understanding leos

I'm a Pisces, and the guy that I was talking to is a Leo, the thing is that sometimes I feel like we're great and everything is fine, but all of a sudden for no reason we end up getting mad and just stop talking and then talk again. What's up w-him. Is he afraid of commitment or what, help me?

I don't know how long you have been in this relationship but maybe forewarned is forearmed. Leos MUST!!! always be the biggest, best, smartest, etc, etc, etc. If you can pull off the act that they are you might have a tiny chance of success at this relationship. Also, you must NEVER be prettier or receive more attention than him. You must also never show that it bothers you when he showers all his attentions on another woman. After all he can't help it if all those other women find him irrestable. It is his lot in life that he must try to satisfy as many women as possible to save them from an existance of total meaninglessness. I think we Pisces are aware that we are as smart, pretty, etc, etc, as any other sign and after a while it becomes too much to tolerate their superior attitude.

I am a Leo dating a Pisces male. I find that at times we both find that we are stubborn. Our relationship is awesome and full of wonderful surprises. Yes, us Leo's are overwhelming at times but you pisceans know how to handle us. I have found my soul mate.

Girl, I understand everything that you are going through. I'm talking to a Leo and we have been talking for 4 years off and on and the same bullshit that is happening in your relationship is happening in mine. I don't know what's up with that. I guess they are scared of a serious relationship.

i was involved w/a leo for 4 years, and i was constantly having to deal with his leo temper, leo ego, leo everything. I nearly lost who i was in that realtionship. Pisces are so easily controlled, and leos are controllers.

My advice - Pisces worldwide AVOID having serious relationships w/the Lion.

I have always dated aquarians ans finally am dating a leo and we really have an understanding for each other,we finish each others thought..Girls they may be overbearing at times but leos and pisces communicate well and that is the key to a healthy relationship.I have found my soul mate in a leo.

To tell you the truth, I don't think that there's ever a point where one can understand a Leo. One broke me in half. Nevermind just being heartbroken, my entire spirit was destroyed. We met last winter, and it was intense, the most intense feeling that has ever overcome me. But he is from Holland, and forgot to mention that once he left htis country, in December, he wouldn't be back, for a very long time. So... where is he, how is he? why didn't he tell me? Who knows, maybe he's a wimp, coldhearted, mean or cowardess, what ever, which ever, the reason why doesn't even matter anymore. I cannot ever trust or open up to the ever so charming Leo man again. Why? because you cannot count on the to wlk the straight path with a Pisces woman. He knows such intensity, first hand, and rather come straight about things that aren't easy, or simple for your relationship to withstand he'd rather dismiss or eliminate the things about him or your trelationship, that he feels might be painful for you. The secrets are the wrong secrets, and the considerations will be the wrong considerations. And, the next thing you know, you'll be wondering, who the hell this man, that you've spent every waking minute with, really is. And once the security that you felt from probably the instant you met him, is gone, or diminished, you'll whined up unsure about everything that concerns him. Take my word for it. It's not worth the pain. I've got the emotional scars to prove it. So, no matter how irresistable, I back away from the dynamically attractive trap born underneath the sign of Leo.

Listen,I know first hand about having your heart broken by a lion . I dated a leo man and a very passionate affair it was ,I'm a painter and at the time I painted angels in all my paintings,he was a muscian and played his guitar perfectly .We sang together made love together and love was beautiful .I was 28 and he was 41,both from different races and different places it was heaven.He told me what a hard time he had committing to other women I thought I was different .At 28 I was diagnosed with BREAST CANCER and he became the cowardly LION.That new years eve he actually took another woman out to party.My esteem went to a all time low my paintings and designs went flat no life.Now at thirty I have beautiful full breast 36c's I had Acups before and my esteem is being worked on and my art and design are flowering once again .I missed him for a long time and I won't say that I will never date a leo again, but I will listen more and if a man say's he's a womanizer or show's some problems in committment then I'm out of there.I WILL NEVER GIVE UP MY HEART THAT EASILY AGAIN.

Anne(the voice of experience in this situation)says: You cannot get them to be serious about you because they think they are the only person that really matters. Although they pretend to themselves they care about others they can't actually put anyone above themselves. If my experience of them is anything to go by. We are there to serve them and nothing else. Nearly lost my life because I wouldn't lose who I was. Tell lucinda: "Here, here, totally agree" ............

Leos are not the best choice for Pisces people.

I am a pisces female and have been seeing a leo for almost a year. recently we have had a break because i found out he was cheating on me, he reasons are he is insecure and thought because i got more attention than him that i was going to cheat on him. he is very sorry now and says he would never do that to me again, not quite sure what to do. Maybe some people deserve a 2nd chance. But i must admit Leos and Pisces have a very intense relationship.

Emma

i'd say forget about him! move on! it seems as if leo's eyes are always looking at others!

water + fire = intensity. Sometimes it's nice, sometimes it's hellish. I can personally attest to this fact. If it actually works, it's a testament to the strength of the two people in the relationship and their commitment to MAKE it work. This is not an easy relationship in the least.

