Pisces Man Help

hey guys- I don't post here that often, but I like reading all of your comments, they're extremely helpful!

I was reading, and of course, I haven't read anything specifically helpful for my situation, so I thought I'd post it and see if anyone has feedback...I'l try to keep it short

I've known this Pisces for about 2 years, we've been talking regularly for about 6 months, dating for maybe 2-3 of those months and then I moved to the opposite coast. During the time we were dating we had few problems, and it was very wonderful.

For the last month I've been here everything was fine, we didn't really talk about me moving, he just said he might be out here sometime for work, which was fine. Since I've been here we were talking every day, being flirty, sharing things with each other like normal etc.

And then we got into a rough patch where I wasn't pleased by something he did, and in his defense he compared me to "other girls" liking what he had done. Which really made me upset.

So then within a few days I kind of got to asking for his opinion on us being officially monogamous and he said he didn't think it would happen, which I understand as the geographical situation sucks. He had told me once he would tell me if he were getting into a relationship with someone else, but he also said he didn't have time for thinking about girls.

I told him I wanted to be platonic, after that, because the thought of him with other people wasn't something I felt like I could handle well if we were still being romantic together.

And at first I thought he had taken it well, but I haven't heard anything from him.

I guess I just want to know if I handled that wrong? Did I miss something?

I really like him, but I just felt like it was the morally right thing to do/ the healthy choice not to wish things were something else.

I"m an Aries with Virgo Rising,
He's a Pisces with an Aries Rising

Oh, and when I said "other girls", these were past relationships - i trust him to believe he wasn't/hasn't been with anyone else recently

"And at first I thought he had taken it well, but I haven't heard anything from him."


So, because you haven't heard from him ... this thread was created?

At first I thought you broke it off with him because it was for the best, but then you mentioned that you had an expectation in the form of a response ... then I knew that you telling him that the relationship should be platonic was for the purpose of trying to get him to do something.

You left him ... he is continuing to live without you.


And you don't like it.

yeah. they disappear. he'll show back up at some point. it's what they do. not that things will be any better, but pisces drama is certainly the most exciting drama. i mean, if you're cool with thinking you'd be better off dead. only if you were dead, you couldn't fuck them. and isn't that really what it's all about? or at least kissing and stuff.

look up the word "attrition". that's the pisces experience.

Hi P-angel!! I hope all is well with you..

Hrae...Pisces are generous people. You asked to be platonic, that's what he gave you. He knew in his heart that long distance relationship will be hard for you. Why didnt you asked him to be monogomous when you were geographically together, why did you asked him when you moved away? You should have trusted him..But what's done is done, with pisces you cant take anything you said back..Back up your words with actions, he'll have a higher level of respect for you n maybe someday he'll want to reconnect. Dont put your life on hold for any guy or anyone. Always do what's best for you!!