Pisces guy is confusing me

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chicana31
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I'm a Capricorn woman, and I met a Pisces man online. He contacted me and was eager and excited to meet me. We get along, have amazing sexual chemistry, and we just enjoy hanging out with each other. In fact, one week we had plans to have lunch and dinner two days in that week. He had the flu but still wanted to see me! We met up both days. 🙂 We go out or stay in. Whatever we're doing, it's always a great time with great conversation. 😄 We've been doing this for a little over a month. And he'll even bring up things we should do in the near future, months from now. For my bday, he gave me an amazing evening with dinner, cake, and a gift. We don't get to see each other a lot because he has children. Obviously, when he has them, we don't see each other. We haven't discussed what we're doing, nor have we discussed exclusivity. He seems to express a little insecurity and jealousy, though, but in a very subtle way. He used to text me almost every morning saying "good morning" or "good morning, beautiful, sexy, ma'am, etc." I do reciprocate this; I sometimes text him first. However, over the last few days, he hasn't texted me in the morning any more. 😢 I have, and he responds very nicely. And he always responds to my texts. He still texts me "good night." I understand that on the mornings he has his kids, he's most likely way too busy to text me. But I at least expected him to text me after they're gone and he's at work. P.S. even at work, he'll respond to my texts. So, what's the deal? Do y'all think he's kind of pulling away or does he like me?
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shellshocker
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What is with online dating and people being so desperate for instant results, relationships or whatever... that sex, birthday gifts, talking about the future, texting everyday... all happens in little over a month?

It's a quick build "something" that has no foundation or footing. It's so boring and pre-packaged I'm bored just reading about it I can't imagine having to experience it.

Now what would come next in this perfectly, promising relationship? Sunday afternoon walks in the park and reading the paper in happy silence at Starbucks?

omg shoot me


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chicana31
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tiki33: That's what I was thinking. I feel as if since he now has me interested, he's not going to try as hard. I suppose I can ask him what the deal is, but it's only been a month, and I'm still not ready to have that "talk." What I plan on doing is waiting a while longer to see how it plays out. Luckily, I'm not in love with him, haha.

shellshocker: I'm not expecting instant results. I was just wondering why the change. I admit, though, that I was a bit taken aback with his constant attention. I didn't dislike it, but I did find it a little odd. Plus, if you're so annoyed with talks about online dating, then don't respond or keep reading! Duh! I didn't post this for your entertainment, by the way.