Pisces Man and Cancer Woman

I just have a question. What do people think are the negative things about being a cancer? See what happened was that I was dating a Pisces man (late 20’s if it matters). We were messaging wach other for quite a couple of months. He kept saying I am in love with him and I like him so much which I found weird ‘coz he was making it seem like all ladies are in love with him.

He even went as far saying I should prove to him that I am worthy to be with him. I thought he was joking at first but I found out he was serious. The thing is a lot of guys have been asking me out and I said no because I felt a connection with this Pisces man and he knows this and that I chose him. Couple of days ago he disappeared for 2 days with no word and it confused me but I don’t chase after men. So I just told him, since he said we are bf and gf, that id this is how he treats his gf and how the relationship will be then it won’t work.

Due to certain work related reasons I had to contact him but I didn’t do so, I asked someone in our office to do it ‘coz I didn’t want to talk to him as he disappeared on me. Then he got upset that I asked someone else to contact me and accused me if this is my way of revenge. I found it so funny. I called him and we patched things up and were sweet. I told him, revenge is not my thing. I’m honestly the coolest ex ever, I’m friends with most of my ex and I have too much self respect to create a scandal or take revenge.

Then he said he loves me that day itself that we started talking again and I was taken aback but I felt I do love him too. So I said the same. We saw each other later that day and was with each other cuddling until the next day (no sex) then everything seemed so sweet and perfect.

When I arrived home I told him about this nagging feeling in my stomach about 2 girls which I think he is not completely having a platonic relationship with. He was so angry and said it seems I don’t trust him, I have trust issues by the way, but when I asked him I was just sharing what I thought. Apparently not a good thing. He said he saw red flags and life with me could never be simple, etc. I apologized and told him I do love him and trust him.

Then he said goodbye and that he wants to end things before it even starts. So I told him ok if that’s what he wants, I respect his decision. So I’m currently on a social media (facebook) hiatus for a week or more maybe.

Question is: I like him and I know I deserve better than someone who talks and acts completely opposite and disappears without word. I’ve read threads where a Pisces man came back my question is will he come back? And how soon should I start dating again so I won’t offend this Pisces man ‘coz I do still want to be friends with him in the future. Just nothing romantic anymore I can’t bear instability and inconsistency.



Would love some guidance. I am a Cancer lady who’s ready to love but keeps meeting seemingly incompatible men.

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i would just move on. its a total waste of energy. there will always be communication problems with him. he needs to grow up. you need to get on a date with someone more grounded. you wont look back. its his problem if he doesnt want to be friends. you will hear again when he sees you moving on.