pisces is driving scorpio CRAZY!!!!!!!!!

There is this Pisces guy that was too shy to approach me so he had someone approached me for him. (I always see him at work, but never spoke to him) While talking to him after having that person coming to me, I could tell he was shy. Me being a Scorpio knew he wanted my number so I asked him if he wanted my number, he quickly said yes. We hit if off while talking on the phone he told me he liked me and I told him I like him. We saw each other for the next three days or so. I was falling for this guy. He knew I was falling for him too. He told me that he just wants to be friends and he just got out of a two year relationship and he doesn't want to get involved with anyone right now. I was f**king pissed. I tried to act calm around him though. I was just confused, how could he approach me and told me he liked me if he didn't want have a relationship. Might I remind you that he has been out of his two year relationship for nearly five months how much time does he need to get over that! He said he doesn't want to be hurt again like that. Also I got out of a two year relationship about three months and I am damn over my ex because he wasn't worth my time and love. After him telling me just want to be friends we still spend time together. The way he kisses me and stares into my eyes it's like we are lovers. And oh my god the way touches my body is magical. I love everything about his guy his physical body and his personality. The thing that bothers me is that after we spend time together it's like he disappears. He ignores me until I see him at work again. He doesn't call me or anything. I have to be the one that calls him to spend time with him. Whenever I tell him I want to see him he quickly says yes. I am so damn confused with this guy. He is giving me mixed messages. I mean he was the one that wanted to approach me and wanted to get to know me. Whenever I ask him if he likes me he says yes. He is almost puzzled as to my reason for asking him that question. By the way we have been seeing each other (or the hell with it I don't know if we are seeing each other or what) a little over a month now. Well today I decided to just leave this guy alone. I haven't told him that I don't want to see him outside of work anymore I am just going to ignoring him like how he is ignoring me.I want to see what will happen. I am at the point where I don't really care if he will fall in love me or not. I am just damn confused and want to move on. Any Pisces can help me out?

If you ignore him like you THINK he is ignoring you, say goodbye. He will only then truly ignore you and move on like if nothing happened between you two. Don't start playing mind games with a pisces, it's futile. He'll see right through all that and it sounds to me he is not trying to hurt you in the slightest, so why be an a-hole to him? Your only triggering a game that comes natural to pisces. If he wanted to crush you mentally, he could.

and you said he wanted to be friends, well there you have it. You sound really brash, like you want him to fall in love with you NOW. Only been seeing eachother for about a month? It sounds to me like he wants to take it slow and test the currents while you want him to dive in all gung ho so soon.

or mayhaps he just wants a nookie buddy. And there you have it.

i like how this scorp at the end goes "i don't really care" yet the title is "pisces driving scorpio crazy!!!"

admit it, you do care. My advice is just do things at his pace and chances are, if he truly likes you and he is in love with you, everything will work out in due time. Quit rushing the man.

scorpiogurl,

Pisces people aren't clingers, aren't dependent upon others, and require tons of space .. most people, while in a relationship are constantly in each others space, hanging on their every word, accounting for every minute of their day .. and we just aren't like that .. we provide more freedom to our partners than probably any other sign and it's done because we care for you and this is one way we show it.

Much like DC said, even with close friends I've had for decades, I won't initiate contact with them .. they have to call me. And it's because, since my space and private time is so important to me, I assume that they want their privacy too and don't want to be bothered .. we don't like being a bother or a nusiance to someone else. It's not because we don't care .. to us it means WE DO care and so we show it by NOT being a pest and invading your space when you need time.

That's how we process it .. is it backwards for some other signs? Probably !!

From what you wrote, he sounds like he's being honest with you and I would give him some respect for that .. a lot of people are players and couldn't care a less about the other's feelings. I know my son is a Scorpio and he can be very intense, impatient and clingy in a relationship .. and I know for myself, I'm the complete opposite. When I watch him, I always think, "If I were that girl, he would frighten me".

There's nothing wrong with passion .. but, Pisces have very gentle souls and if you come on too strong and demanding of us, we usually run away because from our perspective, when we are just waiting silently in the shadows for you to have your freedom of your own life without our interference .. that's how we are showing you we care for you.

A month isn't very long ..

For you, because you're a Scorpio, when your relationship ended with your ex, you were able to get past that rather quickly .. Pisces take a tad longer, Scorpiogurl. Let me tell you something .. I'm still not entirely past a love I had decades ago.

When we love someone, it's down to the very core, and it's just not something we can turn off like a light switch .. our healing process takes a lot of time.

