12amerie
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What is up with pisces men?
Honestly, due to the lateness and brevity of the convo, he really didn't want to do anything but let you know he was leaving. Sometimes we just do that, we don't want to stir anything up, but someone we once had a connection with we do just think about and want to say something, not harmful, but more so just because.
I don't know if he is over you or not, but Pisces do move on also and if the fight really hurt him, though we may forgive (which it sounds like he has) usually a relationship romantically won't happen again.
I don't know if he is over you or not, but Pisces do move on also and if the fight really hurt him, though we may forgive (which it sounds like he has) usually a relationship romantically won't happen again.
Astrosociology appears to be an up & coming science 🙂 But, in all seriousness...
I'm convinced that Pisces has an advantage over all signs, including the other 2 water signs (Scorpio and Cancer), and this is borne from my personal experiences.
Pisces is the deepest ocean, they feel emotions deeper than even Scorpio does. It's known they're VERY self-sacrificing, and this gives them reserves of spiritual strength. So when it comes to relationships, once invested their love and care knows no bounds.
When women play their games on such men, they are bound to lose in the human and the emotional realms, particularly if the Pisces man is evolved.
I'm convinced that Pisces has an advantage over all signs, including the other 2 water signs (Scorpio and Cancer), and this is borne from my personal experiences.
Pisces is the deepest ocean, they feel emotions deeper than even Scorpio does. It's known they're VERY self-sacrificing, and this gives them reserves of spiritual strength. So when it comes to relationships, once invested their love and care knows no bounds.
When women play their games on such men, they are bound to lose in the human and the emotional realms, particularly if the Pisces man is evolved.
Scorpdragon, LOL it doesn't help that I was also a psychology major in college 🙂
The thing with Tauruses are going well so far🙂although our dates can get a little boring.
well from our last convo we made a vow to never talk to each other again.And after the hateful things he said to me he has a lot of nerve to call me up like nothing happened it kind of pissed me off HONESTLY..I was like you got a lot of nerve.." he said he just wanted to know if I was ok"...Im a taurus so once I walk away thats it I dont want anything to do with you especially if you hurt me.I once ignored an ex for 6 years..he would send me e-mails and text we broke up in 2004 I finally responded to him last month.Us bulls tend to hold grudges and cut off all contact .Why would he think that I would care that he was leaving town or about his sister.Im going to block his number.
I mean he has a girlfreind so why is he calling his ex.Pisces men are strange and im trying to stay away from pisces men all together.lol
well from our last convo we made a vow to never talk to each other again.And after the hateful things he said to me he has a lot of nerve to call me up like nothing happened it kind of pissed me off HONESTLY..I was like you got a lot of nerve.." he said he just wanted to know if I was ok"...Im a taurus so once I walk away thats it I dont want anything to do with you especially if you hurt me.I once ignored an ex for 6 years..he would send me e-mails and text we broke up in 2004 I finally responded to him last month.Us bulls tend to hold grudges and cut off all contact .Why would he think that I would care that he was leaving town or about his sister.Im going to block his number.
I mean he has a girlfreind so why is he calling his ex.Pisces men are strange and im trying to stay away from pisces men all together.lol
oh and he hasnt decided if he is going to take the job or not.He isnt even sure if he is leaving town.I felt like he wanted my advice.Which is strange to ask your ex especially so soon after the break up when you are already in a relationship with someone else.
of course I will always "care" for him but from afar.I dont want anything to do with him and from what he told me he felt the same.Actually he was more forceful about us not talking than me in the begging So I was surpised when he called me out of the blue especially considering we just had this convo like 3 weeks ago.Yeah I wont block him.I told him not to call me again.So I dont think he will.Maybe im thinking about it too much oh well it is what it is....
