Pisces Busy?

So I've posted on here before about the guy I'm dating and how this is my first interaction with a Pisces so I would appreciate any advice. I've been seeing him for about a month or so and really like him but he seriously confuses me. I know this month has been really busy for him but I'm having a hard time believing someone can be this busy yet not make time for someone they like. When I first felt this I tried to break it off, but he just explained how busy he was and he was sorry etc... so I like ok I get it, but I'm still on the fence. I mean he texts me back when I text him etc.. but I'm not sure if it's bc he's just being nice or keeping me on the back burner. We have been intimate and at first I thought maybe that's all it waseems but don't think that now, yet I'm baffled bc we don't ever spend time together bc he's busy. Would he still text me etc... if he was no longer intrested? I also know that he's been on Tinder bc I got pretty annoyed by everything and created a profile and saw he was on the site. I should add that we never stated we were exclusive so I wasn't upset or anything I just don't want to continue to go with the flow if he's just not intrested in me. One day he saying how much he misses me and is sweet the next he dissappears is this normal and how could I tell if he's genuinely interested. I text him today saying how I know this month has been busy and possibly stressful but I hope he had a wonderful day and his response was i appreciate the kind message, I hope you're having a wonderful day too. He's so vague I can't tell where I stand. He has told he that he's enjoyed getting to know me this month has just been crazy. My response to him is no worries etc... I don't nag or complain but jeez I definitely have no idea where I stand and am wondering if he is just being nice. Any ideas how I could determine this? I don't want to ask since I know he's stressed and don't want to add to that but I'm so confused

I'm sorry but what kind of mind games do pisces play? I'm a Sag with a Cap ascendent so don't really play games. Is there something he may do that will let me know he u s playing games?

Is it fun to test people's patience or are ya'll trying to figure out if that's someone you want to invest in? I mean since I know he's been busy I'll shoot him a text every few days just to say hi and he responds. I'm not going to chase him especially when he said work has been crazy bc I know how I would feel, but at the same time him being busy makes me feel he's not intrested. I read that pisces sometimes dissappear when they like someone is that accurate? Perhaps him being busy is his way of swimming away? IDK I just think if he wasn't interested why respond and why explain things wouldn't it be easier just to ignore me, bc if he did I would get the message loud and clear!

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Posted by Wonderwoman88
are ya'll trying to figure out if that's someone you want to invest in?

You guessed it right

If that is the case then should she just be patient and wait for him and not text him anymore until he isn't busy or should she continue to text him? What kind of reaction are you looking for?

Don't text him anymore. As a Pisces we hate being smothered but we don't forgot who means something to us. If she continues to text then he'll feel smothered and swim away.

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Thanks, I was only texting to be nice, but its really only one or two text every few days, and the second text is normally just saying thx in response to his text and bc he follows me on social media and I have a good handful of guy friends and have a life so didn't want him to think that he was irrelevant to me etc... bc while he's been busy I've been enjoying my life and really didn't want to hurt his feelings bc I've heard pisces are sensitive and I like him but at the same time he's not spending time with me so I'm not going to push pause on my life.

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Posted by Wonderwoman88
are ya'll trying to figure out if that's someone you want to invest in?

You guessed it right

If that is the case then should she just be patient and wait for him and not text him anymore until he isn't busy or should she continue to text him? What kind of reaction are you looking for?

Don't text him anymore. As a Pisces we hate being smothered but we don't forgot who means something to us. If she continues to text then he'll feel smothered and swim away.

Thanks, I was only texting to be nice, but its really only one or two text every few days, and the second text is normally just saying thx in response to his text and bc he follows me on social media and I have a good handful of guy friends and have a life so didn't want him to think that he was irrelevant to me etc... bc while he's been busy I've been enjoying my life and really didn't want to hurt his feelings bc I've heard pisces are sensitive and I like him but at the same time he's not spending time with me so I'm not going to push pause on my life.

We only become sensitive if we cared for someone bu they hurt us. We then become mean as people say or give you cold shoulder until we feel as though you suffered enough, He'll return your text don't worry about it.

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Thanks I appreciate the advice. I won't text him anymore but just out of curiosity what would he do if he was no longer intrested in me? He definitely wouldn't respond right?

Posted by Arrius
Over and over I read these seething, anger filled tirades. I don't care whether it's justified or not. If that's who you are, and that's how you deal, okay. But you will never hold a Pisces. Never.

If you're even thinking that you're "fed up with his lame ass ways," he has picked up that vibe already. And what you are probably fed up with is that he knows who you are, and he has checked out or is on the way.

You should consider looking for another person who is a better match for you.

I'm so confused. I never said I was fed up with his lame ass. I'm confused but was looking for advice