Pisces girl needs advice on scorp man

Met this guy 6 months ago,the energy,the chemistry between us from the first minute was unbelievable!!I was only visiting a friend in his town when we met.We were friend at first over social media then a month later he sugested to meet for a weeken.We hited it off with a long distance relationship because he is 1 hour flight time away from me.Since we seen each other every month twice. After 6 months,it was xmas time I was looking forward so much to spend bit more time with him in his native country where he went to see his family.My sister lives in his country as well and I was to stay at my sisters place over xmas as well,which is only 40 mins drive from his parents house where he stayed.I was hoping for so much.I thought he will come to see me often,he said he has car there so he can drive to see me.We arrive on the same day to the same airport but he arrived in the morning I arrived in the evening.I hoped he will come to say hello to airport ,since he lived cca 20 mins from airport,but he didn't.Then next day xmas eve he called me,saying he was busy shopping for presents.On xmas day he was to come to see me after lunch after I texted him:Santa left you smt here,don't you want to pick it up?He didn't come,and in the evening he texted:sorry but just had lunch with my family and had too much to drink,feel too tired,can't drive now.Also he admitted he went out with his brother the night before to a party,he took mdma and the following day he wasn't fit.Reading this broke my heart!!He prioritised drugs and partying instead of me.I had enough of waiting on him,felt cheated on,so I decided to block him from all social media,but did not block his number.In 2 days i was to go on a mini holiday with my sister and her family for 4 days.He knew where I'll be,since prior xmas I asked him if he wanted to join us:He replied:4 days would be too much,since I'm only 1 week in my country and want to spend time with my family and friends.It hurt me but I still hoped he might miss me me and will come to see me for a day or two.This place was only 2 hours away from his.He didn't. He didn't contact me either.4 days later I texted him:You crushed me inside out.He replied:Why?I don't understand it.Can you talk?Than we texted each other,he did not understood my point of view and I was just too hurt by his behaviour.He rang me that day,and I shouted on him,and told him go and f...k yourself and I hang up.He did not call or text that day anymore.The next the was a New Years Eve,he texted me few msg explaining over and over his stuff,and feeling sorry only for NOT LETTING ME KNOW IN GOOD TIME HE WAS NOT COMING TO SEE ME THAT DAY WE AGREED,he wasn't feeling sorry for taking drugs..etc.I felt tired,hurt from all this and texted him after several msg:Let me alone,move on with your life,you are wasting my time.He did not texted me any more.That was 6 days ago.I'm suffering.I love him,miss him and I don't know if I lost him for good or he just need time because I texted him some nasty stuff??In all those msg he also wrote:I can't believe we just decided to send our relationship to hell because of I didn't come to see you.What do you think guys,what should I do now?Shall I just wait and see what happens?I can't not think about him,nothing can distract me enough not to think about him.I think he loves me,he did say that few times,but I'm fearing I lost him for good,and he will just hook up with some girl if there is no communication between us.(especially him beaing so far from me).

Not trying to be a troll but he's going to hook up with another girl if he hasn't already. Scorpios and long distance situations never really work out. They need too much attention and are so selfish that they will cheat on you and convince themselves that's okay because you ( their partner) has probably done it already.



However ,Pisces women are natural sadist especially if they are in their late teens and early twenties which is what I'm assuming you are so despite this excellent advice I'm giving you right now you're probably going to do everything in your power to make your relationship with this dude work despite all of the red flags. You'll waste a couple years of your youth which you will never get back.

Also you don't love him by the way. You "lust" him and are purely infatuated. The chemicals will eventually wear off sometime within the next 14 months.You'll stop thinking about him all the time and that initial "chemistry" will dissipate. He'll eventually just annoy the crap out of you. This I promise you.

Yea Scorpios must have sex one way or the other

Maybe I'm miss reading but it sounds like you were hoping and assuming a lot and all he promised was that one day and then he apologized for that day because that's all he ever promised. Or am I missing something?

Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Not trying to be a troll but he's going to hook up with another girl if he hasn't already. Scorpios and long distance situations never really work out. They need too much attention and are so selfish that they will cheat on you and convince themselves that's okay because you ( their partner) has probably done it already.



However ,Pisces women are natural sadist especially if they are in their late teens and early twenties which is what I'm assuming you are so despite this excellent advice I'm giving you right now you're probably going to do everything in your power to make your relationship with this dude work despite all of the red flags. You'll waste a couple years of your youth which you will never get back.

Also you don't love him by the way. You "lust" him and are purely infatuated. The chemicals will eventually wear off sometime within the next 14 months.You'll stop thinking about him all the time and that initial "chemistry" will dissipate. He'll eventually just annoy the crap out of you. This I promise you.

Not necessarily true. I was separated from my bf for 5 months and completely loyal, and im not a virgin either. It depends on how secure and connected we feel with that person. Communication and understanding is key. Scorps can be one of the most loyal signs because we are generally so sincere.

Also, i was separated from mt ex for 10 months while he went on a mission somewhere. And again, i didnt even think about cheating, even with so many nights crying myself to sleep missing him.

Posted by Ditta

I was looking forward so much to spend bit more time with him

I was hoping for so much

I thought he will come to see me often

I hoped he will come

This is all about you having expectations of/on him, where he never said he was going to do any of those things.

Furthermore ... it was Christmas, and he went to go see his family. He wasn't there to see you. He never said he was there to see you. He was there to be with his family.

You obviously have no sense of boundaries.

so what? ... when he doesn't run to cater to your unreasonable and unrealistic expectations of him, then you start to pout and cry, as if being victimized?



lol ..... grow the fuck up !!!!!!