Wut 2 Do

So, I've posted a few times on here talking about a Pisces guy who initially brushed me off then suddenly started to pursue me. I think he's a psychopath. I approached him in a bar because he's very attractive to me but the more time I've been spending time with him I realized I never met a guy so delusional. He's clingy, which I like too an extent, but he's also possessive and controlling. The only positive thing is the attention he gives whenever I feel lonely and it's instant gratification.

(Pisces, moon in Gemini, Mercury in Pisces, Mars in Taurus, Venus in Aquarius)

..HOWEVER, I've been consistently talking to Libra who I finally got to see. I've bailed on him too many times because I get anxious at the thought of him. Ugh, I suck. He's been incredibly patient with that and keeps his emotions in check. The conversations we have in person are very very awkward and dull but I don't know if that's just both of our anxieties intertwining. He grabbed my hand and snuggled me in the movies which was nostalgic and took me back to younger days. It almost feels like a friendship is slowly building but I'm still very much attracted to him. He told me he hasn't been close to anyone in awhile so his body language sucks but he likes me. I'm just afraid that it's not nervousness and instead, a lack of chemistry. It's overall pleasant with him.

(Libra, moon in Sag, Mercury in Libra, Mars in Cancer, Venus in Scorpio)

So should I completely drop the Pisces and focus my attention solely to Libra dude, or just try to go with the flow?

Venus in retrograde sucks.

Posted by aquanib
Kick both of them to the curb.....LOL

But then I won't have anyone to talk to..... haha ?

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Posted by libralotus

Posted by aquanib
Kick both of them to the curb.....LOL

But then I won't have anyone to talk to..... haha ?

What is it specifically about the Pisces that you don't like? "Psychopath" doesn't seem to be a term you're using seriously...but from what you said about the libra, if there's no spark right away it probably is lack of chemistry...is he just your back up guy? How invested are you in the Pisces anyway? For what you've said it doesn't sound like you care for either of them much

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Pisces just overreacts to everything. I feel like he has normal emotions but it's melodramatic. He constantly wants to be with me and gets offended if I don't want to see him. I like him... he's just explosive.

I feel like there's a subtle spark with the Libra though. After I met him for the first time I didn't think I'd hear from him again so I was surprised when he asked me to get coffee. To be fair, I don't express my feelings for him very well in person. He wanted to walk me to my car, but I insisted it wasn't necessary and he said he took it as a "nevermind." I think we're both a little awkward.

If you don't mind me asking.. what's your Venus sign?

The Pisces has a Venus in Aquarius..? I don't understand the emotional thing, but I know he will be a tad bitch detached and when he wants your attention, he'll come full force. It's like when a robot malfunctions... the emotions will spill over, until he gets a grip on His emotions again and then he'll detach.

As far as the Libra, subtle chemistry to me is the best... when you can feel the sexual tension.

Which one do you like better?

P.S. You don't have to talk to anyone ma'am, it's cool just vibing.

Posted by arose32
If you don't mind me asking.. what's your Venus sign?

The Pisces has a Venus in Aquarius..? I don't understand the emotional thing, but I know he will be a tad bitch detached and when he wants your attention, he'll come full force. It's like when a robot malfunctions... the emotions will spill over, until he gets a grip on His emotions again and then he'll detach.

As far as the Libra, subtle chemistry to me is the best... when you can feel the sexual tension.

Which one do you like better?

P.S. You don't have to talk to anyone ma'am, it's cool just vibing.

I'm a libra sun

Libra moon

Libra Mercury

Leo mars

Virgo Venus.

I never noticed that with Venus in Aquarius until you said that. He detaches and reattaches so spradically I can't keep up. I know an Aquarius with this placement too and he was sorta the same way ?

I like the Libra and could see us having potentional. It's just super slow paced which I don't think is a bad thing... it would suck if I end up wasting my time

I think I'll just roll with it

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Posted by aquanib
Kick both of them to the curb.....LOL

But then I won't have anyone to talk to..... haha ?

What is it specifically about the Pisces that you don't like? "Psychopath" doesn't seem to be a term you're using seriously...but from what you said about the libra, if there's no spark right away it probably is lack of chemistry...is he just your back up guy? How invested are you in the Pisces anyway? For what you've said it doesn't sound like you care for either of them much

Pisces just overreacts to everything. I feel like he has normal emotions but it's melodramatic. He constantly wants to be with me and gets offended if I don't want to see him. I like him... he's just explosive.

