Pisces girl disappeard on scorp guy

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Eaglescorp90
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Hey everybody. I need your opinion. So Ill go straight to the point. Im a eagle version of the scorp sign. Recently turned 27. There is this sweet and dreamy pisces girl that i really like. Ive known her since 10th grade, but the last time I saw her was like 10 years ago. 3-4 months ago I started talking to her on FB. I was very passionate, considerate and direct in our conversation. It got to a point where she even disclosed her insecurities and self doubts to me. We talked about everything from what she is like, what she likes to do all the way to really deep spiritual stuff. Somewhere down the line, I kind of picked up that this is maybe getting a bit too much for her, I'm not sure. My last question to her was about her dreams. Then she just vanished. After a couple of months, I closed my fb acc. Then reopened it. I sent her a new message asking how she was doing. She replied telling me all was good. Then we talked a little bit over a 3-4 day period and she told me that she had actually expected me to get in touch again, without her being able to explain why. Then I told her that I really wanted to see her and just talk, but that I couldnt manage to do so before the next 2-3 months, I asked if she would still be available in a flirty and joking way. She said she had no plans to not be available. Then she just disappeared again... after that I sent her a message asking what she thought of me, no reply. I sent her a song, no reply. I wrote a long message were I told her I kind of like her, no reply. After the weekend I just asked how her weekend was, no reply. I stopped after this... but wow..... Im just lost. Cant get her off my mind. Did I screw this up—?? What happened?? 😢
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AQUA•FISH
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Posted by Eaglescorp90
@pisceswoman123

Thank you!! But the last message I sent her, was lite and friendly, and she haven't even opened it. Should I just forget her? How the hell am I supposed to get her attention again in 2-3 months? It will be soooo weird to just say: "hey I can meet you now" in 2-3 months when she disappeared on me...
The last one was but not the others, so she just see you at coming far too strong for her and she needs the space.

Just give her a bit of time. Hopefully you see her opening that last message. Then you could send her another very light one just so she doesn’t forget you but with out putting pressure. If you pressure us we swim away.

Ideally you keep it light until you can meet her. She already knows you want her so now you just have to convince her that it is you who she wants.
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Eaglescorp90
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@sodapop

Yea, you are right. Im gonna stop being a narcissist now 🙂 Feels much better already. By the way her not responding to my last message did not translate into me sending one more message. You are right again, but the point is, I didn't know what it translated into. Who is even the translator and who is it being translated to? That's why I sent one more message of the lite and friendly type, just to figure out the mess I had got'n into... thats just me being a scientist of life.. I dunno... do you think I blew my chance?
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Eaglescorp90
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@DonumDei

A) i dont know what my natal charts are...

B) —.... im not in your presence. This is an online interaction. Me referring to myself as an eagle scorpio is just what I'm drawn towards and like to choose. Even I have not arrived at any conclusion/judgement of me, how could you ever arrive there? How can one even ever arrive at something/somewhere when there never even was any departure? How will you ever conclude infinity?

I've done nothing but cherish her existance subtly, and showing passionate and deep interest in her. Its always been about her. I never vaunt about my intellectual and spiritual superiority. If I call myself an eagle scorpion here.. its becaus Im anonymous. She may have felt what you say, I dont know... what is your solution for me??
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Eaglescorp90
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@DonumDei

Natal charts:

Ascendant in libra

Sun in scorpio

Moon in gemini

Mercury in scorpio

Venus in scorpio

Mars in gemini

Jupiter in leo

Saturn, uranus and neptune in capricorn

Pluto in scorpio

Chiron in cancer

Lilith in saggitarius

North node in aqarius

Part fortune in pisces

Vartex in taurus

Midheaven in cancer

Sun in second house

Moon in ninth house

Mercury in second house

Venus in second house

Mars in ninth house

Jupiter in 10th house

Pluto in 2nd house

Hope that helps, what can you tell me??



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yellow01gt
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it doesn't sound like you screwed anything up...i know scorpio can come off as overwhelming to pisces sometimes because of their intensity, but i see no indication of that taking place here....

it does, however sound like, one part "famous pisces disappearing act," fused with one part "unevolved pisces" (think: immature and/or selfish)...

a lot of pisces will try and play that lame ass "i just needed space, or time to disappear and recharge my batteries" or some wishy-washy b u l l s h i t, but in all reality, we REALLY only need to do this under extreme circumstances (like during a divorce, in my case)...other than that, it's usually a cop out...

i haven't read the other members feed-back on the topic so it may have been covered already, but unfortunately, there may not be a logicall (or even a good) reason for it at this point...

but look at it this way, if she's got you this confused, this early on...imagine how much worse that would potentially be should there be any real involvement to ever take place...

sorry friend, some of us can be total flakes, and sometimes neutral is the best we can hope for...

--Jack
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Posted by yellow01gt
it doesn't sound like you screwed anything up...i know scorpio can come off as overwhelming to pisces sometimes because of their intensity, but i see no indication of that taking place here....

it does, however sound like, one part "famous pisces disappearing act," fused with one part "unevolved pisces" (think: immature and/or selfish)...

a lot of pisces will try and play that lame ass "i just needed space, or time to disappear and recharge my batteries" or some wishy-washy b u l l s h i t, but in all reality, we REALLY only need to do this under extreme circumstances (like during a divorce, in my case)...other than that, it's usually a cop out...

i haven't read the other members feed-back on the topic so it may have been covered already, but unfortunately, there may not be a logicall (or even a good) reason for it at this point...

but look at it this way, if she's got you this confused, this early on...imagine how much worse that would potentially be should there be any real involvement to ever take place...

sorry friend, some of us can be total flakes, and sometimes neutral is the best we can hope for...

--Jack
Damn... First time on Dxp that I see a pisces honestly admitting, that they too have flaws.

Very rare also in real life...

Respect yellow, really 👍
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Eaglescorp90
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@yellow01gt

Woah dude... that was some mature shiz you wrote here. Made a lot of sense. Thank you. I think I'm just gonna forget about her. Things usually solve itself out, when I forget about it and just leave it be. Thats the cool part of being an evolved scorp... I might be intense, but I have a deep understanding for mostly everything. Again, Im very grateful for your time and energy!
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I can think of two reasons-

1. You closed your fb ac while she disappeared. I am guessing it's because she needed space, not from yiu in particular but from everything(We need it ALOT) For some pisces, everything can become a test😂 like she was seeing if you will be there when she gets back but you weren't so she will jump to several conclusions, all negative, ofc blaming on herself that she isn't good enough so you give up on her etc or jump to conclusion of stuffs that hurts her.( Ik it's bad but it's true, we are so insecure. And for the test thing, we do it because we fall hard, we need to see if we can trust the other person with our heart) . During those times, she builds her wall up and by the time you came back, she learn to protect her heart from you so she won't hurt again. Everything you said seem like you are only teasing.

2. We need space big time so she still needs it. Can deal with life problems at the same time as dealing with love life. Both are stressful af