Should I let my Pisces back into my life— ADVICE

Ok guys. I posted last November about how me and him fell out.

To recap, I did something, not to him, but to someone and he did not like they way I went about it, and cut off all ties with me. I understand his position of being annoyed about what I did. I just wish he would have asked some questions before he acted. You know, get a full understanding of the situation and why I acted the way I did. We had no conversation about it, no nothing.

Him dissing me & cutting me off in a hott minute making me know I'm disposable lol hurt me to my core. Months after the hurt is still there, but not as much as it initially was.

For four months he ignored me (we work together) and even one time we saw each other, he made the most foul facial expression lol to me, in a way like eww like why are you here. lol. So I'm like damn he hates me.

So most recently he's been telling me hi and smiling at me and I'm saying hi & smiling back. He usually would avoid me and areas that I'm in, but surprisingly he stood right next to me couple weeks ago. His buddy told me he wants to speak to me again but does not know how to approach me.

Initially, I was like I should tell him that you burned that bridge with me already. You stay on your side I'll stay on mine. But, see I don't wanna come of like a bitter biotch. I was never angry just really hurt.

Then on the other hand he is very young and he isn't so mature, (I'm like 6 years older than him)and I should take this opportunity to tell him how I feel and accept him back into my life. I'm going to get over it, but I will never forget it. It's nor gonna be the same. We had such a nice vibe going on. 😢

be cordial. you have to smile and fake around people you loathe at various points in life.

you may harbor resentment and frustration over the past but don't let it rule you.

you didn't close the door, he did. if he chooses to be passive aggressive and fearful, if he doesn't have the balls to walk through the door that you have kept ajar, he's not much of a man is he and if that's the case, why do you give a damn either way?

I guess I give a damn cause I actually see worth in him.

And what I did to the "someone" was a result of her betrayal. Basically I told her something in confidence and she broke that trust and told the person it was about. I was pissed and I let her know. Lets just say it wasn't pleasant.

How did he expect me to react? It was so personal and for her to blab ...hurt & disappointed me.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/should-i-wish-him-happy-new-year-or-just-let-go-2351400/



You're a bitch, and not the good kind .... he realized that when he witnessed you being way harsh with a person, and told you he couldn't handle it. You passed him by, like a bus because you were letting him know that he doesn't control the situation

I don't think I was abusing him. How can you say, you want to keep your distance from me. Then the next day we see each other, you smile and wave at me like if we are all normal and cool? Confusing much, you don't think?

Is that how you Fish do? Games?..... NO.

When I don't acknowledge you, you get all butt hurt and mad. I don't understand though, cause YOU said 3 days ago , basically you want nothing to do with me. So me doing that should not affect you in anyway, right? Cause its what you wanted, correct?

G A M E S ??_. Smh