What to do about this pisces guy.

So he stares at me a lot in class (we both study the same degree) and when we make eye contact he just holds it even when i look way and look back again (i'm a bit shy). He was also looking when i was talking to the guy sitting next to me.

when he was sitting next to me he randomly started signing some childlike song (the ones you used to sing in nursery school/kindergarten) and i kept looking at him and laughed. then again he randomly tapped on my shoulder and was like " hey look you can see my heart beating from my shirt" and i asked if he was ok and why his heart was beating fast and he said i dont know.

The thing that got me interested in wanting to know him is that he is sympathetic. I was feeling very nervous before a presentation and he gave me some advice and when it was over he asked if I felt better.

So i throught i would return the favor and i texted him first two times and reminded him of due dates (he said he was forgetful), he thanked me two times and when i told him if i find this textbook he wanted, i'll give it to him as well, he told me i'm the best. I messaged him first for the third time to tell him i finally got the book if he still wants it (since the semester is close to its end) he said "hell yeah i want it" and we ended up having a long conversation. He typed a lot and seemed very talkative over text. and when i asked if i was distracting him from studying he said "stop worrying, i can take time out of study to talk to you". so i told him whenever he is free i will give him the textbook and if he wants, we can hang out a bit afterwards.

He said he will message tuesday but tuesday came and he texted and said that he had pulled an all nighter for his exam and he would grab the book off me on thursday. I said he should rest and i cant on thursday cause got other plans. He didn't open the message and its been two weeks i havent heard of him.

Whenever i message he always replies within max of 4 mins. So i dont understand what happened.

We have teased each other and i noticed that he laughs or at least smiles whenever I make silly jokes. When i compliment him he will just turn quiet and smile to himself.

I rarely develop crushes on anyone, but when i do i feel the urge to get to know them and approach them :/

I cant understand if he is not interested or he is just shy?

I will see him this week in class and I keep thinking, when i see him in class, if i get the chance, should i approach him, ask how he is and if he still wants the book? or should i just wait for him to make a move.

any advice is appreciated really. I am unexperienced in dating/crushes/relationships.

details of his chart:

he is a pisces/aquarius dominant, water mutable and i am an aries/aquarius, fire cardinal.

Posted by TheTinMan
Ok #1. I just woke up to see your private message. #2. Let's get on.

First off I wanna say this in my perspective it would probably not be advisable to catch this shy guy out in the open. Because we shy men leads and lives private lives. Yeah I know I might not be making any sense to you or to anybody else whose gonna be reading this but that's just the way it is with shy men. And in class and school of all places, its just not gonna work that way. Trust me I know. You would have to get this guy out of plain view if you expect him to open up and really get down and talk to you. Yeah its hard to know what is on the minds of shy people. You can't read them so don't even try. They are without a doubt hard to understand. How long have you known each other? That also play a factor too.

we worked on a group project together for 4 weeks. talked in class a few times. i don't know him well at all. he caught me off guard by being nice to me and i, stupidly enough, developed feelings lol.

i'm really not sure if he is shy or not. during one of the presentations i remember i noticed his voice shaking but he always tries to hide it. and he seems pretty sociable. can easily have a convo with anyone. so i'm really confused lol. why would say he is shy?

i keep thinking he is not interested thats why he didn't follow up my text but at the same time he was so nice!

Posted by TheTinMan
Also since his time of birth is unknown obviously, the moon sign might not be a hundred percent accurate. Because I for one can't see a Leo moon man being shy like that.

i saw him at the exam venue today actually. pretty sure he saw me as well but i didn't make eye contact cause i was too sleepy to be friendly and responsive. he was wearing his cap backwards... like bad boys do. the first time i met him i actually thought he must be a total player ( by his appearance and mannerisms) and i thought he just stares at everybody in general but i noticed his stare was on me more than usual.

Posted by d0s3r
PISCES MEN DON'T MAKE SENSE

- pisces woman

*cries on the inside*

any advice would be appreciated guys. i will see him tomorrow :/

Knowing Pisces men from first-hand experience dating them (I'm a cancer with my ascendent in pisces also), I would say this is a clear sign that the guy is interested in you. I remember how a love interest of mine used to stare at me ALL THE TIME (we do the same degree at uni too) and always bursted out signing love songs when he's near me -- to me this is the loveliest bit about him, that he always writes the intensity of his feelings on his face.

But also, speaking from my experience, I notice that they withdraw dramatically when they're stressed with works. To Pisces, it is a real struggle to keep up with the true meaning of their emotions because emotions always come as a wave for pisces -- powerfully overwhelming -- both a pro and a con of dating them...

It might be that he just needs a bit of time to unwind from his stress. It is possible that his stress for work and his intense feeling for you is too strong a combination, to an extent that he just can't face all of the package at once, and that he needs his time to sort things out one by one.

Remember that when Pisces is stressed, what they need is to go into their personal space and keep private so that they can slowly untangle things for good purpose.