Hello everyone,

This story is very complex from the beginning and at this point I am the only one who really understands the scope of this story for the last 46 Mths, almost 4 years. I want to state from the beginning that I am in now way shape or form putting down Leos or any other sign for that matter because we are all special and bring different traits to the Universe. I am trying to figure out how I can word this posting in order not to take up space. However, this story and the incidents behind it could take up several web pages. I am a 1st Decan Pisces for anyone who does not know what that means, there are 3 Decans for Pisces which is basically 3 cut off points within the month of February and March.
Therefore all pisces men are not the same we all have differences some good some bad. Anyhow I met my Lion Princess
on March 25th of 2000. I had rebounded from a 9 Year relationship that I broke off in October of 1999 with an Aquarian Woman mother of my 8 Year old Daughter. She is now with a Leo who she will eventually leave, lol. Getting back to the story at hand let me just tell you that I just made it back from hell. I was the biggest fool the day I met her and later began a relationship. I can relate to what everyone on this board is saying about Leos. I have been lied to, cheated on, deceived, and a victim of domestic violence on several occasions. I have this rule when it comes to hitting women. I just don't. I will grab their hands or block myself and try and calm them down. I made a mistake several years ago and ended up in a cold cell. This relationship gave me
the experience that I need to determine the seriousness behind meeting a woman at a club or even through an acquaintance. This sign has all of the traits that in the Bible are considered Demonic and or devil like. Jealousy to the extreme, Envious and a non democratic view of life. Fidel Castro, Adolf Hitler where Leos and these men were tyrants. What happened to me can happen to anyone who does not understand the serious implications of a longe term relationship with this sign. Although there are some signs that Leos are made for like Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, aries. The reason why water signs are attracted to Leos and vice versa is because we are exact opposites. This does not mean this relationship is healthy. Do not get me wrong we had many good times Clubbing, Dining, Shopping, Plays, family reunions
all that good stuff. But the Bad outweighed the good and that is where I had to call it quits. I can not believe this woman lied from the beginning just to remain in the relationship with me, talk about feeling deceived from hell. There are some really crazy things I can tell you about but I prefer not to because it is sick minded. This sign really takes pleasure to a whole other level yet will act as if they are discreet and have morals. I continued in this relationship for my own personal reasons she is the Mother of my first son. She is 28 Yrs old and I am 30 she got pregnant after our first year together and I explained to her that I was not ready and wanted to wait. But once her Mother found out she was manipulated into thinking everything was going to turn out right thus having the baby. I realize that it was my mistake for getting her pregnant, I wore a condom all the time till one drunken night I did not care. She was on top of me and locked me while having sex making me have an orgasm right away. I had never had a woman that did that to me. I predicted all of this happening since back then and knew we were not meant to be. She told me that she was going to have him with me or not. Then I later broke the news to my ex and my Family which basically made me look like the bad guy for coming out straight to everyone. This has killed me in so many ways I could not even start to tell you. I have worked really hard since high school to try and become a success in my Industry and all of the p

Jesus Christ, I did not intend for my posting to be that long, oh well better days. Maybe I should write a book about my life. Just kidding, check you all out later....


Christian

OK, I just want to say I'm a Leo, and I don't express any of those traits. I'm the one solving problems not creating them.

Morgan,

Again this communication was not intended to insult any sign as I stated earlier. I am not saying that all Leos are as trifling as she was. I am just talking about my experience with a Leo and how undesirable it was. I am sure you are a very nice person. Unfortunately, I just had terrible luck on this one and no big deal, life has gone on for me. I have already found someone who is alot more loving and caring than she was and she is a Libra sign. Again, I wish you all the best with your pisces, we reall are good people, till someone crosses us...

*SIGH*
Thanks christian, although I'm with a gemini now.

And also I wish you the best of luck, that's a terrible story 😢

hang in there, sarai. seems like many of us pisces have been encountering some rough waters lately _ both in life and love
bless you
allen

well u all be careful

"Leos are not the best choice for Pisces people."

maybe not for anyone(rofl)

I have a Leo guy'friend' I have right now. Exactly how everyone describes a Leo. Christ, how can anyone deal with that crap - wait then again, nobody couldnt. Ah well. I dont have a problem with the women but the men..christ. I had one goodfriend who was a leo(actually two) VERY VERY CHARMING! and very kind! but some of them are just straight out ass holes which brings out the ass hole in me! pass the ass holes around woo hoo.

Ok wow I dont know.. :/ me and him argue a lot but then we find eachother being friends again.

