What does this pisces woman wants from me...

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10 Years

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Me and this pisces woman were really close friends for a while, she has a boyfriend(on and off relationship) and we were talking about everything for hours.
Few months ago i felt that i must cut this connection because it was taking too much of my free time.(and energy)
So she was sending messages and calling me and i didn't answer.
Now she calls once in a while and we talk and she always calling me a douch for not talking to her and she says that I've changed and stuff, and i told her so what? She keeps talking to me in sarcasm with a cold voice and judging me about stuff and i told her to get to the point and asked her what does she wants from me and shes still says "nothing" while shes holding me on the phone.
i told her that i don't want to keep talking and she keep saying in a humorous way "Now i will call you every day and you just have to deal with it".
When i first met her she was so down and depressed and i just wanted to help her to get back on her feet.
Why can't she take a hint, if im not answering it means that i don't want to talk.
She's trying her luck from time to time to see if i will pick up my phone and talk to her.
If ill be too bold she will be depressed for a day,week,month and even more...
thats how emotional she is.
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I have friends that have helped me during difficult times and she's not being fair. I give my loved ones breaks and after a rough patch that they've seen me through, I simply call or text to let them know that things are better and just to let them know that they are appreciated. She doesn't realize that when your support system sees you through a rough time, you literally owe them the reward of GETTING BETTER. Also, I have a tiny bit of jerk in me that sees the humor/entertainment in what she's doing. She's getting a kick out of getting a rise out of you.

It's kind of funny, but it's not cute OR healthy and she needs to get a life. At the very least, block her and allow her to grow up. If you feel kind of bad or feel for her then tell her straight up...

"I feel bad for you and I need to disconnect from you indefinitely. I hope this time out of touch motivates you to grow up. However, I will no longer enable you and hinder your growth.

Simple as that.
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Posted by PV&Jellay
Original are you male or female? It almost seems like you are taking it personally she's not interested in more than friendship, ao now you wanna give her the brush off. Were you upfeony with her about being interested in more than friendship when you met? Or did you tell her you just wanted to be a friend will you met her? 

The answer to that makes a difference.
I've told her from the beggining that we were just friends so nothing would get awkward, i also wouldn't think of being with her especially as i know her life story and how unfaithful she was with her boyfriend.