jojo35
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So I approached the libran with a text again.....
I was not one of those who said to call him...I said I wasn't sure why you were confused he had a date..and that was it..he wanted not to go further or he would have initiated it. No man will just let a woman go he sees more with. When he left that in your hands he was telling you he wasn't into you.
Move on dear fish....Swim.....
Move on dear fish....Swim.....
Posted by NemesisPosted by jojo35
After my last message, all of you were saying ok just ask him out again, after our first date, he said, "if you would like a rematch and like to be shown around my area let me know and I would gladly show you around!" to which I replied, that would be nice!
Nothing since then last Sunday text suggestion from him, so now being Friday night, I ask him how he is, he humours back that I am glad I suggested this gym he is now going to and how have I been...I then mention things are good, would love to show him London....he said he would love that and I mentioned it would be good to see him again. Then text gone dead again, this is the similar pattern last time...nothing is mentioned or dates set. I just don't feel he is into me, otherwise he would be setting dates and as we met online he is back on there today/very early this morning....and late last night.
So perhaps it was just him being polite and seeing what else is out there etc....thats fair enough but would rather he didn't suggest meeting up and do nothing about it.........its killing me......I cant carry this on, its like pulling string!!! arghhh!!! damn this libran man, he is 22nd October, I am 26th Feb!
ok saturday morning rant over...I even did the whole humour thing with him, tried loads of things, but feeling deflated again....!!
to be precise: only one single person in the previous thread - encouraged you to reach out. did you read any of the other input.
back on square one - cause those are all the steps to this dance. it's not a mystery....
Such a lovely message lol, yes i did and well being a pisces my intuition thought ok leave it so I did and well he text on saturday night whilst I was out saying "he really want to see you, I am free saturday next week and all weekend the following!" ......we are going to london this weekend...he texts in-between, so perhaps I was using my intuition all along, he called me today too.....I guess the deep Scorpio is secretive, the libran is flakey and wary....thank you for your positive reply lol!!
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Posted by SpinCycle
I was not one of those who said to call him...I said I wasn't sure why you were confused he had a date..and that was it..he wanted not to go further or he would have initiated it. No man will just let a woman go he sees more with. When he left that in your hands he was telling you he wasn't into you.
Move on dear fish....Swim.....
thanks but he is now texting me alot since I took ages to reply to him Saturday night and didn't respond Sunday to him as I was genuinely with my friends and busy....seems to have worked....you see us Pisces can play that game, my mercury Aquarius can be very detached if I feel someone is trying a tactic or perhaps not sure or whatever else.....i want to see how keen he says he is or his actions. So I disagree with what you are saying as he is now initiating it and asked to meet him this week...if he is playing games or taking his time I will give him that and be the same too, but if it turns out to be game playing/chase and continues for a long while then I will back off completely and get tired of this. I don't know what is yet as its still early days....and on date 2!
Posted by jojo35Posted by SpinCycle
I was not one of those who said to call him...I said I wasn't sure why you were confused he had a date..and that was it..he wanted not to go further or he would have initiated it. No man will just let a woman go he sees more with. When he left that in your hands he was telling you he wasn't into you.
Move on dear fish....Swim.....
thanks but he is now texting me alot since I took ages to reply to him Saturday night and didn't respond Sunday to him as I was genuinely with my friends and busy....seems to have worked....you see us Pisces can play that game, my mercury Aquarius can be very detached if I feel someone is trying a tactic or perhaps not sure or whatever else.....i want to see how keen he says he is or his actions. So I disagree with what you are saying as he is now initiating it and asked to meet him this week...if he is playing games or taking his time I will give him that and be the same too, but if it turns out to be game playing/chase and continues for a long while then I will back off completely and get tired of this. I don't know what is yet as its still early days....and on date 2!click to expand
Sounds like a bunch of bullshit to me but hey to each his/her own.
Posted by SpinCyclePosted by jojo35Posted by SpinCycle
I was not one of those who said to call him...I said I wasn't sure why you were confused he had a date..and that was it..he wanted not to go further or he would have initiated it. No man will just let a woman go he sees more with. When he left that in your hands he was telling you he wasn't into you.
Move on dear fish....Swim.....
thanks but he is now texting me alot since I took ages to reply to him Saturday night and didn't respond Sunday to him as I was genuinely with my friends and busy....seems to have worked....you see us Pisces can play that game, my mercury Aquarius can be very detached if I feel someone is trying a tactic or perhaps not sure or whatever else.....i want to see how keen he says he is or his actions. So I disagree with what you are saying as he is now initiating it and asked to meet him this week...if he is playing games or taking his time I will give him that and be the same too, but if it turns out to be game playing/chase and continues for a long while then I will back off completely and get tired of this. I don't know what is yet as its still early days....and on date 2!
Sounds like a bunch of bullshit to me but hey to each his/her own.click to expand
Whatever, maybe you just like bad news or me to say he isn't texting etc to which you want to be right......who knows but think this post is definitely over now, i am happy....maybe you aren't lol....have a happy day!!!!
I'm Libra/Virgo cusp sun, Libra rising, Gem moon. However, the dominant placement in my chart is Scorpio Venus. So I'm lots Libra but in some ways I don't fully understand some "typical" Libra stuff.. I do however understand being heavy Libra-ish and romantically Scorpio-ish, so maybe I can help? (I briefed myself on your original post and noticed he is a L/S cusp.)
