Pisces woman with Scorpio man!! Help!!

So it's been about 5 weeks since we've met and it's been great. We hang out every weekend and a couple times during the week. I've met most of his family and have formed great relationships with his best friends. He's opened up to me about his past, he told me a lot at he beginning how happy he was to have found me and how much he likes me. We haven't had sex and agreed to wait. The other night we were talking about how long we should wait and he said it was up to me because he'd want it right then and there if I let him. He said "we have fun together, you've met most of my family and my friends really like you.. It seems like that's the next step in our relationship".

First, not really sure how long we are supposed to be dating before we are "official". He's told me from the start he takes things slow and I don't think we are ready to be boyfriend and girlfriend just because things still feel kinda new between us, but just wondering what your guys' experience is with this and if there is an average time haha.

Second, our texting conversation kind of sucks. He's very proper with his texts and we barely text in genera but when we're together it's amazing. We talk nonstop. When we first started talking he'd say cute things here and there and now he doesn't. I guess what I'm wondering with this is if this typical Scorpio behavior where they are all about you and then retract in a way.

Thirdly, we are supposed to go out tonight for his friends birthday and he was out of town and got back today and I still haven't heard from him. I don't want to assume that I'm supposed to go everywhere he is and be overbearing so I just haven't said anything. Is this just me overthinking?

Looking for anyone who's had experience with scorpios. Any advice is much appreciated!
Thanks everyone!

Scorpio man passion is at odds with his moving slowly to make a commitment. Scorpio men are often upfront about their need for sex prior to making anything official. I understand this. Official means binding, long term, and possibly connected forever - even if the relationship doesn't work out. Also a Scorp CANNOT be with a woman if the sex isn't EXTREMELY good. He has to have good sex or he knows that he's not going to stay in the relationship. Thus, another reason why they need to sample the goodies before making a final purchase. Scorp men want something authentic which is not what most people are these days. Scorp men often find themselves in horrible relationships because again, once committed, they're not the type to leave/abandon/release their mate. Even if they break up for a short period of time, they make up or the mate will always be able to be that person for them. Scorp men often find themselves in relationships with women with severe mental issues or addictions or a mean streak that she doesn't care to control once she knows that the man is "hers". I've dated quite a few Scorp men and if he EVER truly becomes attached, you won't be able to shake him off...unless you continue to betray him.

Many of the Scorp men I know have been cheated on repeatedly by their female mates. They eventually leave, but somehow that woman will always have access to him. When she calls or reaches out to him, everything stops and even if he acts disgusted, she gets his attention. All she has to do is place herself in peril and he'll be right there to assist her.

Bottom line...Scorp men are crazy and you have to have either a little bit or a lot of crazy in you to keep up with their contradictions. They want you to be pure and always theirs, but they don't want to you cling. They want you to be able to live without him or tell him to go to hell for an offense, but you must not tell him to go to hell in such a strong way that you mean it and hurt his feelings or make him feel disrespected. He wants everything from you, but will give very little in spurts in return. You have to tell everything while they say nothing.

Sample convo...with my Scorp. Me: What's up Him: Not much, what are you doing Me: Chilling Him: Ok, but what are you actually doing :Me: I'm laying in my bed drinking a glass of wine. Him: Really? Me: No, not really. I have two guys balls deep in my cookie box. What do you think I'm doing? I'm laying in bed drinking a glass of wine. Him: I'm going to fuck you up. lol

My guy has learned to compromise, but it doesn't come by way of texting me with details. If he doesn't tell me voice to voice, then he takes a picture and sends it to me when I ask what he's doing. Also...my guy is a HORRID communicator. Like, he's really really bad at it. I accept it though and am learning not to take it personal or read more into it than that.

I was in a relationship with a scorp for a while. He was my first, so I sort of wanted to wait a bit before having sex, but if it were up to him, we would have been at it since the first day. He was very patient initially, though, and wanted me to be comfortable. We weren't official for a few weeks even though we acted like boyfriend and girlfriend. It was just never addressed. When I asked him if we were dating, he got upset and said he was waiting for the perfect time to ask me out. Haha. He never did hot/cold, though. He was a scorp sun/moon/asc so he was very intense and always available to me. I imagine your scorp has different placements, however. I would be worrying about if your scorp is actually ready to commit or not. It seems he's unsure and is ready to unleash a lot of flakiness on you. I wouldn't push him too hard, but I'd still question him a bit about this behavior. If you start by telling him your worries and fears, perhaps he may be more willing to open up, himself? Then again, that can backfire and make him even more insecure. Good luck.

Thank you everyone so much!! I'm still a little unsure about where we stand and I always told myself not to be "that girl" and ask what we are or where we're going in his mind but I think I might say something. We've never spoken about what we want in the end

Last night though we had sex for the first time. Unfortunately, it wasn't mindblowing like I've read a Pisces Scorpio connection to be. He's very inexperienced and he's told me that before and it kind of showed... He was very hard on himself when it was over which really ruined the moment. I left early this morning and we've exchanged a few texts but that ended like eight hours ago. He always said sex was a big step and now we do it and he's talked to me less today than ever.

