Pisces Ex Contacted Me...feeling a bit confused

Hi Everyone,

My ex and I dated for two years. We had a difficult breakup early this February. Since then, we have communicated back and forth vaguely and usually arguing/fighting via text messages.
He drunk texted me the other night.
I texted him, "would you like to grab coffee or lunch tomorrow? "
He texted, " i would. shit is going crazy"
(I went to bed, had school early in the morning)
The next next day he apologized saying "sorry I drunked texted you the other night. I know you got upset last time. hope you forgive"
I responded back, "it is okay. how are you doing? Did you mean the things you said the night before?"
He said, "Your always on my mind even though all the shit you talk 🙂"
He said, " look, I gotta be honest, I really do want to be cool with you but i cant if your going to be upset that I dont respond back to you every 3 days"
(he has moved about two hours away for a new job since we broke up)
Then I said something like, " I want to be cool too, that means a lot that you say that. I understand about the messaging and I will respect you on that"
(I admit I used to blow him up with text messages when I was upset and wanted to talk. he usually was hard to communicate with unless we were in person... I know that would turn anyone off the blowing up with messages.. so i take responsbility for my actions)
I asked him if he was still in town and he said " No 😢"
I texted him a few messages like so how are you doing etc... and he wasnt responding so i said "helloo"
(he used to say "helllo" when i wasnt responding right away)

he said, "see you are texting hello!that's what I don't want 🙂 "

Make a long story short... I still love him deeply and a part of me would love to have a relationship with him again, but I mean we broke up for a reason. So, It is a dilema I a having because I haven't been able to get over him. So, I
What I mean by " I don't know what to think about this" is that I still have feelings for him, I love him very much but not sure where he stands and im not even sure what i want anymore. I do want to have a friendship with him whether or not we are together. I really miss him... like talking and spending time together.
I really would like to hang out and see him in person, maybe see if the spark is still there. To all the pisces, how do you think I should approach this situation? Do you think it is a good idea if I ask him to hang out? I would like to try.

never go backwards... same shit, different time

Youre just having a hard time getting over him. That doesnt mean you should get back together. It seems as though you would prefer to be back with him and be SOMEWHAT happy than to do the hard work of moving on. Its going to be painful and may take a long time, but as you said, you broke up for a reason.

And frankly, he seems annoyed by your communications. He clearly isnt gung-ho to get back with you because he cant even be counted on to return a simple text. IF you were to ever consider getting back w/ him, HE should be pursuing you, not the other way around. I am sure that neither one of you have changed that much in since February to be giving it another go. You'd be making the same mistakes all over again.

Im a Pisces too, and part of your growing process into an ADULT Pisces woman is learning to make decisions with your head and not be a slave to your emotions - which is a pitfall for many Pisces.

Your head knows hes no good for you; its your heart that is having the trouble. Leave him in the past where he belongs. Good luck 🙂

You said is perfectly... my head is telling me no, but my heart is saying otherwise. Thank you for the advice.

Posted by leonessprincess99
You said is perfectly... my head is telling me no, but my heart is saying otherwise. Thank you for the advice.

You're welcome 🙂