First i will say, when my now husband was first showing interest in me I did not consider us a romantic possibility at all, not even a little bit. I found him attractive at a distance and nothing more. I did very much enjoy his company, conversation, etc. Scorpio energy craves romance that is very deep, as water you know, but is skeptical and very reserved. If I were you I would ignore other posters saying water and air = never. Normally I would agree but cusp suns are different. Some astrologers say cusps are irrelevant, the sun is fully in one sign or the other but I call bullbutter. I personally have significant Virgo traits that do not make sense based on anything in my chart besides my sun being only One degree Libra.
Anyways, your guy is not an air sun. He is an air/water sun. And what else do you know about his chart? You being Cap rising may explain why he's not falling head over heels.. besides the fact that Scorpio simply needs time to warm up. Maybe he's unsure of your passion because Cap can appear cold and boring on the surface. I say you two just need to get to know one another better. Give it time and don't give up.
And be a little assertive! Not crazy assertive.. but pleasantly persistent. _??_
First i will say, when my now husband was first showing interest in me I did not consider us a romantic possibility at all, not even a little bit. I found him attractive at a distance and nothing more. I did very much enjoy his company, conversation, etc. Scorpio energy craves romance that is very deep, as water you know, but is skeptical and very reserved. If I were you I would ignore other posters saying water and air = never. Normally I would agree but cusp suns are different. Some astrologers say cusps are irrelevant, the sun is fully in one sign or the other but I call bullbutter. I personally have significant Virgo traits that do not make sense based on anything in my chart besides my sun being only One degree Libra.
Anyways, your guy is not an air sun. He is an air/water sun. And what else do you know about his chart? You being Cap rising may explain why he's not falling head over heels.. besides the fact that Scorpio simply needs time to warm up. Maybe he's unsure of your passion because Cap can appear cold and boring on the surface. I say you two just need to get to know one another better. Give it time and don't give up.
And be a little assertive! Not crazy assertive.. but pleasantly persistent. _??_
Posted by basari
Don't date any air signs as a pisces. Period.
my first love and high school sweetheart was an Aquarius. We were inseparable, until he had to move. _— They also make great friends.
Jojo bean,
Libras are more logic than emotional. Try not to push with so much emotions. Instead, stimulate his mind intellectually and don't be too available. They like a challenge.
Libras are more logic than emotional. Try not to push with so much emotions. Instead, stimulate his mind intellectually and don't be too available. They like a challenge.
thanks SinsASong41, well we were out this weekend and it went well, he doesnt do emotions at all, same as many librans I know but we get on well so we will see, thanks for the tips I am just taking my time at the moment and he has just moved to the area getting to know people....so London seemed to keep him happy as he had never been...that was a good experience for him lol!
Posted by duchesslibro
I'm Libra/Virgo cusp sun, Libra rising, Gem moon. However, the dominant placement in my chart is Scorpio Venus. So I'm lots Libra but in some ways I don't fully understand some "typical" Libra stuff.. I do however understand being heavy Libra-ish and romantically Scorpio-ish, so maybe I can help? (I briefed myself on your original post and noticed he is a L/S cusp.)
First i will say, when my now husband was first showing interest in me I did not consider us a romantic possibility at all, not even a little bit. I found him attractive at a distance and nothing more. I did very much enjoy his company, conversation, etc. Scorpio energy craves romance that is very deep, as water you know, but is skeptical and very reserved. If I were you I would ignore other posters saying water and air = never. Normally I would agree but cusp suns are different. Some astrologers say cusps are irrelevant, the sun is fully in one sign or the other but I call bullbutter. I personally have significant Virgo traits that do not make sense based on anything in my chart besides my sun being only One degree Libra.
Anyways, your guy is not an air sun. He is an air/water sun. And what else do you know about his chart? You being Cap rising may explain why he's not falling head over heels.. besides the fact that Scorpio simply needs time to warm up. Maybe he's unsure of your passion because Cap can appear cold and boring on the surface. I say you two just need to get to know one another better. Give it time and don't give up.
And be a little assertive! Not crazy assertive.. but pleasantly persistent. _??_
I read this and thought, my god this is true, you know I struggle and almost hate my capricorn rising but its good for work lol not for relationships arghh!! its so reserved and aloof even I know I am like this with people and more so in relationships, doesnt help with my moon in virgo either....it takes me ages to warm up too and never show signs I am truly interested but always show that I am polite, suggest new things to do,go and interesting conversation. Early days as date 2 was yesterday.....I am not that assertive so I think I need to be at some point this week one day before we meet again next weekend.....hmm will get my non capricorn head on and more pisces. Thanks for you input. I have venus in aries, mercury in aquarius so can be aloof again and talkati
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Nothing since then last Sunday text suggestion from him, so now being Friday night, I ask him how he is, he humours back that I am glad I suggested this gym he is now going to and how have I been...I then mention things are good, would love to show him London....he said he would love that and I mentioned it would be good to see him again. Then text gone dead again, this is the similar pattern last time...nothing is mentioned or dates set. I just don't feel he is into me, otherwise he would be setting dates and as we met online he is back on there today/very early this morning....and late last night.
So perhaps it was just him being polite and seeing what else is out there etc....thats fair enough but would rather he didn't suggest meeting up and do nothing about it.........its killing me......I cant carry this on, its like pulling string!!! arghhh!!! damn this libran man, he is 22nd October, I am 26th Feb!
ok saturday morning rant over...I even did the whole humour thing with him, tried loads of things, but feeling deflated again....!!