Off topic my Taurus friend just text me and said he misses me and wants to go out for drinks tonight...🙂
Off topic my Taurus friend just text me and said he misses me and wants to go out for drinks tonight...🙂
No Im running through my closet in my brain...lol its 93 degrees here and the heat Index is 105 so whatever it is will be something cool
pisces asides, i think when a tau woman is in a situation with a man who won't go away and who she has difficulty quitting, the problem doesn't lie in the man (as much as) it lies within her. lack of change, not recognizing how selfish we can be, unknowingly pushing (manipulative), controlling...
taurus women are interesting because although it is a fem sign, libra got the fem aspects of venus. we got the "masculine" which tend to manifest negatively when we're with a "weaker" man. i think he may have recognized the good in you in spite of whatever negative traits you exhibited with him.
yo-yo relationships can offer the greatest amount of growth but only if you're open to and prepared for the lesson it's trying to teach you. clearly your friendship was/is important to both of you. it hasn't stopped being important to him and kudos to you for the impression you've made upon him as a friend/lover. but the impression isn't enough to make him stay. i think you both kept trying to go back in hopes of things changing and the key word in that is "change." have you truly changed? on an astro level, my bet would be no. a taurus changing? HA! sure, we're capable of it but it takes time.
IF you want to be done with him, don't concern yourself with why he's doing what he's doing. you can't control what he does, when or how he does it. block him, do whatever you have to do to close all roads to you. problem solved.
IF you want a healthier relationship with him, stop evaluating the relationship based on what he did wrong. sure, he has issues but again, you can't control what he does or how he does it. what you can control is your role in the dysfunction and CLEARLY you have yet to recognize and identify how toxic you can be...you wouldn't be here if you did. once you're able to make the connection, make a promise to yourself to change that behavior. then and only then contact your pisces, apologize for the behavior and let him know that you're working on it. it may take a while for him to recognize this change in you (we condition people to predict "same" in us), but as he comes to realize that you have indeed changed, the way he responds to you will as well. not saying you'll get back together but things will get better between you.
taurus women are interesting because although it is a fem sign, libra got the fem aspects of venus. we got the "masculine" which tend to manifest negatively when we're with a "weaker" man. i think he may have recognized the good in you in spite of whatever negative traits you exhibited with him.
yo-yo relationships can offer the greatest amount of growth but only if you're open to and prepared for the lesson it's trying to teach you. clearly your friendship was/is important to both of you. it hasn't stopped being important to him and kudos to you for the impression you've made upon him as a friend/lover. but the impression isn't enough to make him stay. i think you both kept trying to go back in hopes of things changing and the key word in that is "change." have you truly changed? on an astro level, my bet would be no. a taurus changing? HA! sure, we're capable of it but it takes time.
IF you want to be done with him, don't concern yourself with why he's doing what he's doing. you can't control what he does, when or how he does it. block him, do whatever you have to do to close all roads to you. problem solved.
IF you want a healthier relationship with him, stop evaluating the relationship based on what he did wrong. sure, he has issues but again, you can't control what he does or how he does it. what you can control is your role in the dysfunction and CLEARLY you have yet to recognize and identify how toxic you can be...you wouldn't be here if you did. once you're able to make the connection, make a promise to yourself to change that behavior. then and only then contact your pisces, apologize for the behavior and let him know that you're working on it. it may take a while for him to recognize this change in you (we condition people to predict "same" in us), but as he comes to realize that you have indeed changed, the way he responds to you will as well. not saying you'll get back together but things will get better between you.
Thanks...Tubbyscubby makes a lot of sense 🙂 I needed to hear that I know I have issues and we both have a problem quitting each other and breaking contact it has been this way between us since day 1.I just think that we need some time apart so we can both work on our issues.IDK maybe we can be friends one day but it is just too soon right now.So I think im going to block him for a few months that way he wont text me and start the cycle over again.
Lauren, I know 🙂 Hopefully it wont storm it has been storming everyday too..
if that's what works for you, so be it but truthfully, it doesn't sound like you want him to go away. you do however want the dysfunction to stop...he does too.
the sad part in all this is, if and when you're capable of recognizing what lesson you need to learn through this man, you will be a better woman for it. if you don't, it'll manifest itself with other men as well. if i were you, i'd start thinking about your past arguments and ask yourself, "what was the trigger?" it's never the argument itself. it's not him leaving the toilet seat up for example. what behavior or personality trait (in one word) were each of you exhibiting?
i think you've already alluded to it. you said that he "needed space." "needing space" is a symptom of something. not giving him space is also a symptom. neither of these are the root of the problem. his needing space (resisting something) triggered reactions from you but those reactions were based on your trying to do...what? control?
