Pisces and sex—? So Confusing

First of all I never wanted to post this question on boards but I have no Choice left!!!
I am in great confusion,Kindly help
I have been dating this pisces female for 6 months now and it has been great
but for the sexual part...whenever that comes in between us it gets troublesome.
The thing is that,I don't,I mean conciously wan't that b/w us as long as it is mutual,I mean she should be ready for it mentally in all respects.
It is quiet like holding a two edged sword!!
Yhe situations unfold like this:-
i)When I am not thinking about it,she gives me hints( I know pisces don't like to talk about it straight).

ii)When I agree with her and tell him in some indirect manner,that we will be going ahead with it she giggles,which means she is happy with the idea,Good till now

iii)Now,what should a poor soul like me do— I imagine it and get happy myself,still ok.

iv) On Couple of occasions,I got physical(believe me it wasn't intentional,or may be it was because I thought she had given me a green signal) but I felt she didn't like it and I apologised.But she got sad...I thought I will never in future again think on those lines cause I don't want to hurt her in anyway(Poor meeeeeeeeeee) and I told this thing to her( I try to tell her everything)
again she got sad and said that it is not wrong to do it cause we love each other.

v) again after some days when everything is as before she again raises the issue and we are again to base 1!!!
It is been going on like this for quiet some time Kindly tell me how to deal with this Pisces Confusion!!! Pleaseeeeeeeee....

would you just get it over with already ,geez,she wants to get laid and is a chick so don't expect her to say hey,drop your pants.

ignore the bluntness had a bad weekend.

You simply dealing with immature women who doesn't know what she wants. If the person is not in control of their body and sexual relationship then you have better accept that fact. You have two choices; You can speak with her and explain the importance and way of how people are in control of their bodies (if you know yourself about it of course), or you can live her.

Always, always be like yourself.

Kinda sounds like shes playing games. You know jsut trying to confuse you and evoke some emotions. I dunnno if pisces do that so much but I can sometimes and I'm a water sign too so...
Its not a good thing but evoking even bad emotions can be a kinda adrenaline rush to some people. She should stop it though cause it justs screws things up.

Either she wants to &&*( or she doesn't.....she needs to grow up. Maybe she doesn't want you to Really stop....try to take it a little further....be more aggresive,,,

Any Pisces females can give me more accurate ideas,so any pisces females kindly throw some light it is really a mess being in a situation of this kind....Be in a situation of this kind and then give your inputs.
what I think is that she takes pleasure in just imagining the situation(That gives her mental relief) and not really being in it(which is against her morals may be) ....that pisces impractical side(Sorry bt this).
Kindly help....

I have two Pisces female cousins and to be honest with you,,,,,when it comesto that area, there are no games with them...they both are secret romantics and when they decide they are going to sleep with someone thts what they do,,,,,,no questions....I don't think it has anything to do with her being a Pisces....more or less just immature and indecisive....How old is she?

Sorry folks I don't have her exact D.O.B.
and she is 24,
I once read from one of you pisces fems that if something interfers with your morals then you don't do that what exactly are your morals—?

I don't think all Pisces have the same morals. So if a woman on here gives you hers- doesn't mean your Pisces friend will feel the same way.

Deep_water_Current, if this woman is giving you mixed signals, you should either talk to her about it, or move on with your life. The giggling is NOT an answer.

Deep water current:

No offence mate, but the way you want handle him is not under power of anyone else than a Pisces male. If I were you, I wouldn't try my chances very much. If she deseides to sleep with you, it will be only when she is convinced that can handle you and herself. Just like you try to do with her. If she is not in that state, you cant bring it yourself. You dont have Pisces wavelenght. Sorry mate. But I dont think you have chance here. Sorry.

I'm pisces and I have no problem saying what I want and enjoy in the bedroom, but I feel the older you get the more open you are with it too. I have cried after sex for no reason what so ever maybe just high emotions, I know we tend to even daydream while having sex we think about other things in the middle of being with our partner how weird is that?? I really try not to do that but it happens. I would try to talk to her you know how we can hold back on the emotions department I do the giggle thing at times too instead of saying anything I think it's to stop from saying too much. I'm going through it myself with my cancer he's trying to figure me out and it always seems to changing on him he says.

Waterbaby18. Can I ask you a question?

What do makes you make sex with men?

Deep Water -

I know excactly what you're going through. I am a Pisces woman and have been in situations like this. You're right in your assumptions about her moral obligations. When I was younger I went a really long time without having sex because of my morals. I really wanted to find a guy who would understand that I wanted to be married before I had sex but that was the hardest. So the guys that I did end up sleeping with I would leave them and didn't want to be bothered with them anymore because I felt that they would only know me on a sexual basis first and I really wanted them to understand my morals and beliefs and wanted them to fully understand me spiritual wise but in almost every case in me sleeping with a guy they had no interest in my spirituality so i would leave and when they would call me I would act like a cold fish. So this is a warning to you. Try to understand her spritually and whats going on in the inside before you have sex with her. We love for a man that we like to take interst in that side of us. She'll probably appreciate this more than anything and eventually it could lead to some um um good nookie.

that's an odd question Haffo there has to be an attraction and I want to be in a relationship with the man I don't go around having sex with ajust anyone, and this cancer man is only the 2nd man I have been with in 9.5 and we waited 4weeks into the relationship before we were together sexually. Why did you ask me this— what makes you have sex with woman??

You come up with good post and I desided to ask that question since it's unclear in my mind. Actually I've opened a special topic about that.

Okay,this isn't based on the giggling or anything else,it's based on the if we love each other thing and the getting sad after rejection.By the way shes acting it's sounds more like a shes inexperianced or a virgin even and doesn't know how to go about it.Talk to her,yeah what you sense may be right but it may not be as bad as you are worried about.But I don't think it's any types of games,your from India right?It seems like it's either the virgin case or the moral one that talking to her is the best way to go about it.Asked her questions regarding these things.

She wants to be pursued. Plan a special evening, just the two of you, and plan on ending it by making love to her. However, don't tell her that you're planning this. When the moment comes, just start kissing her and the rest will come naturally. Tell her at some point how you feel about her and that you want to show her. You should be in like sin then, sweetheart.

Lord, if only I were a lesbian. I'd be seducing right and left. 😉

Folks Let me be Clear....
LEt us get the Sequence of Events..
i) She gives me mixed signals...like you don't understand anything.You are grown up etc etc.
ii) I insist I am grown up..ha ha ha quiet funny!!
iii) She giggles
iv) We go dating...I end up getting a bit physical..let me tell you at this point we have been seeing each other for 2 months..quiet normal for a HUMAN BEING.
v) I feel she didn't like it..so I apologise..
vi) She is down..dosen't tell me any reason..I guess she wants it—??
vii) I tell her about some plans..she is excited..
viii) after some days we meet again..I tell her being physical is not important to me her friendship is more important,She tells me if we love someone being physical is not wrong..she gets down again!!
ix) I tell her about one more plan..she is excited again
x) we meet after a long gap..it is a beautiful day,climate is good, it is raining..we go to a park..I resist the tempetation..but after a while I end up being physical..she dosen't resist it and says nothing..we go shopping and it is good till now.
xi) next day she dosen't call me.
xii) calls me 2nd day and says that I should understand her(Understand what———) that she was tense and I shouldn't get upset.
xiii) I tell her I am not upset with her and everything is fine.
xiiii) tells me to meet her on Sunday,I agree

This is the story till now..........

maybe there's something going on at home.find out sunday.

I Know it is nothing on her home front cause she is quiet open on all her personal things and tells me,if ony after a little questioning,but it was concerning that incident I quiet very well know.