BreezyOne
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Pisces in need of help for moving on
Pisces, and any sign, NEED other interests apart from relationships. Without your own hobbies, you will be dependent on others and at the same time, incredibly boring. I urge you to find something, a sport, a social group, music, art etc etc, that will take your mind away from people and give you a chance to EXPRESS. pisces are creative people
and i never even understood this until i tried it myself but doing something expressive with yourself helps immensely. Even sport is expressive and a form of creation. you're working on your body and your skills.
Don't go out and get hammered - for a pisces especially - once your hooked onto this its an absolute disaster to the amazing energy you actually are!
You hold so much power to love and benefit people that if you were to party to hard, you will lose this and swim downstream.
I understand your sex thing, and it might even make the pain worse.
My best advice for you my friend, like i said above, is to start finding some passions of yours and work with them 🙂 by the sounds it
" I have no interest in anything and I feel a horrible tearing inside of me"
- you're on the verge of downstream. Swim upstream fellow fish! A break up is rough of course! But when you focus on yourself (your highest self), you will attract the right relationships into your life
Thank you! I am trying to find my passions again. It may just be really too soon because I'm experiencing some pretty bad symptoms of heartbreak like anxiety attacks, not eating, etc. The hardest part for me i think is just trying to find something interesting for me to do over the holiday break. I think I've really just lost my self and my individuality. I will NOT go and get hammered every weekend, however tempting it might be. I've had to turn down several offers from both guys AND girls to just get out of the house.
"You hold so much power to love and benefit people" this made me feel really good, and you are right. I think that because of my Pisces nature [at least for me] i never feel good enough for anyone, and that when things like this happen, its because of something I did. not necessarily distance. I tried my best, but it makes it hard because I'm now close to her for the holidays (2hr drive vs. 1500 miles) and we both had agreed that distance was the problem. I DO hold so much power. I never focus on the negatives of other people because I always see the positives. I was recently told that I'm always smiling even when bad things happen. You are right.
"You hold so much power to love and benefit people" this made me feel really good, and you are right. I think that because of my Pisces nature [at least for me] i never feel good enough for anyone, and that when things like this happen, its because of something I did. not necessarily distance. I tried my best, but it makes it hard because I'm now close to her for the holidays (2hr drive vs. 1500 miles) and we both had agreed that distance was the problem. I DO hold so much power. I never focus on the negatives of other people because I always see the positives. I was recently told that I'm always smiling even when bad things happen. You are right.
@Nemilicious, This IS my getaway. I am currently on holiday break and I work pretty far away from my hometown. It sucks because all of my work friends don't live anywhere near here. Plus, I flew and didn't drive.
@pakmai Thank you. I am grateful that it wasn't that. The situation just really sucks. I missed her all of this time and when I'm finally able to come back home for a while this happens. I cannot stop thinking about her but I guess that's normal. I do believe she is hurt too, and I WANT to reconcile. she said she needs time so I have to give her time, but I don't want to permanently lose her to someone else which is entirely possible, and it's entirely ok. It'd break my heart even more than it has already but LDRs are hard.
@Koniuchaa, I want to let myself feel that way but most of the time I feel pretty numb, or that I shouldn't mourn. I have never understood that of myself but it's the way I am i guess.
@Rabiosa thank you for your input, but I haven't been dogged or anything.
@pakmai Thank you. I am grateful that it wasn't that. The situation just really sucks. I missed her all of this time and when I'm finally able to come back home for a while this happens. I cannot stop thinking about her but I guess that's normal. I do believe she is hurt too, and I WANT to reconcile. she said she needs time so I have to give her time, but I don't want to permanently lose her to someone else which is entirely possible, and it's entirely ok. It'd break my heart even more than it has already but LDRs are hard.
@Koniuchaa, I want to let myself feel that way but most of the time I feel pretty numb, or that I shouldn't mourn. I have never understood that of myself but it's the way I am i guess.
@Rabiosa thank you for your input, but I haven't been dogged or anything.
there's noting to do, nothing can fill that void.
Just survive and wait and something else will happen
Just survive and wait and something else will happen
1-you don't have to burn bridges, if you left on good terms, try to turn that deep connection into friendship, you might need someone to talk to one day and she too. You don't need to lose that love that (you think?) you had
2-Pisce can get infatuated with scorpios because our minds are always racing and they try to control their emotions so we project a lot, but it might just be in our heads. Realize that a more practical relationship might be better for you in the long term. Try a taurus next time.
3-don't get into a LDR unless you know you have a plan to make it happen
2-Pisce can get infatuated with scorpios because our minds are always racing and they try to control their emotions so we project a lot, but it might just be in our heads. Realize that a more practical relationship might be better for you in the long term. Try a taurus next time.
3-don't get into a LDR unless you know you have a plan to make it happen
Posted by hydorahThis is all very interesting, thank you so much. you are right however, that nothing will fill this emptiness.While I remain hopeful the last time this happened (different girl) I was hurt for over a year.
1-you don't have to burn bridges, if you left on good terms, try to turn that deep connection into friendship, you might need someone to talk to one day and she too. You don't need to lose that love that (you think?) you had
2-Pisce can get infatuated with scorpios because our minds are always racing and they try to control their emotions so we project a lot, but it might just be in our heads. Realize that a more practical relationship might be better for you in the long term. Try a taurus next time.
3-don't get into a LDR unless you know you have a plan to make it happen
Why do you say a taurus would be more practical? I haven't really heard of that. In what way(s) would it be? I'm quite curious.
I did have a plan to make it happen, but it seems like while I was ready for it, she was not and didn't realize it until it was too late. we broke up literally 2 days before I was supposed to come back.
Posted by urbane101Posted by hydorahThis is all very interesting, thank you so much. you are right however, that nothing will fill this emptiness.While I remain hopeful the last time this happened (different girl) I was hurt for over a year.
1-you don't have to burn bridges, if you left on good terms, try to turn that deep connection into friendship, you might need someone to talk to one day and she too. You don't need to lose that love that (you think?) you had
2-Pisce can get infatuated with scorpios because our minds are always racing and they try to control their emotions so we project a lot, but it might just be in our heads. Realize that a more practical relationship might be better for you in the long term. Try a taurus next time.
3-don't get into a LDR unless you know you have a plan to make it happen
Why do you say a taurus would be more practical? I haven't really heard of that. In what way(s) would it be? I'm quite curious.
I did have a plan to make it happen, but it seems like while I was ready for it, she was not and didn't realize it until it was too late. we broke up literally 2 days before I was supposed to come back.click to expand
don't pay too much attention to the thing about taurus, it was not completely serious.
You say "she was not ready to make it happen", so does that mean she was not really the soulmate you were dreaming she was?
Don't make your love stories a drama, realize that it doesn't have to be tragic all the time and that you have some responsibility into the fact that it becomes tragic.
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