Scorp girl and Pisces boy....I need some help!!

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saggirlius
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Hi everybody! I need some help with a Pisces boy I am dating. We've been dating for 2 months now and we've been sleeping together. Initially, I had no problem trusting him but recently I have doubts about his intentions. I have a friend who is an aqua who is showing interest in me. But I totally just like him as a friend. This aqua friend is a big time player BTW. Well Aqua who knows well about playing suggested to check Pisces boy's phone. He said I will be surprised what I will find out LOL! So one night while Pisces and I were together, he accidentally left his phone in the bathroom. So out of curiosity I checked his phone. I found text messages from a girl which later I found out from Pisces that she was his ex. BTW Pisces doesnt know that I saw text messages to and from her. Anyway, Pisces said they were totally done since a year ago. One more thing, Theres a small picture of him and a girl posted on the wall in his room. Before it meant nothing to me but after I found out about the text messages, out of curiosity I asked Pisces about the girl and found out she was the ex gf. Now my questions: Do Pisces behave this way? Do you guys think he still has feelings for her? He admitted they still talk and see each other but only as friends. Whats up with the picture? do you guys keep pic of your ex displayed? His reasons they are still friends and its a nice pic of their trip. Should I ask him to take the pic down? I just feel his being disrespectful to me to have a pic of his ex posted on the wall in the room where we sleep together. Just want some insight if I should continue seeing this Pisces boy. I don't want to get caught in the middle incase they have some unfinished business going on! Thanks very much!

His chart: Birthday March 6

Sun Pisces 16.25
Moon Scorpio 10.19
Mercury Pisces 15.12 R
Venus Taurus 0.03
Mars Virgo 1.43 R
Jupiter Virgo 3.52 R
Saturn Virgo 24.13 R
Uranus Scorpio 25.33 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.36
Pluto Libra 21.18 R
Lilith Virgo 26.50
Asc node Leo 29.14

My chart: Birthday Nov22

Sun Scorpio 29.45
Moon Aries 20.11
Mercury Sagittarius 18.12
Venus Scorpio 15.03
Mars Leo 8.58
Jupiter Cancer 4.47 R
Saturn Virgo 0.12
Uranus Scorpio 13.12
Neptune Sagittarius 15.17
Pluto Libra 15.46
Lilith Gemini 23.44
Asc node Libra 14.10
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lovable_pisces
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From my experience, the only reason I would keep anything was because I was still holding on to something. As a pisces, there are only two behaviors I would display long after break up. If I still like them, I would still be speaking to them and holding onto their stuff. If I am over them, I will remove everything that reminds me of them because its very painful to keep it around. It will be like they did not exist in my life. Only the memories are still there. I may keep a few photos at most, but usually in a box and out of sight.
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saggirlius
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The texts were only replies from the girl...Dang!! I didnt know how to work his phone so I couldn get to his outbox messages. The text messages were something like these for what I remember:
1) I she your gf yet? ( could she be referring to me?)
2) I didnt know I supposed to pick you up. (Pisces went on a trip came back that day, sent me text messages and I assumed his ex too)
3) I remember you took me to that restaurant. (I guess they went there somewhere hahah)
4) Im just dating around I still have feelings for my ex ( could be Pices??IDK!!)
5) Thats what you wanted me to do right date other people? (Ya just date other people)
6) Im hanging out with friends its hard to text right now. (Maybe Pisces being pushy hahah)
7) I only reply to your text out of respect. ( What does she mean by this?)
8) How come you stopped asking me out? (maybe cause Pisces has me already ok stay away from him LOL)
9) Maybe we can do it when you get back. ( yah Pisces is back from his trip not sure what their planning to do tho)

Well those are some of them...I add more as I remember them..Thanks everyone!!!
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P-Angel
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"I spoke with him, he said he cares for her and all he wants is the best for her but he doesn't want to be with her neither does she. The girl has a new bf now. Should I still give him space to figure things out? Thanks."



No, he doesn't need space, you should continue the relationship as it was before you got attention from another man, and so started looking for things to play against him.


"Initially, I had no problem trusting him but recently I have doubts about his intentions. I have a friend who is an aqua who is showing interest in me."


Maybe this will make Aqua come on stronger .... if you play your cards right, you could keep both of them hanging.


"One more thing, Theres a small picture of him and a girl posted on the wall in his room. Before it meant nothing to me but after I found out about the text messages, out of curiosity I asked Pisces about the girl and found out she was the ex gf. Now my questions: Do Pisces behave this way?"


Who are you trying to bullshit?

Curiosity, my ass ..... you didn't have a problem with this pic before and the reason you do now is because you have another man interested in you, and so now you are looking for things in which to create drama so you can have both men vying for your attention ...... it wasn't until this Aqua man became interested in you that you decided to not trust your Pisces man anylonger .... and so you decided to not like a pic he has that didn't bother you before.


No, Pisces don't normally behave this way .... but, Scorpios do. Scorpios are notorious for playing head games with partners for emotional control.
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saggirlius
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Just to clarify things, I really like my Pisces and I have no intention of having any romantic relationship with my Aqua friend,. I started to have doubts about my Pisces when I saw the text messages sent to him from his ex. I just dont want to be involved with him in case he still has feelings for his ex. That would hurt be big time if we continue and I develop deeper feelings for him. I've been honest with my Pisces..I don't want to hide anything from him cause I know as a Scorp hiding something creates jealousy and distrust.He knows about my Aqua friend showing interest in me...even things regarding my past, two guys that I used to date are trying to get my attention again and Pisces knows about it. . There are other guys interested in me so I wouldn't use My Aqua friend as a way to create drama. I don't need attention from another men..I do get it all the time. I usually ran from them, disappear from them..and I will admit I make up excuses to get away from them. But, I want to stick with my Pisces!!! I like this relationship to work thats why Im asking for an advice. So please don't get me wrong, I care about my Pisces and would not want to hurt him but at the same time I care about myself and wouldn't want to get hurt. BTW hes taking the picture down.
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P-Angel
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"I started to have doubts about my Pisces when I saw the text messages sent to him from his ex."


That's ^^^^^^ not what you said.


You said ...

"This aqua friend is a big time player BTW. Well Aqua who knows well about playing suggested to check Pisces boy's phone. He said I will be surprised what I will find out LOL! So one night while Pisces and I were together, he accidentally left his phone in the bathroom. So out of curiosity I checked his phone. I found text messages from a girl which later I found out from Pisces that she was his ex."




You're player Aqua friend, to whom is interested in you .... you listened to, you acted upon something he said to do, you made him more important than the Pisces guy by going behind Pisces back and snooping, because this is what Aqua wanted you do to, so you would be surprised by what you saw. That is what you said.

You had no idea about the ex texting until after started doubting him because attention was coming to you from Aqua man.


"I don't need attention from another men..I do get it all the time."


I'm sure you do have many attentions from men .... and I'm sure you make sure Pisces man knows you do get it all the time.
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Arm a Gettin
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A few of the text messages seem very fishy; mostly from her part. It sounds like his ex still wants to be with him and there's a possibility he may regret not being with her. The picture, on the other hand, doesn't really mean much as some people like to think it does; at least not in my opinion. Some people, like myself, are just very sentimental and like to hold on to pictures of everyone whom we've shared a connection with. This doesn't necessarily mean he is still in love with her, or what have you. However, I can see why this would upset you since he's so openly hung this up for all to see. At the very least, he could have put it away some where.