what is it——

what is it——

I was introduced to a Pisces last year online. We instantly clicked, but he blew me off because I live in Long Island, he's in Conn. We hooked up recently, almost a year later, emailed 5-6 times a day for almost 2 weeks, met and had a GREAT time (HE kept saying it, I agree) he followed with emails saying how much he felt in sync with me. THEN he makes 3 tentative dates and doesnt even call to say theyre off. I am getting mixed signals. Is this Pisces behavior?

honestly, I don't even know what to say about this one lol.Have you spoken to him, about why, he hasn't been able to make it, to 3 dates in a row ?

Called him today. We supposedly had a date....no call,etc. When I got him on the phone, he was at an oyster festival with a male friend. I said that I didnt mind if he cancelled, but minded that he did not have courtesy to call. He said it wouldnt work because it was too much work because we lived so far away. I get that. What I dont get is why he led me on all this weekend, and even before that.

Most guys are like this - Sad but true

that sucks.....how do you know who to trust? i am a scorp, trust is Very Important

You scorps are smart - Just do the maths & follow that.

Pisces guys are fine to be with just missunderstood - figure out what he likes - Try sport cause allot are into that & then back off - give then attention but do it in a kind of I am not kissing ur as way - just casually give a compliment - dont be a slut cause they don't like that. If he does something that bothers you dont show it - Let him be with his mates cause that is very important.

Hummmm - Don't know if I know much else about pisces guys - very different to pisces girls.

"THEN he makes 3 tentative dates and doesnt even call to say theyre off."


Once is borderline tolerable with a decent explanation. Anymore than that and he's messing you about. Tbat doesen't mean ALL Pisces males will do that, but it does mean he doesen't consider you worthy of consideration.

Cut him loose.

sexyscorp,

He's not serious about you two, or he wouldn't have done this. When a Pisces has a connectin with someone, they work toward being with that person, not away. Like liekaiser said, cut him loose.

There's two things to keep in mind,
1) because Pisces are such cameleons and can change ourselves to suit any other person or environment, this will also happen while checking out the situation with someone when considering them to be a potential partner. That's why it seemed so great and he was even saying it. That doesn't mean it was great, just him being a Pisces. Most Pisces do this, even though they think they don't. It's not leading someone on, it's just doing and saying whatever it takes to make the other happy, until the fish has figured out whether they want to be with the other person or not. Because we are so good at getting into character, it would appear as though we're having the best time of our lives while in your company . . really, we're just checking you out.

2) The other thing is also a problem that most Pisces would say they don't do because they don't look at it from the other person's perspective while doing it. It seems to be a trait mostly in the earth people I know, but, a large amount of Pisces do it as well. We just don't want to say "NO". Many struggle with this daily. I don't think it was him trying to be inconsiderate or leading you on, just his fear or inability to say 'no'. That one comes back and kicks fish in the ass a lot because then they end up getting taking advantage of, just to turn around and then say, they're being abused. lol

The part that really gets me about people who won't say no, for fear of hurting someone's feelings is, in the end, another person's feelings get hurt even worse because if you can't say "No" to someone, then you can't call them and be curteous and use consideration when backing away and that hurts the other person even worse. People who do this tend to just swim away without any warning . . and that's not suppose to hurt? Saying "No" would have been less painful to the other person. So, Pisceans who do this end up hurting people more than they even imagine, but, have no clue.

Your friend sounds like he falls under both these malady's that are often Piscean traits. So, the answer to your question is yes, that's Piscean behaviour, but, that doesn't mean that all Pisces are like that. It just means that those are some of the bad qualities we often possess