My opinion on a relationship with a Pisces Man.

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by illusion on Thursday, July 1, 2010 and has 13 replies.

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@illusion
16 Years

I'm a cancer sun with a pisces moon. Have dated a few pisces. Beautiful creatures.

I want to explain the concept of PISCES MEN to the women who are confused.

See, women want to cage pisces.

you can't.

their elusiveness...... abstract quality, is their beauty. because you don't get it you want it. curiosity arousal. aphrodisiac.

Pisces men were never meant to be caged or stored in an aquarium. They choose who they swim next to. I believe, they are beautiful because of their freedom and mysterious nature. That is their magic. If a trick was revealed, then it wouldn't be a trick now would it 😉

Some animals can't and should not be caged. Instead, they should be observed in their natural habitat... with their true beauty at its prime. You can pet it feed it, and it will be loyal and accompany you. If they choose to run alongside you, enjoy the beautiful qualities they bring into your life.

Our insecurities, our doubt make us want to cling on to them even more when they are searching for freedom, and instead of being able to live vicariously through each other we just push them away.

And if you are one of the lucky few, who they choose to pick to swim by... perhaps forever, smile. because you have a companion... and not a pet.

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@illusion
16 Years

ADD ON:

er, yeh btw. Trying to make a pisces MAN jealous by showing all the men you can attract is a NADA, may as well try and turn your juice into gold.

you will cause him immense pain (although he probably will not show it) and heartbreak... because it sucks, especially when their idealistic image of you is one that TRUSTS HIM enough to know that he loves you in return. your seek for attention just validates your doubt in the relationship = thus pisces sees this as mistrust... he'll swim away.

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@Nefer
17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Mmmm your Pisces Moon is strong - I like that. You have figured out much about Pisces in your young years! (Wish MY Cancer brother could lol)

I'd like to add that you can't make this Pisces WOMAN jealous that way either. For many years, I thought I was defective in that I apparently didn't come equipped with a jealousy gene. I would observe others' jealous displays with equal parts amusement, fascination, and disgust. But peoples' efforts to trigger that emotion (and a reaction) in me failed miserably. I just couldn't feel it like they seemed to want, like they seemed to think would mean that I CARED. Women could not trigger it by rubbing my face in their successes because I was genuinely happy for them - even if it was that they got the guy I liked, got a better grade than me, got the job I wanted, or a bigger raise than I did, etc. (WOMEN play some of the biggest, dumbest jealousy games ever.. at least insecure ones looking for some messed up form of validation of their worth from others' envy.) MEN could not make me act jealous, and they STILL can't trigger it intentionally, I won't give them the satisfaction or play the game and reward their manipulative, childish behavior. (And causing a scene is repulsive to me!) If he tells me about the chick at the bar who flirted and danced and gave him her number... I smile and nod and ask when he's going to call her. True story, happened just like that. Only the Leo blew up, because I wouldn't react like he wanted me to, and that meant I did not care. He was wrong.

I'm allergic to drama, insecurity, and bullshit... you cover all those bases when you TRY to make me jealous, and you WON'T like my brand of penicillin which is more like amputation of the afflicting part! lol I DO FEEL jealousy, but I will never react outwardly to it - unless you know me well enough to know when my guts twist and my heart ices over (few do.) And if you have done it on purpose, then you have set us back more than you even know, and you may never, ever recover from it... barring an honest to goodness miracle. Once you've cut me so deeply with your MOTIVES.. with your INTENTIONS.. with your emotional GAMES... I don't want to be around you anymore, because you're a lighthouse of misery and pain and you give off dark, hurtful vibes ...that unfortunately I will suck up like a sponge until I'm as ugly and insecure inside as you. And I won't have that.

...Doctor! You're needed in Triage! Bring a hacksaw! STAT!

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@Nefer
17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

On second thought... maybe some of the "jealous flashes" I may occasionally feel but not show openly.. are really just the dying throes of my trust, respect, and admiration of the person who just tried to mind-fuck me? THAT'S what hurts me.. not the jealousy... the loss of something so pure and beautiful.

Because I'm not perfect... but my love is.

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@illusion
16 Years

tony:
awww, you're the pisces package 😄 i like!!! 😄 i love my moon so much that i want my sun to be that too! think it is also my philos curiosity (saggi rising) .... i have a constant hunger to need to learn new things! ... and i call on my pisces emotions and intuition to do so, all to often, so pisces > cancer when it comes to my thinking process. yeh 😢 a lot of my best friends (mostly pisces lol) are always hurt in relationships, esp the girls, cause the men mis understand them, they're dreamy, and drift, but not how much they love their parnters 😢 ... the distance is what creates the want! and the magnetism! 🙂 awww thanks 😛 i definitely will, loving the pisces board wayyyyyyyyyy more than the cancer board (full of the drama cancers 😢 ... and not the caring and sentive ones) ... haha and right back at you sunshine 🙂 definitely just made me day!

MegStings:
hahaha don't be sorrrrry 🙂 discovery channel (aka genuine steve irwin is sooooo leeeeeeeeeeegit)!!!!!! and thanks for the welcome!!! yeh pretty much (*points to yoru rising*) haha 😄 twins. i swear pisces moon give you a 6th sense. and huge MINDBLOWING realisations.

damen:
hahaahahah. touche!

Nefer:
thanks for the comment!

yeh think my pisces overpowers my cancer sometimes :/ lol! and i look like a leo when im on the prowl 😛

i DEFINITELY agree with your call on jealousy 😛 heck i'm happy for my partner cause well, i like knowing that i have something that other people want 😛 (my leo talking now) lol

and .... yeh well, pisces realise that showing jealousy sometimes means that there is doubt in the relationship 🙂 it is okay to show a little jealousy... somewhat healthy 😛 and well... love is wonderful, but never perfect 🙂 because perfection is a paradox. hope yoru brother realises his gifts soon 🙂 cause it is AMAZZZZZIN!

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@illusion
16 Years

haha @moon

i agree. cancers don't like aqu. i honestly dont think i have a close aqu friend at all.

pisces men are too elusive for a lot of cancers as cancers crave stability.

but amen for my pisces moon 😛

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@Puguglies
9 Years

Posted by illusion
I'm a cancer sun with a pisces moon. Have dated a few pisces. Beautiful creatures.

I want to explain the concept of PISCES MEN to the women who are confused.

See, women want to cage pisces.

you can't.

their elusiveness...... abstract quality, is their beauty. because you don't get it you want it. curiosity arousal. aphrodisiac.

Pisces men were never meant to be caged or stored in an aquarium. They choose who they swim next to. I believe, they are beautiful because of their freedom and mysterious nature. That is their magic. If a trick was revealed, then it wouldn't be a trick now would it 😉

Some animals can't and should not be caged. Instead, they should be observed in their natural habitat... with their true beauty at its prime. You can pet it feed it, and it will be loyal and accompany you. If they choose to run alongside you, enjoy the beautiful qualities they bring into your life.

Our insecurities, our doubt make us want to cling on to them even more when they are searching for freedom, and instead of being able to live vicariously through each other we just push them away.

And if you are one of the lucky few, who they choose to pick to swim by... perhaps forever, smile. because you have a companion... and not a pet.

This is so awesome!