I feel like there's a subtle spark with the Libra though. After I met him for the first time I didn't think I'd hear from him again so I was surprised when he asked me to get coffee. To be fair, I don't express my feelings for him very well in person. He wanted to walk me to my car, but I insisted it wasn't necessary and he said he took it as a "nevermind." I think we're both a little awkward.

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Sounds like he has borderline personality disorder. Dump his sorry ass. No time for that. Dont forget to tell him he has it too.

Posted by aquanib
Pisses dude has horrid placements LOL.

You insult him by not giving attention back to him, insult his pisses sun and fickly gemini moon which gets insecure, his pisses mercury feels you feel it awkward and prevents his venus to take the plunge and he detaches as a result.

His venus is also easily distracted if theres a deficit of affirmative signals from you. Which i'm guessing there is.....

Sounds like a mess LOL

They way you describe that, makes me want to give you my placements and see what little description you come up with..

☺️☺️☺️

Posted by libralotus
I think he's a psychopath.

Woah, you weren't joking when you said you suck. People are out of control with labels entirely.

I notice you have a Libra moon so I suggest you take the solid approach here and go for drama since that's what you crave.

Yeah I won't lie... Venus in Aquarius are stupid detached and I say that because I am... but I'm a Sagittarius sun, idk about the Pisces sun. He has a Gemini moon also, so good luck with that one. He's all over the place.

And the Libra, is detached also... they can detach just as easily for Sure.

But Libra and Gemini moon should'ne be too bad?

Which one you think you could see yourself dealing with longer? On a healthier scale?

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Posted by libralotus
I think he's a psychopath.

Woah, you weren't joking when you said you suck. People are out of control with labels entirely.

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I suck because I used a label, or maybe exaggerated a little? What do you think astrology is? People put people in boxes for a reason.

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Posted by libralotus
I think he's a psychopath.

Woah, you weren't joking when you said you suck. People are out of control with labels entirely.

I suck because I used a label, or maybe exaggerated a little? What do you think astrology is? People put people in boxes for a reason.

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Calling someone a psychopath is not exaggerating a little. You could tarnish someone's reputation with it as opposed to calling someone a Pisces.

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Posted by libralotus
I think he's a psychopath.

Woah, you weren't joking when you said you suck. People are out of control with labels entirely.

I suck because I used a label, or maybe exaggerated a little? What do you think astrology is? People put people in boxes for a reason.

Calling someone a psychopath is not exaggerating a little. You could tarnish someone's reputation with it as opposed to calling someone a Pisces.

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I'm not tarnishing anyone's reputation because his identity isn't enclosed. Back off

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Posted by libralotus
I think he's a psychopath.

Woah, you weren't joking when you said you suck. People are out of control with labels entirely.

I suck because I used a label, or maybe exaggerated a little? What do you think astrology is? People put people in boxes for a reason.

Calling someone a psychopath is not exaggerating a little. You could tarnish someone's reputation with it as opposed to calling someone a Pisces.

I'm not tarnishing anyone's reputation because his identity isn't enclosed. Back off

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I think you meant "disclosed" (sorry Virgo Moon).

I think you have the age ol' dilemma of choosing between the "wild man" vs. "nice guy". Pisces guy has a temper and is erratic, but you find him physically attractive. He also has that inexplicable "it" quality that you crave. Pisces guy is direct and unapologetic regarding his feelings for you. He's also not easily controlled. In some way you find his delusional, devil may care attitude attractive. He fascinates you in some way, plus you like his attention.

The concern is that you labeled Pisces a psychopath. Exaggeration aside, you're already aware that he's clingy and has an explosive temper. This type of temperament could result in him being a stalker or even an abusive boyfriend. Probably not the best option. It's safe to say the longer you stick around him, the more possessive/jealous he will become. He's already showing you how he'll act around you.

Libra guy sounds nice, though bit awkward. I suggest going for him if you like him. I can already tell that he's doing a few things that could turn you off down the line so hopefully that will change. You seem comfortable with him though and you also seem to understand his potential awkwardness. Sounds like this guy may speak your language and is probably worth pursuing.

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Posted by libralotus
I think he's a psychopath.

Woah, you weren't joking when you said you suck. People are out of control with labels entirely.

I suck because I used a label, or maybe exaggerated a little? What do you think astrology is? People put people in boxes for a reason.

Calling someone a psychopath is not exaggerating a little. You could tarnish someone's reputation with it as opposed to calling someone a Pisces.

I'm not tarnishing anyone's reputation because his identity isn't enclosed. Back off

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Nope, made a topic...you will get answers you don't like. Deal with it.