybody anywhere... you sound silly."
Uh-huh...cause "they" is actually one person you resent and are bitter about. And yeah, if you come on our turf just to start shit, you'll get it. And stop acting surprised. You didn't come here to have a discussion.
"Piscean is modified by what comes after it PISCEAN psychic vampires.... INDIAN food.... INDIAN reservation...ETHIOPIAN people...AFRICAN american. NOT ALL INCLUSIVE."
"Indian" is also an all-inclusive adjective. "Indian food sucks!" vs. "SOME Indian food sucks." See, genius?
"It is because to the outside person looking in, it seems so contradictory to the generalized idea about Pisces: Kind, compassionate, intuitive, etc.
I can see how someone could have thought some of those things about me, a few years ago. Of course, I have reasoning for it that a non Piscean isn't capable of understanding, but it still doesnt negate the fact that perception is everything, intention means nothing. A lot of Pisces have a hard time accepting that. What is a rationalization for us, is not always readily accepted by outsiders, and we should take that into consideration when we do certain things.
I think thats the primary reason for many people saying Pisces can be selfish."
"Reading and logic comprehension isn't your strong suit .. I'd say Gemini .. the mind is working, and that's it. It's not really going anywhere, except to babble.
If you had awareness .. you'd comprehend "what" was said .. not "that" is was said.
Have fun creating ... out."
I see you're very astute in invalidation techniques. Peace & Bye..
"I say, not only should we embrace that quality when it benefits us, but also when someone is criticizing us, as that can benefit us as well."
But when those traits do not apply to me I will not own it, and Starfish is the same way. Why should I? Some of the positive traits don't apply to me either, but there is no accusation implied with positive traits. Hence, the ruckus with the negative.
1 more time...African american is referring to a specific type of PERSON. This can further be broken down into a specific type of AMERICAN. Not to mean ALL AMERICANS therefore it is not all inclusive. If the term was African american women. It would further break down to exclude males. Sea Siren... I know what I meant...I told you what I meant and you don't believe me. Nothing in this world will change that. This is the last time I will be addressing this particular issue with you.
"So do I, PP. What seperates Pisces from a lot of the other signs is, our ability to be non biased and open to many perspectives"
-I haven't met the person who only wants to hear the negative qualities about themselves. From what I've seen on here when a persons posts an experience they've had with a pisceans whether its good or bad. I have seen you, SF225,P-angel,Shattered Dreamz, myself and other pisceans identify with the positive and negative qualities of pisces. I'm sure if this post was about virgos in their section, scorpios, aries regarding their negative qualities I'm positive they would have responded in a similar way. I guess people respond better to "I" messages than accusatory tones.
"I told you what I meant and you don't believe me. Nothing in this world will change that. This is the last time I will be addressing this particular issue with you."
Uhm...okay. Still doesn't change the fact that you don't know what a generalization is.
"But when those traits do not apply to me I will not own it, and Starfish is the same way. Why should I? Some of the positive traits don't apply to me either, but there is no accusation implied with positive traits. Hence, the ruckus with the negative."
If a trait is not you you shouldn't own it. If the glove doesn't fit...you must acquit.
"I understand that SS, but just because I'm willing to discuss certain traits that may not affect me directly, does not mean I am owning the accusations. I look at it like this, who better to understand and have a discussion about Pisces in general, than us Pisces? I'm sure we all know Pisces who are affected by the negative side, and even if we aren't ourselves, we more than anyone else, should be able to understand and explore it.
I find it much more interesting to discuss the dark sides of signs, than to discuss the positive. We are all pretty aware of the good in us, why not explore the not so good...objectively?"
"I look at it like this, who better to understand and have a discussion about Pisces in general, than us Pisces?"
Do you really think this person came here for a discussion? To actually "learn" something? There was no question at all in the original post. Not a great way to start a discussion.
I've often wondered why when confronted with an issue they don't want to address SOME pisces accuse the person of creating drama— Help me out Ms.Pisces. And if anyone has any questions for a cancer or gemini cancer I am open to answer them.
Honestly I don't believe we are the only ones that would have reacted like this regarding the negative qualities of a particular zodiac sign. In fact I've seen a post not to long ago similar to this in the Aries board and it got flagged. Don't be believe me go to another board and post all their negative qualities and see what happens.
I've been in a lot of discussions in my life started by people who were genuinely interested in having one. For instance, a man asking me "Why did this woman do this?" and going on to relate a negative episode. Because he was specific, and said "this woman" not "women," I didn't take it as an accusation. Accusations will always get a defensive response. If that was not the posters intention, it doesn't matter, that's how it was perceived. Because "perception" is everything, right? So, dear poster, I guess it's fair to say you perfectly demonstrated in your own post a negative "piscean" trait. Maybe it's not exclusive to fish after all.
So someone enlighten me...The board sections on dxpnet.com are the equivalent of gangs or turf? Pisces hang together and kiss each other's asses....cancers kiss each other's asses...virgos..and and so on and so forth? I agree with MsPisces...you guys really feel into the trap by fanning the flames (if there were any to begin with). This is silly. Aren't we all adults here? Should I go to the cancer and gemini board and type how great we all are and how much better we are than all the other signs? When some "outsider" comes on our turf with anything other than ass kissing we bash them? Is that what this is about?
"lol, DC .. it is funny as hell, actually. The intent wasn't anywhere near being objective, though, this is how it was worded to give the suggestion that it is so ... only a couple people got that. "
I thought you left. Just couldn't stay away from the "drama" could you? And to think you're 48 years old participating in this childish mess. Gang mentality...smh...
-unstable in career, relationship, etc. The classic wanderer.
-constanly has to be surrounded by people. The "quality" of the person does not matter. They just need the energy. (Can be seen as a non-judgemental person)
-Friends are usually low lives or people that need "fixing".
-If there is no one to fix they will tear down the nearest person by invalidating them or by way of mental boot camp. All the while stealing their juice (energy).
-will not filter the juice or energy he/she leeches from another. Multiple personalities ensue.
-will disguise invalidation techniques as "jokes". When you are upset this person will be happy and vice versa.
-entitlement issues...
-emotionally draining. Parasitic..by the time you realize you are being emotionally (& possibly moneterily) sucked dry its too late.
-an emotional black hole. Their deep thought draws u in. U are fascinated until you realize that nothing will ever become of it.
More later.....beware!