What is that overly judgemental crap?

Can anyone elaborate?

Can you please be more specific Haffo?

Thanks :-)

I don't really hold too much stock in people being judegemental, especially in here.

If a person relays a situation, in here, on the phone, or even in person - to another, normally we only get ONE side of the actual situation. If we get the other side, it's from another persons perspective (the one bitching) .. to really know HOW the other person feels, we'd have to have both people present. So, any and all judgements or opinions are biased .. which makes it meaningless and carries no value information for production. That's why when I respond to posts, it's mostly pointing out what the poster is saying and how they acted, what they said .. because that "other" person who they are bitching about isn't present.

Secondly .. if a person is in here asking WHY, or asking any question about a situation or a person .. in essence, they are asking for an opinion.

If you side with the poster .. you are awesome and appreciated
If you side with the person they are bitching about .. you are judgemental.

You can't side with the poster because they are only telling you THEIR side .. so, it's a no win situation. If you side with them KNOWING your making an assessment based off of a limited amount of the ACTUAL facts .. then you are in reality - lying to them.

You can't win.