Pisces-Cancer... Can anybody give me an opinion please?

Hello everyone. I met a pisces some weeks ago and I started talking to him. He told me he had recently broken up with his girl so we kept on in touch. Last week he invited me to have a dinner with his friends and we spent a really good time. At the end he talked to me and told me his girl had been looking for him because she has a problem and she is looking for his support... He was with her almost three years but he felt alone... I didn't want to listen to all the story. The only thing I told him was it was fine for me, i said i respected his feelings, emotions and and his story with her and clarified i would stop talking to him in a "romantic" way but we could still be good friends. He agreed and said he told me this because of the type of person i am... and took me back home. During the way he told me he felt sad because he really liked me in more than a physical way, and he expected not to lose contact with me, he also said he likes spending time with me and being with me. I never got angry, i was very relax while we spoke. The point is... did he said all of this because he was really honest (with me and his girl) or because he actually didn't like me? A day later he sent a message and invited me to a party in his workplace and I said I can't because I actually can't. but why don't he ask his girl to go with him? He never posts anything on facebook abt her (in fact that's why i believed he was single) no likes, no comments, nothing!! His story sounds very strange to me... I thought we had a connection and now i don't know if i continue speaking to him or not... Any suggestion or advice you could give is really welome! And thanks for taking your time to read it.

Your story is conflicting... you say they broke up and now you are saying his girl... which one is it? That makes a HUGE difference.

I would say he is telling the truth...stuff like that is awful and usually most pisces would avoid saying stuff like that... they don't want to hurt the other person.

Doesn't sound far fetched... pisces have a hard time of letting go (unless someone does some evil, crazy stuff and we are like never ever again). They were together for a hot minute so it possible that he feels something towards her (doesn't have to be romantic) for him to want to be there for her. My ex hubby (who is a cancer) comes to me in his time of need and I'm there, but I have NO desire for that man.

BUT... the answer to the question above will be telling.

Tbird.. thanks for your comment. When I first met him he told me he had recently broken with his girl. So the one who supposedly has been talking to him is his ex-girl. He said she is looking for his support because she has a problem. He never mentioned any feelings towards her, but he said they were together for almost three years. I think maybe they never broke up, but that's not important now. I just wonder if he really likes me... he told me some things such as: " I really like you and I'm not talking in a merely physical way..." and he asked me not to put distance between us. He told me we can keep on seeing each other and go out once in a while, but I remarked we would be just friends... he didn't say anything, but he didn't reject it... I have the intention of continue talking to him but I need sometime while I stop seeing him as a man becasuse even when I don't have a strong feeling for him (because it's been little time since I met him) I really liked him, And this situation makes me feel really upset and sad 😢 I hope you can give me your point of view, and thanks in advance for your reply

You're welcome, hun.

Well... I can't really say if she is his as his girl or not. I would say trust your instincts. You're a crab right? Usually, you can feel that out.

So... omitting that tidbit, I will act like that isn't a factor and comment on the rest. Usually if a pisces want space, we may not come off and admit (to avoid hurting people's feelings) we will most certainly disconnect (speaking to you less, seeing you less, being aloof). IF he is responsive as usual, still wants to meet up and doesn't break your "dates" then I would say yes...take him for his word.

You guys are starting out from what you say...and if you sparked his interest...he's going to be around in one way or another. Unless you guys are having sex...then that's another story all together.

If he starts to disconnect a lot then the writing is on the wall. He is or is going to be gone.

He seems to be still connected and wants to see you, so I will say trust him with that.

Unless he is a pure as*hole, which is hard to gauge by what you said and I don't know him... (I say this because pisces does have the ability to be pure as*holes and players). I say keep him at a distance. If you two grow closer there is nothing wrong with putting on your deerstalker hat and investigating.

Thanks again Tbird... I really appreciate your comment. We didn't have sex, but we slept together... it sounds strange, but there were no kisses, only hugs (i must say we were at his friends' home)... unfortunately, my instincts don't work well when it's about my own life... I'm confused and maybe I need some space to clear up my mind and trust my hunch, which will certainly come up when I am more relaxed) anyways, he is a mans i would definitely like to have in my life, even as a friend... I think he is worth to have in one's life... it's a shame we don't have a relationship... I know it would have been a deep one... thanks again, tbird. I really appreciate you took your time to answer me !!

You're welcome, gun. I will say that cancer and Pisces are a good match, even as friends. If I was you, I would try to disconnect a bit, not fully, but enough to gain your bearings and just live life.

Things will happen and run its own course. It's cliche as hell, I know, but I can't stress how much truth there is to that. The truth will be revealed in time. What your relationship will or will not be, what's going on with his ex. Everything. Just be open and honest with yourself.

It's hard to do, I know, I know it is. I've been there myself plenty of times. Just be patient, you just never know. Cheers and keep us updated.

Good luck, dear!

Posted by AdrianaCrabTor

I didn't want to listen to all the story.

Since you cut him when he was trying to explain his situation to you ..... I don't get why you're in here questioning his integrity, his intentions.



Unless, of course, your only motive was to try and manipulate him, by getting him to believe that you need to be chased harder.



It just makes no sense otherwise. You go on with ponderings about what he means, what his coming and goings mean .... well, if you were sincere, then you would have listened to what he was trying to tell you.

Of course I am not playing... I like him too much and I didn't want to keep on listening because I don't want to be obtrusive, and also because I was afraid... if he said he was still in love with her or if he said he didn't like me at all... I know Paty of not having the whole story is my fault... but i am a crab... i am insecure and fearful even when I seem to be very straight forward and brace... i really liked this boy and I didn't want to feel rejected 😢

Of course I am not playing... I like him too much and I didn't want to keep on listening because I don't want to be obtrusive, and also because I was afraid... if he said he was still in love with her or if he said he didn't like me at all... I know Paty of not having the whole story is my fault... but i am a crab... i am insecure and fearful even when I seem to be very straight forward and brace... i really liked this boy and I didn't want to feel rejected 😢