^whatever behavior you conclude you were exhibiting, i guarantee you exhibited that exact same behavior in subtle ways throughout the relationship....even in good times and that's the problem. that's probably why you haven't recognized it yet and what's funny is, when things go bad in a relationship, even the good time behavior starts to get viewed negatively.
imagine that you're with a virgo. virgos like to "help." in good times, their "helping" is positive. but a lower virgos "help" can be grating overtime. you may become extremely annoyed with it where before, it's what you loved about them. the virgo will feel as if they're doing what they've always done. truth is, what they've "always done" is criticize you. "let me help you with that" sounds great but what if you don't need help? why is this person ALWAYS trying to tell you how you should do things? from how to cook to the way you wear your clothes, they ALWAYS have something negative to say. naturally, you will push back. you'll end up arguing about your right to wear your clothes the way you want when in reality, what you should be discussing is their critical nature.
my point is, stop quibbling about the symptoms and diagnose the disease. once you do that, the healing will begin.
good luck on your date.
the sad part in all this is, if and when you're capable of recognizing what lesson you need to learn through this man, you will be a better woman for it. if you don't, it'll manifest itself with other men as well. if i were you, i'd start thinking about your past arguments and ask yourself, "what was the trigger?" it's never the argument itself. it's not him leaving the toilet seat up for example. what behavior or personality trait (in one word) were each of you exhibiting?
i think you've already alluded to it. you said that he "needed space." "needing space" is a symptom of something. not giving him space is also a symptom. neither of these are the root of the problem. his needing space (resisting something) triggered reactions from you but those reactions were based on your trying to do...what? control?
^whatever behavior you conclude you were exhibiting, i guarantee you exhibited that exact same behavior in subtle ways throughout the relationship....even in good times and that's the problem. that's probably why you haven't recognized it yet and what's funny is, when things go bad in a relationship, even the good time behavior starts to get viewed negatively.
imagine that you're with a virgo. virgos like to "help." in good times, their "helping" is positive. but a lower virgos "help" can be grating overtime. you may become extremely annoyed with it where before, it's what you loved about them. the virgo will feel as if they're doing what they've always done. truth is, what they've "always done" is criticize you. "let me help you with that" sounds great but what if you don't need help? why is this person ALWAYS trying to tell you how you should do things? from how to cook to the way you wear your clothes, they ALWAYS have something negative to say. naturally, you will push back. you'll end up arguing about your right to wear your clothes the way you want when in reality, what you should be discussing is their critical nature.
my point is, stop quibbling about the symptoms and diagnose the disease. once you do that, the healing will begin.
good luck on your date.
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tubbyscubby.I take every relationship as a learning exprience so in time I will find out what I learned from this past relationship.I going to take your advice and do some soul searching and see what I come up with.Im going to give pisces ex some space for now and hopefully he does the same
tubbyscubby.I take every relationship as a learning exprience so in time I will find out what I learned from this past relationship.I going to take your advice and do some soul searching and see what I come up with.Im going to give pisces ex some space for now and hopefully he does the same
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ok I was in a relationship with a pisces and we broke up it wasnt over cheating or anything serious.I admit I tried to tie pisces down when he needed space( bad Idea I know) but anyway this was longest break up ever we stayed in contact and had really bad arguements for like 5 months( I know ridiculous).We werent sleeping together or anything but still talking. I have never been through a more intense break up not even with my last ex who was also a Pisces.( yeah I attract nothing but Pisces and other Tauruses).Well anyway during all of this arguing he started a relationship with his boss.They are still together ( his boss is a scorpio).But during this time he stayed in contact with me calling and texting.Until we would have a huge blow up over something so small.Then we would make up and be friends again and repeat the cycle. Ok well we had the biggest blow up in June of this year.There was horrible name calling back and for accusations like the worst arguement ever.We decided that we would never speak to each other again because we cannot be friends.So anyway a month went by and I was awaken out of my sleep by the phone and just answered without looking to see who it was .You guessed it was Pisces on the other end.So we talked for like three mins.He said that he was wondering about me and told me that he got a job offer and was thinking about moving to another state and talked to me about his family.Very short convo.After the convo ended I text him told him that I think its best that we not talk to each other and that our break up really hurt and That I did not want a friendship with him.Why would he call me out of the blue? The last words he said to me was That he didnt love me anymore and for me to lose all of his contact and to never call him again.This is the first time I followed through so he should have been happy that I moved on so what is his problem? Why cant he just let go and leave me alone. Why stir up old feelings when we have both moved on.I am currently dating and I have my eyes on a few Tauruses right now 🙂 🙂.