Maybe kindly smile at him tomorrow at class, but don't stress him on the book unless he shows signs of mentioning it. Be sure that an innocent pisces will always show his attentions when it comes to the girl that he wants -- if he doesn't, it might be that 1) he's not that interested [from the sounding of your case, I doubt this possibility] or 2) he's just low on his energy/ emotion load, and that he needs recharging.

Posted by 135CRG
Knowing Pisces men from first-hand experience dating them (I'm a cancer with my ascendent in pisces also), I would say this is a clear sign that the guy is interested in you. I remember how a love interest of mine used to stare at me ALL THE TIME (we do the same degree at uni too) and always bursted out signing love songs when he's near me -- to me this is the loveliest bit about him, that he always writes the intensity of his feelings on his face.

But also, speaking from my experience, I notice that they withdraw dramatically when they're stressed with works. To Pisces, it is a real struggle to keep up with the true meaning of their emotions because emotions always come as a wave for pisces -- powerfully overwhelming -- both a pro and a con of dating them...

It might be that he just needs a bit of time to unwind from his stress. It is possible that his stress for work and his intense feeling for you is too strong a combination, to an extent that he just can't face all of the package at once, and that he needs his time to sort things out one by one.

Remember that when Pisces is stressed, what they need is to go into their personal space and keep private so that they can slowly untangle things for good purpose.

Maybe kindly smile at him tomorrow at class, but don't stress him on the book unless he shows signs of mentioning it. Be sure that an innocent pisces will always show his attentions when it comes to the girl that he wants -- if he doesn't, it might be that 1) he's not that interested [from the sounding of your case, I doubt this possibility] or 2) he's just low on his energy/ emotion load, and that he needs recharging.

Thanks so much for ur insight on the matter. ❤️ I will just smile at him then 🙂)

Posted by confusedaries7513
So he stares at me a lot in class (we both study the same degree) and when we make eye contact he just holds it even when i look way and look back again (i'm a bit shy). He was also looking when i was talking to the guy sitting next to me.

when he was sitting next to me he randomly started signing some childlike song (the ones you used to sing in nursery school/kindergarten) and i kept looking at him and laughed. then again he randomly tapped on my shoulder and was like " hey look you can see my heart beating from my shirt" and i asked if he was ok and why his heart was beating fast and he said i dont know.

The thing that got me interested in wanting to know him is that he is sympathetic. I was feeling very nervous before a presentation and he gave me some advice and when it was over he asked if I felt better.

So i throught i would return the favor and i texted him first two times and reminded him of due dates (he said he was forgetful), he thanked me two times and when i told him if i find this textbook he wanted, i'll give it to him as well, he told me i'm the best. I messaged him first for the third time to tell him i finally got the book if he still wants it (since the semester is close to its end) he said "hell yeah i want it" and we ended up having a long conversation. He typed a lot and seemed very talkative over text. and when i asked if i was distracting him from studying he said "stop worrying, i can take time out of study to talk to you". so i told him whenever he is free i will give him the textbook and if he wants, we can hang out a bit afterwards.

He said he will message tuesday but tuesday came and he texted and said that he had pulled an all nighter for his exam and he would grab the book off me on thursday. I said he should rest and i cant on thursday cause got other plans. He didn't open the message and its been two weeks i havent heard of him.

Whenever i message he always replies within max of 4 mins. So i dont understand what happened.

We have teased each other and i noticed that he laughs or at least smiles whenever I make silly jokes. When i compliment him he will just turn quiet and smile to himself.

I rarely develop crushes on anyone, but when i do i feel the urge to get to know them and approach them :/

I cant understand if he is not interested or he is just shy?

I will see him this week in class and I keep thinking, when i see him in class, if i get the chance, should i approach him, ask how he is and if he still wants the book? or should i just wait for him to make a move.

any advice is appreciated really. I am unexperienced in dating/crushes/relationships.

details of his chart:

he is a pisces/aquarius dominant, water mutable and i am an aries/aquarius, fire cardinal.

If he is like me then he's a shy guy.

About did not replying you, if he is like me maybe he is in depressed mood/kinda down mood so he is slow doing anything or he stay with his family while his phone are in bed or something and he just see ur message so he late replying you(I do that many time anyway).

And if he is like me then.

All you have to do is be friend with him, shower him with special affection you did not show to other man. Show him you care, you love him, you interested in him.

But dont say it, so if actually he didn't feel it with you, you did not hurt too much.

If he feel it, he will say "love" to you himself.

That just my opinion by the way.

Follow it at your own risk. 🙂 (because I know people are different no matter what is their sign).

thanks so much for your advice 🙂 greatly appreciated

i tried not to look at him in class but then i caught him staring at me for a split second :/ so in order to make myself feel better i just went up and talked to him, and i was like "oh i forgot the book, but you're not gonna use it anyways we have so much stuff due this week" and he was like yeah im gonna finish blah then need to go to a 21st tonight. N i was like ok.

he is really mood. can't figure him out.