Trying to stay on top of water with my Pisces Man

I would value and cherish advice from anyone who can help me figure out what direction to take with my man. I am a leo and I met my pisces man a little over a year ago. We had moments together since Thanksgiving. We started a much bigger step the beginning of May after he came back from a trip that I was supposed to go on, but didn't (long story). We spoke and he mentioned how he missed me not being there and he realized that if he didn't take a step forward that he would lose me forever. (Actually I was just about to be done with the extreme hot/cold) but I believe everything happens for a reason. He said that I am a beautiful woman inside and out and that it would've been his loss if I took off and that it would be my loss if I decided to quit because I didn't go on the trip (which he is absolutely right).
Things have progressed quite a bit, but the hot and cold still goes on, but I love this man. A situation came up that he knew from someone that I was in love with him and he came out and said he had strong feelings and that he was falling for me. When we are physically together, I truly believe every word and feel it in his presence. But when we are not together or I go through moments where I don't hear much from him, including texts or calls, I start to think that he is not really interested.
My most recent situation.......a little over a week ago we were together and during intimacy he comes out and asks me if I would be interested in getting married again....so I said I would one day and then I asked him if he would be and his answer was "he's been thinking about it". Now I left it at that, because I'm not pushy or reading much into it except the thought that a man who is totally not out of his divorce yet is bring up marriage for one day in the future. In my opinion, a man who is going through a bad divorce would not even consider a new marriage anytime soon. Maybe I'm wrong? I don't know!
All goes well, beautiful night with the man I love.....then boom!!! I hardly hear from him....no return text messages.....simple ones like Goodnight, nothing serious! I feel a distance and I'm not sure how to take it. I need advice very bad! I don't want to make a rash bad decision if I'm overreacting in my thoughts and feelings.
This man may be a pain in the butt, but I'm in love with this pain in the butt! He's beautiful, encouraging, hard worker, good supporter for his family........etc.

Give it time to the time. Sounds like he's not 100% with it but he's certainly interested. Just let him swim around a bit and pretty soon he will bite the hook permanently.

You think too highly of yourself, in regards to what he wants of you .... because if/when a Pisces loves you, you know.

you don't know .. which means he doesn't feel what you do, no matter how much you try to make it so. People tend not to fully realize what they are dealing with when they attempt to play mind games with Pisces. That's all I see here, rather than any real feelings, because if the Fish was into you and loving you ... you would know.

In reading between the lines, I would say your insecurity is what is really the culprit here. You feign that you don't know what's up, but, it's all right here ...

"... he realized that if he didn't take a step forward that he would lose me forever ..."


There's no reason for him to fear that ^^^ simply because you couldn't make a trip with him. Therefore, the only reason he would is because YOU planted that seed in his mind which told him that he should fear loosing you.

Make sure you're not talking out of both sides of your mouth, because if you are, he will realize this the moment his rose-colored glasses come off ... at which time, he'll swim away.

And let me give you some sound advice, that you'd be wise to take heed of ... if the Pisces decides that you're not worth him, then the Fish leaves without any warning. You will believe that everything is perfect, then he's out without any closure EVER

So, just make sure you are on the up and up here ... because no matter how many times you say you don't give him pressure, I don't believe that, according to what you wrote in here.

The statement I made were things he told me. Anything I mentioned about me are what he portrays of me. Im not one to put myself on a pedestal by all means.
I am extremely compassionate and loving person and will do anything to make someone happy. Im the least selfish person anyone will ever meet. I just don't want to overstep my boundary with such a beautiful man, but I don't want to set myself up for hurt also. Im just finding ways to understand how Pisces men are. Ive been in a 20 year marriage with an Aries and I'm totally emotionally messed up by it. I want to give this man the best life ever! He was not treated fairly in his past marriage, now he deserves that and I want to give it to him but I need proper guidance.

Im not at all trying to cause any tension on here. Im just looking for clarity and advice on how to give this man a great life. I don't ever disrespect him, but only show him encouragement. I send him an affirmation every day as to how wonderful he is and how proud of him I am.
Its very hard to write every detail of the last year of our life to make it totally crystal clear.

You are both going through divorce?

why then, isn't slow good enough?

I smell rebound

Posted by Bella1295
Trying to stay on top

This is a good start

Hydorah, A good start in a good way or a bad way? 🙂

did I say "a good start" or "a bad start" ?