As a Pisces man I am very private about my life and tend not to share it with the public. However, after reading some of the stories related to Leo and Pisces I just had to comment on behalf of people who have not incurred the experience. What kills me the most about this whole situation is that she does not even show a bit of gratitude for all that I have done for her and my child. I bent over backwards for her and my son and it was never enough. I blame myself for being vulnerable at a time in my life where I was rebounding and felt lonely. I told her from the get go that I did not want no commitment and just wanted to be intimate with her and date. Children were definitely out of the question, I barely knew this woman. The fact that I told her that I did not want to continue the relationship with her drew her on to me more. before you know it I was thinking ok maybe this might work afterall. But I got to tell you something about us Pisces and our sixth sense I immediately knew she was not for me. I was drawn in by seduction and sexual tendencies. When I had a cell phone she would call me 24 24. I guess she did not like the fact that I was not calling her on my freetime. Additionally, from an astrological perspective Uranus just entered my sign to stay there for the next 7 years so I know this has triggered our breakup for good. A pretty good explanation is here http://home.earthlink.net/~tgastro/Forecast.html<BR> I have to admit she really fooled me and I guess this is Karma from what I did to women in the past. I now feel a feeling of emptiness that I will eventually get over. I really miss some of the good times we had before we started living together. But oh well off I am to find me a scorpion or Cancer woman who needs a man like myself
hopefully this will be the one because if not I might as well become a gigolo.

Oh by the way one more thing I felt as if I was losing my identity slowly but surely. I gained weight an excess of like 25 pounds. Now I am dieting and
am about to start an excercise regimen that I was on before I had to babysit ms leo. Does anyone know how I can lose this weight without starving myself or fasting. I am willing to work out 3-4 days out of the week. I just figured someone may have some advice on how to lose weight fast. All of those restaurants finally caught up to me and I need to lose. Any opinions or secrets you all can share. Thanks....chris

christian,
I can definitely, relate. I too have been bouncing between different relationships, then blaming myself when something goes wrong. It just leads to depression.
Us Pisces love sex and we relate very well to females in all areas, but it seems that drama (and even heartache) is a constant. We simply care and feel so much that it hurts. Compassion is a good thing, but it can always be the pisces curse.
be strong, chris
allen

Here is a twist to the story, she called me today and wanted to make peace. Basically, I confronted her in regards to having other emotional relationships and she has told me that none of what I suspect is true. Apparently she is telling me that she never cheated on me and that I sexually gratify her enough where she does not need to. This was the biggest part of our break ups and her leaving my home with my kid. Now I wonder where this story is going to end up. I still care about her but I can not be with somebody who will turn on me from one day to the next. Thanks for your advice allen but now I feel cornered. She asked if she could come over and told me she still is in love with me. I told her we need to openly discuss some things and get to the forefront.
I can not tell if we are reaching a new level of understanding and togetherness or what. To be honest with you I am really confused and need to continue to seek out the truth no matter what. I also told her that this will go nowhere
if we can not establish trust and common faithfulness. However, for now I am happy she is living on her own and I am as well. I guess opposites attract, I am starting to think she may be reaching another level of maturity. However, who the hell knows we the new generation are breaking barriers left and right. I have read different schools of thought about Leo and Pisces
some say good some say bad. Who the hell knows, I just want to live my life without having to deal with emotional tantrums. Can we all just get along.
To be honest I think we will not last
long because she will eventually want tohave her own way and I have standards that I adhere to because of safety and
just a quality of life that does not need any dramatic changes especially changes that are based on impulse....

" All those who fail to plan. Plan to fail"

chris

Hello all, a conclusion to this story
this relationship will not work. I just can not stand being lied to even if it is a small white lie. If you can not trust the woman that you sleep with who the hell can you trust, Yourself that's who.


Regards,
C

If I may, taking the heat off the leos, using the opportunity to ask the pisces guys about other pisces guys. I?ve been on this subject before, Allen may remember.
My story: Months ago I met my favorite pisces guy a few times, always in company of mutual friends. A definite come-on every time, didn?t respond but liked what I saw and heard about the guy.
This was late last summer. Last month we met again by chance, without friends and as both were still interested ended up for a drink at my place - nothing else was offered or asked for.
But, just when relaxed and starting to chat, the pisces told me "up front" that he was in love with A Woman. When I asked, he said they?d been " close" since her divorce, 7 yrs before!?
Now, I don?t believe for a second these two do have a happy
relationship when the guy behaves as single and is still on the prowl. (Besides, I found out I?d known the woman for a long time so my doubt is doubled)
But as I?m still baffled about that guy I need to understand; is this something pisces guys do usually do or feel or what?

beloved turtle,
Just be patient. Us pisces boys can be complex and confusing, I readily admit that. Always dreaming of grand lands and happy land. Alas, it can be elusive no matter how many things go right
keep on advancing at your own pace,dear turtle
jim morrison is alive somewhere

ahhh. cute.

Allen, you DO understand - thank you. I?ll start a new thread instead of sneaking in on this one again.

the pisces male loves to flirt and just be around women. Speaking of experience, we end up hurting loved ones in the process. We don't appreciate the good thing we have. sometimes we don't do well with reality.
lord knows, my life and relationships have been complex in recent weeks. happiness is such an elusive bird.
have a great weekend turle and freebird, i am off yet for another business trip when I would much rather sleep. i so feel tired.