Hello and welcome ... I have to ask this question:
How have you come to the conclusion that you are in love with him?
I ask this because you said that you haven't even attracted him to you yet, and are asking us how to do this .. so, I'm left with the conclusion that you haven't even developed any kind of loving relationship as of yet with him ....
There's a fine-line between being in love and being infatuated.
There are many ways to catch the attention of people you are interested in, for women, she would normally use her sexuality ... when dealing with a Pisces however, there has to be a connection from the heart .. without this present, then any attention secured will be purely on the physical level, without feelings involved.
If you want to get this Pisces man to notice you, and then grow to respect you enough to consider you for a respectful relationship, even if love isn't involved on his end (meaning no chemistry) .. then I can tell you how NOT to do it ...... don't be promiscuious .. the moment you open your legs to him when a connection isn't present, is the day you lost him for having any kind of respect for you.
I would suspect this is true of all men, not just P's
To reach him ... you have to find what talks to his soul. Figure out whatever that is and share with him how this effects your life .. he will stop and pay attention to your testimonies of how you regard this because it's so close to him.
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i am in love with a pisces man who is a lot older than me...almost 20 years older...
what kind of things should i do to attract him? is it better to be more dominate in the relationship? thanks in advance!!