Pisces on n off

I love this pisces gal a lot. We been texting daily for 3-4 mths. We are going out 1-2 times a week and I buy her all the thing she wants. We are not together yet. Sometimes she elusive. I'm not sure how she feels but we can click very well. I feel so peaceful with her. Pls advise me!

She had a very bad relationship and can't seemed to trust men. She said we can try out in the future as we click. But the last time I asked her, she didn't reply and we are still going out. I buy things for her because I want her to be happy.

The gifts are ok. I sent her flowers n cards too. We are closer in terms of communication today than 3 months back. There is improvement and she cares for me. She even baked for me before.

She is very polite and always says thanks when I buy her stuff. She told me I'm the one who dote her the most. We have a age gap 10+ years. I'm not sure too. Sometimes I'm confused too!

Yes I think she has trust issues with men

Thanks for your comments. Appreciate that! Actually I asked to be together with her.
First time she is not ready after a failed relationship Second time she gave the same reason.
Third time no replies. she says she will give me an answer soon. We are still going out. I told myself actually it
Doesn't matter as long as I can see her, I'm happy.

I always seem to have issues with relationships involving gifts + few emotional reactions. I can say thanks to anyone for anything, whether I mean it or not. Some people are inclined to stay in relationship because they are receiving gifts, and not because of feelings. You might want to try focusing your attention elsewhere. Stop with the gifts and focus on more couple time. Watch a movie at home, have conversations that bring you two closer together. If she swims away at that point, then you know it was the gifts keeping her there. Even things like flowers, etc, can have that effect. Also, it may confuse her. Like 'Oh, he's really nice and buys me things, but ...how do I feel about him? I guess I'll stay with him cause he does do all that for me and is nice, and not because I have genuine feelings for him.' I'm not saying that's how she thinks, but either way, I would still lay off the gifts for a while.
I always think that if a person says they're not ready now, they're never going to be ready with YOU. Because for one, it takes a long time and you need to spend that time alone. 2, because I believe if someone were to come and truly sweep her off her feet and ignite her feelings, she would not be so hesitant and unresponsive, even with her past experiences.

Just my opinion! Please take it as such, and not as fact.

Posted by EusiveSoulll



I still can't believe she's accepting gifts so nonchalantly...hmmm

I am also hmmmm'ing... a woman nonchalantly accepting "gifts"? The pisces women I know don't care for all that flash and gifts (my grandmother and my husband's grandmother)

I concur with the gold digger video.

OP, you're probably trying to buy her love. You cant buy love. Did you get the Memo?

Thanks for all comments. I think i shall be patient and be there for her whenever she needs it. "_"

I just feel like taking care of her. I was actually ditched by a leo!

I have gone out with sagittarius and aries who are more straightforward and I should say daring and outspoken. I could have gotten into a relationship with them but I was not attracted at first as we were total opposites! but Im now just too mystified and captivated by this pisces lady "_"