pisces-girl

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cancimini
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19 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

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Ok, here it goes...

My best friend is a pisces-girl. She's a doll, truely, and I couldn't live without her!
She had a few disappointments last year, so obviously I feel for her, comfort and support her.

BUT... lately it seems like she's turned into this naive, gullible, superficial doormat, which leads her inevitbaly to more disappointments.
She's in a relationship with a down to earth, grown-up, responsible capricorn, who cares for her. But somehow she seems so afraid to do something wrong in her new relationship, she's so very insecure.
Whenever they had a row (he lectures, she cries), she reaches out to me every single time..
I just don't know what to do.
Sometimes I just feel like screaming; GROW UP!!!!!! Fight for your independence and say NO from time to time, stand up for yourself!!!! (it would maker her so much happier..)
But I think there are other ways to get through to her.
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a4_gemini
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19 Years500+ PostsGemini

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She needs to be aggressive. Why don't you dish her admirations...non-stop.

People with low self-esteem have a tendency blame themselves for their failures more than to blame others people (or circumstances)even though they have caused harm upon them. This can cause them to become genuinely emotional, self-critical, and sadistic.
However, the conduct of aggressors faces the opposite. Besides mainly they were persistently praised
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fishworry
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19 YearsPisces

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I can totally relate to your friend.....i feel we are self distructive...i am with a taurus and its the same....I have no control over my emotions....but i meditate now and its slowly helping....every day for 5 min i think of nothing and sit in one position with no thoughts.....it helps!!! she need to reflect inside only the change will happen...

crying....well that might not end coz we are just so good at it.....lol