Posted by Jes8744
Thank you everyone so much!! I'm still a little unsure about where we stand and I always told myself not to be "that girl" and ask what we are or where we're going in his mind but I think I might say something. We've never spoken about what we want in the end

Last night though we had sex for the first time. Unfortunately, it wasn't mindblowing like I've read a Pisces Scorpio connection to be. He's very inexperienced and he's told me that before and it kind of showed... He was very hard on himself when it was over which really ruined the moment. I left early this morning and we've exchanged a few texts but that ended like eight hours ago. He always said sex was a big step and now we do it and he's talked to me less today than ever.

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You're such a sweet girl to want to be bothered with his lil limp dick ass. You definitely shouldn't have fucked him before getting dick pics. That's a rule to live by. At least if he treats you like shit you know how to hurt him 😉

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Posted by Jes8744
Thank you everyone so much!! I'm still a little unsure about where we stand and I always told myself not to be "that girl" and ask what we are or where we're going in his mind but I think I might say something. We've never spoken about what we want in the end

Last night though we had sex for the first time. Unfortunately, it wasn't mindblowing like I've read a Pisces Scorpio connection to be. He's very inexperienced and he's told me that before and it kind of showed... He was very hard on himself when it was over which really ruined the moment. I left early this morning and we've exchanged a few texts but that ended like eight hours ago. He always said sex was a big step and now we do it and he's talked to me less today than ever.

http://s14.postimg.org/a118rs2vx/Screenshot_2015_09_09_18_37_09_1.jpg[/url]

You're such a sweet girl to want to be bothered with his lil limp dick ass. You definitely shouldn't have fucked him before getting dick pics. That's a rule to live by. At least if he treats you like shit you know how to hurt him 😉

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Hahaha that is so funny. Good to know. Whatever I've decided to try and not think about it too much and just live my life. If he wants to start making an initiative I'll reciprocate but I'm not going out of my way.

Posted by Reincarnation
So what do you Pisces ladies consider good sex?

Good sex is a meaaannnn long stroke. Which requires at least 7 thick inches.

Good sex is knowing how to fuck me like a porn star or slow fuck me like it's the end of the world and we're I'm love.

Good sex is consistently hitting the g-spot while whispering in "be quiet" my ear 👅

Good sex might include holding my hand during sex

Good sex involves me giving sloopy blow jobs with occasional eye contact.

The only connection I need in sex is to the dick. Lovemaking is a bit of a different story.

Posted by Reincarnation
So what do you Pisces ladies consider good sex?

It depends on the nature of the relationship. If we have zero emotional connect and are just chill, maybe have a mental connection thing going on, he better keep it stiff all night long or be so good at it (the motion in the ocean) that I never want it to end. If there is an intense connection/chemistry, we can have any kind of sexual contact and I'll orgasm. My Scorp can make me have one by just blowing on me. LMBO!!!! No, but seriously, when he kisses me deeply, I'll pop one off. The best sex between us, which we discovered on accident, is our make up sex. Lol He is a relationship foreplay expert. Meaning that he initiates foreplay of all sorts, not just in the bed or when it's time for sex. The funny thing is...he's a one minute man and very vocal about it. lol ha ha ha ha

However, I'll take his one minute over anyone else's one hour. FOR REAL! It's the most intense one minute ever. Plus, we do some of the most kinkiest stuff ever together and he doesn't judge one bit. If we ever break up, he'll forever be remembered as my "Nasty Man". So, the level of kink definitely makes it good for us. I asked him if he was like that with everyone he said no and that the kinky things that we do are "sacred".

Posted by Jes8744

He's very inexperienced and he's told me that before and it kind of showed... He was very hard on himself when it was over which really ruined the moment. I left early this morning and we've exchanged a few texts but that ended like eight hours ago. He always said sex was a big step and now we do it and he's talked to me less today than ever.

You don't seem very aware of your surroundings.

it's been 5 weeks, you've met family ... but, you're still standing in a spinning head, not able to make out where you stand ... and now this !!!

Certainly, you showed him, according to your reactions, that you were disappointed. There's no way I would believe that you continued to act (into him) once the moment was ruined, as you stated. No, once turned off, there's no doubt in my mind that that is how you presented yourself. Sure, a person could fake it, but, you don't even seem to know where you're even standing, much less, playing a situation out to see how it falls.

Very odd for a Fish.

My recommendation would be to discontinue relations and do an extensive self check.

and he's a Scorpio, for crying out loud ....... he's been picking up on everything from first day your eyes met, and he's probably wondering where you are, and whether he should stick around for a while to see if you make an appearance