He's trying to be honest with you .. try being a little more patient and give him a chance. If being really close friends is the way he needs to feel completely comfortable with you before making it an official relationship, then that's not so bad, is it? He might be processing this as .. "If she can't be my friend, how can I trust her to be my girlfriend?"

HOw you feeling today, archer? Better?

Oh, that's great that you feel better .. maybe just a little more rest and you'll be back to 100% .. I think it was the birds .. I got them to sing a sweet and soothing song for you. 🙂

Hate !!

We can be hateful, spiteful, mean, and any other negative reaction, just like everyone else .. but, we don't know how to hate someone. Even when a person totally screws us over and makes a complete fool out of us .. we can't hate them for it.

We can hate an action, hate an attitude .. but, not the person. My first husband used to beat the crap out of me on a daily basis and I "hated" it .. but, I can't hate him because he's a person. He has issues, he has problems that has caused him to be violent .. the violence "itself" I hated.

Revenge, I've taken .. not proud of myself, but I have. Never hated the person, though.

Perhaps, there are some Pisces who will come in here say they hate somebody, but, I doubt it because I don't believe we know how.

You're fortunate you had a Pisces parent, pp .. he sounds like he was a great dad, very understanding.

Don't you think it's ironic how people would view us as clingy and dependent on the outside .. when, really, we're the complete opposite? Branh, sometimes comes in here and says how dependent Pisces are on their partners, and other people .. and, yet, we give more freedom than most, and rarely look to the other for direction. Funny how people view other people so differently than they actually are.

Talking about privacy .. snooping is a big "No-No" for me. Someone's mail, or room. One time, a long time ago .. my husband wanted to see what our son was up to and started rooting around his bedroom for ammunition, or some kind of evidence, for who knows what reason .. but, I flipped the fuck out. That's HIS space ..

You're welcome dreamer .. I know a lot of people question this and can't figure out why their Pisces seems so distant at times, yet, very affectionate and cuddly when together. Rest assured, we are thinking about you .. very much so .. we just don't want to bother you, or if we had a bad day, then you might ask us about it and we would have to tell you and that might make you worry, or be unhappy.

I hope everything is going just fine with you and your Pisces man. When a fish loves you, it's with everything he has inside and I hope you can feel his warmth moving you. 🙂

I wish that were true, DC .. then maybe my own relationship wouldn't be in trouble. Actually, talking to everybody in here gives me new insight into my own failings and things I'm doing wrong .. maybe, I can fix myself and fix my marital problems, afterall.

Thank you, DC, for being such a good friend to me. 🙂

Me too .. hubby needs some attention .. good night. 🙂

Hey guys!
I posted the original topic and i am so thankful for all of the information. I think they are very helpful. Let me clarify that I am not going to ignore him completely. I will talk to him, but I won't call him for the next 3 weeks or so and I won't tell him how much I like and care for him. Don't get me wrong I am still crazy for this guy, I am just the type of girl that won't sit and wait for a guy to want me. If he really wants to be with me then he will have to do all the work from now on. I'll stop by and let you all know how things are going in 3 weeks. Thanks a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're welcome, good luck .. and, um, it might be a tad unfair to make him do ALL the work. But, you never know .. he might do it.

Hope it works out for you 🙂

P-Angel,
So if Scorpiogurl, gives him space, and makes him feel that he has privacy time, what does she need to do to let him know that she is not ignoring him. WOULD it be good for her to call him? Or leave him alone until she feels that he is up to par? U say let him have his space, however, do pisces believe that if a person is not talking to them or texting them, that they R being ignored. Is three weeks not a long time to hear from someone? I know U say other signs don't understand this, however, what I am trying to say is that if she does not have contact with him within 3 weeks, would he not feel like he is being ignored?

Krobe, there's a difference between ignoring someone and giving them space. Giving a person space is not being clingy and smothering .. for instance, I'm married and spend time with my husband everyday and still have plenty of space.

People just have different requirements .. such as, with this scenerio, it is felt by this woman that she is being ignored, yet, they work together and see each other 5 days a week and certainly, she was getting some kind of attention or adoration for her to even know that he was crushing on her in the first place. So, to now turn around and completely ignore him .. is a risky move that might end the relationship right then and there, for he's not ignoring her .. if he was ignoring then she wouldn't have gotten the notion that he wanted her, see what I mean?

Space and ignorance isn't the same thing ..

Krobe, are you crushing on a Pisces man, or just asking for general purposes?

Krobe03

I will answer your question.

