Pisces Compatibility ?

I have tried to find out which sign I am most compatible with and as a consequence have dated almost all signs in the zodiac. The signs I am supposed to be most compatible with, seem to be the most difficult relationships. They start out just like "the books" say but go quickly downhill and consume me, (ie. Scorpios-mean to me!!!). How do I go about finding the right sign compatibility references, is the Moon Ascendent thing or rising thing or what?

if u give me your time of birth and place we can take a look.

3/11/57 @ 12:05 a.m., guntersville, alabama

Rising Sign is in 09 Degrees Sagittarius
You are known for being open, frank, outgoing and honest. At times, though, you are also blunt and quite indiscreet. Others have to learn not to take everything you say personally, because you usually do not mean any harm. You appreciate living your life in a straightforward and simple manner -- you dislike social niceties and consider them to be hindrances to real communication. You have lots and lots of energy and tend to become quite restless if you feel confined. You demand the freedom to do as you choose -- you must be self- directed or you feel trapped and anxious. With your abundant energy, you enjoy being outdoors, and you should be attracted to physical exercise or to those forms of sport which can help you burn off some of that excess energy. Very gregarious, you love to socialize -- your innate enthusiasm livens up any gathering.

Sun is in 20 Degrees Pisces.
Extremely sensitive and emotional, you absorb the emotions of others (whether positive or negative) like a sponge. Emotionally vulnerable, you are easily upset and tend to cry readily. You are at your best when you can structure your environment in such a way that you are surrounded by positive, upbeat people. You are very helpful and understanding of the needs of others. Indeed, at times this can be a disadvantage, because you can be a sucker for anyone who needs help. Shy, dreamy, romantic in nature, you delight in retreating into your private fantasy world. Just be careful that you do not get lost in it! Trust your intuitions -- you may be quite psychic.

Moon is in 13 Degrees Cancer.
For the most part, you are very strong and secure emotionally. You intuitively know what to do to make others feel comfortable, loved, accepted and needed. You naturally enjoy feeding and taking care of others. Be careful that your mothering does not turn into smothering. At times, you tend to feel that those to whom you are attached can never do anything without your assistance and support. Extremely sensitive by nature, it hurts you deeply whenever anyone criticizes you. You have an almost desperate need to be loved and wanted and needed by everyone with whom you come into contact, and you go out of your way to be accommodating to them.

Mercury is in 11 Degrees Pisces.
Your ideas and thought processes do not come to you in an orderly, logical fashion. Instead, you think with your feelings or with images produced by your rich and fertile imagination. A very subjective person, your dreams and fantasies are very important to you. You trust your intuitions and tend to reject ideas that are based solely on logic. Very impressionable, you are sensitive to the moods and emotional states of those with whom you come into contact.

Venus is in 11 Degrees Pisces.
You have a dreamy, fanciful, romantic nature and a very creative imagination. Indeed, at times, your private fantasies are more appealing than the reality around you and it is difficult for you to leave them. You tend to be unselfish and giving in relationships and are extremely sensitive of the needs of others. Be very sure that those you help are worthy of your devotion and are not merely taking advantage of your innocence and naivete.

Mars is in 25 Degrees Taurus.
Careful, slow and thorough about all that you do, at times you are also willful and stubborn when others try to alter your course. You are definitely not a quitter -- you will work long and hard to get what you want. Your possessions are very important to you. One of your continuing problems is that you tend to regard the significant people in your life much the same way as you do your possessions -- you become overly attached and much too jealous. You repress your anger when you get upset and that is not healthy. Try to learn to show your anger immediately in order to avoid painful explosions later.

Jupiter is in 27 Degrees Virgo.
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this is right on the money, so? according to all the "experts", i'm s'posed to be most compatible w/scorpio, cancer and taurus and yet, none of those men have worked out. i'm attracted to signs i'm not s'posed to be compatible with and while those relationships were 'never to be forgotten', they didn't last (air signs). those signs with which i'm s'posed to be totally incompatible have dead-ended too. i guess i'm looking for a way to sort all this out, in my younger days i never paid this any mind.

knowing the information unfortunely doesnt seem to make it too much easier.

u can know what your looking for, finding it is the challenge.


its not hopeless though, even me and u share a good degree of compatability. im a cancer with a pisces moon, mercury and venus in cancer. im thinking that would probably make a very strong relationship....with at least one or two things that would be challenges.

i think the more u lock into finding a perfect match, the more close minded u become in your decisions regarding your relationships, or at least i think that ive been guilty of that a little.

stop looking. let yourself be a driving grass blade and you will find your ground. let yourself have control and then love will find you u may be working to hard.

Born Free as free as the wind blows as free as the grass grows born free to follow your heart - live free and beauty surrounds you the world still astounds you each time you look at a star - stay free where no walls can hide you - your free as a roaring tide so there's no need to hide - born free and life is worth living - but only worth living because you are born free!

build it, and they will come...

that about sums it up. as much as i would like to find someone, i know im gonna wake up with me for the rest of my life, so im just gonna keep doing what i need to and the rest will eventually take care of itself.

well, have a good weekend everybody, i know i will. 🙂