Questions About Pisces

I'm a capricorn female and a close family memeber of mine is a pisces. For a while now, she's been a little emotionally unstable. Not extremely, but she cannot take pressure and everything that she can't do anything about bothers her -- she's never been real good with reality. Yes, I am very emotional, but she is an emotional tornado! She seems to find contentment in her own unhappiness. In the beginning, the image presented was so strong, but now that I'm older I see that everything was just an image. Now she leans on me for emotional support ... I have no problem giving it to her but it's really hard for me to pity anyone. As I can't play into the whole "people just don't understand me ..." senerio.

When I try to help her or try to advice, she takes it as a personal attack. If she keeps acting this way, she is going to drive herself crazy. My question is what can I do in order to ease her mind without coming-off as harsh and to bring her back to emotional stability. I try stop her from feeling sorry for herself but then it seems like I'm (dare I say :O bullying her -- my goodness I don't intend to, she's just doesn't like my approach 😢 So, this makes my attempt at helping her completely impossible. She's an emotional wreck and I really don't like seeing her this way. But she is sooooo sensitive about things she feels I don't understand ...

How long has she been like this? This month I have been an emotional wreck! And I keep a diary so I know that every April I get feisty & cry a hell of allot & snap at people for no reaz - I can not be consoled during this month and have lost allot of mates in April 😢
Another thing is Health - I find if I am not getting my vegies I really go down emotionally!
Keep at her & don't let her play the poor me roll on ya - It all seams very real but when she snaps out of it she will see how silly she was being
Hope this helps

pisces,

thank you for the feedback. You are right, April been mean month to her too. She really emotionally damage because she cannot let go of what happen to her in the past, she refuses to seek mental help, so she smokes to keep her nerves in order; she use to drink too but she cannot anymore because of medical reasons. Hopefully I can get her to snap out of it. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! 🙂

you sound like a great friend to have around!!! I wish I had a couple of thouse last April 😢

Well I heard pisces and capricorns have good rapport when they learn how to understand each other. I understand her, but I just don't want her to drive herself crazy or triles.

I mean trifles

I had a similair situation with a Pisces woman couple of weeks ago. I talked to her about her and her problems and why she acts so irrate. She sometimes went irrational again on my comments and then I just maul her head with proper words and then she understood. You just need to be a strong person and know when she falls and does mistakes and point it out. That the only solution I know.

Haffo,

I'll give that a try to be thr strong one for her. If she doesn't realize her mistakes, she'll just keep making them ... a never ending cycle.