Do you truly belive this man is soo stupid to not understand the differences? Do you?

I will tell you. He knows and understands much more than she even realises. How? Becase you underestimate his abilities.

Second, you think this is unfair? Do you ever realise that 90% of relationships are for stupid? No? Don't you see people around who get together then leave each other in like a year? You think this is normal? Perhaps you think so, but not for us. What is the point in getting together if you 99% sure that it wont last as long as it should be. Do you think we are also stupid enough and have 100000 days to waste on such BS's? You might have, I cannot tell anything about what you have on your part, but when it comes to us, you have to find another way.

"Whenever I ask him if he likes me he says yes. He is almost puzzled as to my reason for asking him that question."


This references another thing that happens when dating a Pisces that many don't understand, and I would think that it would leave a person to feel as though they are being ignored, when they aren't.

When we say "privacy", "space" & "freedom" .. we also mean in your head. I remember when I first met my husband, many moons ago, one of the qualities he liked about me was that I didn't pry in his head, and he didn't in mine, either. In the whole 25 years I've been married to him, I can't recall ever asking him how he felt about me. Most women just bombard men with questions, questions, questions, "How do you feel?" and a Pisces just don't do this. That's not to say that we never do .. just rarely.

We KNOW how you feel by the way you are treating us .. and we just assume that our partner knows how we feel about them, for the same reason. Seriously, I can't recall ever asking ANY partner how they feel about me .. and I am all girl who's whole existence is built around "feelings".

When this woman said, "Whenever I ask him if he likes me he says yes. He is almost puzzled as to my reason for asking him that question." .. I can relate perfectly to this puzzled look .. I would have the same reaction. I would think, "Can't you 'feel' me inside stirring your soul?" This is likely a trait that comes back to kick us in the ass in a lot of cases, because other people need to hear the words.

"He knows and understands much more than she even realises"

Good morning, Haffo 🙂

Pisces KNOWS .. we can 'feel' it. Imagine the wind against your skin, or an adrenilin rush, or your heart fluttering when in love, or the zinging through your body when on a rollercoaster, or any other "feeling" ..

.. we can "feel" other people's emotions ..

Good Morning to you, too, DC .. it's still morning here.

P-Angel
Krobe, are you crushing on a Pisces man, or just asking for general purposes?
No I am not crushing on a pisces man. I am crushing on another water sign and I want to know more about how water signs get along, so we'll with other I wanted to see what to do in my situation.

This one particular guy, I am interested in is a Cancer. Although, I am not a water sign, I must have some in my chart. Because I feel the same way that U do is situations. I give this guy his space. I don't call much, only if he asks me too. I don't want him to think I am invading in on his private "space". I feel that, I am just intruding in on his privacy. I want him to tell me it is OK 4 me to call.

However, he is in a situation that is devestating to him. I know it is because he told me he is not feeling well right now about it. He asked me to do something 4 him, I did what he asked me to do, however, it is like he wanted to see if I would do it and then did not respond. I have let him know that I want to B here 4 him. However, I am not pushing or forcing the issue. I am like U. He needs space right now. He needs time to think. So I was seeing if I was doing the right thing by just letting him have his space. I was seeing the difference between ignoring someone and letting them have time to themselves. I will not call him, however, I don't want him to feel that I am ignoring him either.

I can "feel" it, It is like I know he wants me to be there, however, he needs some time. I feel it. I don't ask him about anything going on in his life. I just want to know if he is married, or in a serious relationship because if he is, then I don't want to interfere. He comes to me and asks me to call or text him, however, I still think that is invading in on his private life, since we don't live together and haven't stated that we want a serious relationship due to some other outside issues in our life. So point clear, I can feel, that he wants me to be there for him, however, I can feel he wants his space so I will give it to him. He will come around if he wants anything more. If not then Oh well, Y waste time with BS. And no I won't waste my time with a relationship that will last one year either. That is Y I stay in the clear and it has almost been a year.

Yes, P is right. We can feel other people's emotions, particularly those of the person we love. Unfortunately, we can also feel their lack, or the space between what their words say and what the truth is. Which sometimes sucks.

MissNomerFishie,
Hi krobe,
Unfortunately, we can also feel their lack, or the space between what their words say and what the truth is. Which sometimes sucks.
Yeah, however, that is Y I have to sit back before I can go all out for the action, because I am like the rest of the Pisces crew. I need to know if U R going to B around 4 sometime. I can't buy U. Or MAKE U B with me, however, if U stick around long enough I will no that U R valuable.