Trying to understand Pisces sun/ Gemini moon

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Hi Fishes,

I have this friend who's pisces sun, gemini moon.
She's helpful, but then she's also very cynical, negative, etc.

She keeps deriding her intuition, and tels herself to be *logical* (mus be the gem side)

So, I feel that she has pushed aside a big part of herself.
Shes now super money focused and materialistic for some reason, though she is also artistic.

She also says one thing and does another.
Like she says she doesnt like certain type of people, and then, like shes trying to walk in their shoes, she *becomes* the type of person she spoke against. Or she derides something about someone, THEN becomes that person she so spoke against. It is confusing and unsettling!

I want back the old pisces I know, but this one looked like shes been trampled by life too often (it happens to the working class)

I think her mind's a bit skewed right now, can anyone relate, or correct me?

Because tbh, I dont understand her one bit, well I used to understand her, but not anymore, after she just totally became a different person.

Is this her real self, or what she's gonna be in future?

Thanks if anyone can offer a friendly insight.
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Awake, she has boycotted astrology. The last time I talked to her, she said it was bunk (and she knew I liked astrology).

Although I do care for her, we have sorta gone our seperate ways for now. She sort of stepped over the undermining limit for me.

There's a sort of passive agressive way to the things she does and says.

I want to understand her (to see if shes as dangerous as I thought) - well I thought she was dangerous because her intuition was powerful and she only unleashed it in secret.

As in, she lives a very logical life, materialistic, etc. I dont think shes capable of maintaining friendships anymore..


From what I know: Life stepped on her fish.

Like her bf, and people at work. Took advantage of her giving nature.
But the last time I met her, she has become this person she once talked about - the selfish taker.

so, we arent talking anymore.
just wondering if this can be salvaged.
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Posted by Awake
Yeah, shes started down a dark path. Just keep your distance from her. Upstream fish gets stepped on....bad twin comes out. Its what you're seeing now. Just sounds very undeveloped, she may need this process before she can improve. GL



That was very deep, Awake! By upstream fish, do you mean like a fish trying to swim against the flow of the river or something? Or you mean a fish trying to make a mark on the world?

Ya bad twin comes out, but only to me, though. I wonder why.

Tbh, she was not like that before.. I mean it just got worse from early twenties.
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Posted by Alir0x
I'm a gem moon and asc. And as everyone else says, I say one thing and do another. Usually not purposefully, when that happens my head is thinking with logic (gem) and then I end up following my heart (pisces).



But do you know how it affects others?
Like, my Piscean friend tells me X is bad, when I do it. But then, later on, she does it herself.
So, I was thinking: You told me that was bad, so I took it that that was your philosophy. But then yu go right out to do it. Are you pickin' on me just for the sake of, or are you really just this confused?

I don't have Gem influence, but I expect consistency especially in Values..

(nothing personal, I am just throwing this out there)
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Posted by Alir0x
I'm a gem moon and asc. And as everyone else says, I say one thing and do another. Usually not purposefully, when that happens my head is thinking with logic (gem) and then I end up following my heart (pisces).



But do you know how it affects others?
Like, my Piscean friend tells me X is bad, when I do it. But then, later on, she does it herself.
So, I was thinking: You told me that was bad, so I took it that that was your philosophy. But then yu go right out to do it. Are you pickin' on me just for the sake of, or are you really just this confused?

I don't have Gem influence, but I expect consistency especially in Values..

(nothing personal, I am just throwing this out there)
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She's just inconsistent and that has nothing to do with Pisces or Gemini anything.
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Posted by Alir0x
I'm a gem moon and asc. And as everyone else says, I say one thing and do another. Usually not purposefully, when that happens my head is thinking with logic (gem) and then I end up following my heart (pisces).



But do you know how it affects others?
Like, my Piscean friend tells me X is bad, when I do it. But then, later on, she does it herself.
So, I was thinking: You told me that was bad, so I took it that that was your philosophy. But then yu go right out to do it. Are you pickin' on me just for the sake of, or are you really just this confused?

I don't have Gem influence, but I expect consistency especially in Values..

(nothing personal, I am just throwing this out there)
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Hmmm. Yes I am inconsistent but I'm not going to lecture you about what you should or shouldn't do. I like to try and keep an open mind.