Sagitarius Woman & Piscies Man

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butterkup
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14 Years

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I have been seeing a man for about 6 weeks roughly and he is newly out of a very abusive realtionship his ex girfreind used to very emtionally and physically abusive most of the time we click well. As he is a bit commitment shy we have aggreed to being freinds with benefits.
We go out and when we are out we kiss we cudddle everything is like a regular realtionship. But because he works nights he can only see me one day a week being Saturday. Now I have always felt he was very good looking, like very good looking and sometimes this is very intimadating to me.
On Saturday we met up this being the Saturday before Valentines we exchanged gifts he gave me a watch and a necklace which was lovely. That night i became a little over effectionate while out and he said "dont treat me like your show pony" I was unaware i was treating him badly.
Now we are both singers and through the night he was singing songs to me one in particular ub40's kingston town. every time it came to the line. When I am king I will surely need a queen" and he looked up and looked me in the eye and then sang bon jovi "allways" the same thing happened. When we got home we had had a few drinks and he said he had feelings for me and I said I had feelings for him.
The next day he woke up at 5 in the afternoon and was still upset about the show pony thing he said i was deliberately looking at other people before i kissed him and it felt like I was making a point and I have apologised over and over and hes still freindly to me but I know this hurt him.
When he is at work we usually text each other through the night. Now tonight I am reluctant to text him as my gutt feeling is to give him some space.. He also said at the end of the year he would be moving to the other end of the country and he said he wanted me to come with him when he sobered up i asked him again and he said yeah if things are progressing well.. What should I do now I am mainly concentrating on getting things comfortable and freindly again as I think hes feeling hurt..
Also keep im mind hes a guy that tells a lot of jokes and likes to be light..
I sent him a text earlier and said "am I forgiven" he replied with "wat 4" I then text "well I thought you was angry with me I dropped you off so i bee worried" and that was like 2 hours ago and no reply.
We have over come a lot od negative stuff to be together which I described in an earlier post which have ceased and it sbeen peaceful up untill this.