...If they are going to be so freaking not the people to stand up to scorp in the right way? I think this zodiac connection between pisces and scorp is rather unfortunate! I mean, if there is a pisces man in the room he'll move really fast across the room to come and look into my eyes and ask me out right away. That's all cool, but then he'll invariably do something that is just not attractive to me. Somehow I don't like the way most pisces men talk to me. They either talk a lot and can be forward or don't say anything to me and flake off only to reemerge later on. But man are they persistent! But time and time again things just don't work out between me and the pisces men. For friends they are fantastic, but when they want more they just can't seem to get it straight with me... Any thoughts on this, pisces men? Am I missing something in the picture? Would greatly appreciate it 🙂
WHY ARE PISCES ATTRACTED TO SCORP IF THEY ARE GOIN
As a Pisces, I don't get the men either. Yes, they can be very straight forward and persistant. But like most Pisces, if the challenge is gone then it won't sustain our interest. Pisces are attracted to mysterious people, people who intrigue and fasinate us. For me, if my mind isn't working up a sweat about you, then I'll loose interest.
Well, but working up a sweat is one thing, but since I am not interested in them sexually somehow they keep on being interested in me, which can get annoying. I am starting to get a feeling that since I have a Moon Taurus I need someone who is powerful as me. They can be stubborn but truthful. But with a risk to really sound like I am all about the physical aspect, the pisces guys don't turn me on the way I would like to be turned on. They are fascinated and can even say something really direct, but there is this softness about them that tires me after a while. But then again I don't like macho men, Leo men for that matter. So where is the freaking middle ground?
That's fascinating, ldybg! Cause pisces guys must have a huge radar for me somehow. But I do agree that scorp men can be very crude or just plain to intense for normal interaction.
SOC,
We are walking contridictions. We like it hot and fast, slow and torturous. We can lie in wait to see which part of us gets activated first. You don't show an interest, we'll bounce.
We are walking contridictions. We like it hot and fast, slow and torturous. We can lie in wait to see which part of us gets activated first. You don't show an interest, we'll bounce.
When I mentioned working up a sweat, I meant mentally. We don't generally get classified as intellectual beings, especially not the men. Then again, the men are referred to as the "whores of the zodiac." I know 3 Pisces men, they are all crazy, obssessive sex hounds.
Yes we are refered to as the whores of the zodiacs, and that hurts 😢 lol - I want to know why the moment a girl hears I'm a pisces, she INSTANTLY classifies me as a cheater.I don't hear them ranting and raving about the infidelity of ARIES men, or even SAGGI'S !!!
Its always the sensitive fish, who gets the blame 😢
Its always the sensitive fish, who gets the blame 😢

I am having the exact same problem with my Pisces. I am a triple scorpio. Yes, they can be very passive and frustrating and elusive. And the softness can be seen as weakness at first but right now, it's why I love him so much. you just have to understand that even though they like the strength of the scorp, they need to be finessed and allowed to play their cat and mouse games. And as for the silences, I think they are silent when they dont know how to put thier feelings into words. I think feelings overwhelm them and they cant interpret them, so they just clam up. but eventually, they come around back up to the surface and they are thier wonderful selves again.

"they like the strength of the scorp" You hit the nail on the head, Destinyschild. At least to why the male fishes are attracted to you. Maybe even the females, too.
We like strong people and gravitate towards them, it seems. Just floating all around, gravitating here, and there, over the other way, around the corner . . looking for something interesting. lol I guess that's why they say we are wishy-washy, lol
My son is a Scorpio and though, it's not the same kind of relationship you are talking about . . still, I can see where he gets frustrated easier with all the Pisces in the family, compared to others. Looking at him, my brother and father (all Scorps), the one factor that they all seem to share . . is their desire to be with someone who is confident about themselves and their endeavors. Someone with determination and will-power.
We like strong people and gravitate towards them, it seems. Just floating all around, gravitating here, and there, over the other way, around the corner . . looking for something interesting. lol I guess that's why they say we are wishy-washy, lol
My son is a Scorpio and though, it's not the same kind of relationship you are talking about . . still, I can see where he gets frustrated easier with all the Pisces in the family, compared to others. Looking at him, my brother and father (all Scorps), the one factor that they all seem to share . . is their desire to be with someone who is confident about themselves and their endeavors. Someone with determination and will-power.
Evo Fish,
Yeah, I got down with an Aries man only to find out later he was married after he swore up and down he wasn't.
Take heart, don't let the "whore" label get you down.
Yeah, I got down with an Aries man only to find out later he was married after he swore up and down he wasn't.
Take heart, don't let the "whore" label get you down.

Im a scorp with taurus moon,sagittarius venus and leo mars,my pisces boyfriend also has a taurus moon,aries venus and an aqua mars so im not relating to this convo personally actually.I like thier low key mannerisms and such so long as it doesn't fall into annoying constant insecurities that could be draining.Low key dudes are by far better than dudes who act hard and turn out to be little pussies.Even other pisces guys that I don't know thier other planets will hold thier ground if actual(not superficial) needs be...you just can't expect them to fit into some mold of strength cause they will disappoint you there.In my opinion they're middle ground over cancers most of the times.Cancers can just get in a mood only to take it out on you,a pisces you'll generally have to do something(or maybe other peoples doings) to get them in those moods.
this is the first time ever that i'm dating a pisces [i'm a female scorpio]. from some reason, most of my life i assumed them to be very weak and negative. funny, considering my best friend all through highschool and my sister are both pisces and we get along the best. when we first started seeing each other i felt that he was too wishy washy and didn't have opinions strong enough for us to have any interesting conversations. pretty quickly though i realized that he is just more subtle in expressing himself. i think that if he weren't so persistent in the beginning this wouldn't have worked out. i was totally not into it, not as much as he was and it only made him try harder, which i appreciated i guess because in a couple of weeks it would be a year. sometimes i notice him trailing off, getting distracted and going into himself and i guess it's just something i got used to [for the most part] by realizing this is just the way he is and i should just let him be, he'll come back on his own.
Kinderk, I also have a bunch of friends who are pisces whom I appreciate very much, even though they can be elusive as well, yet that doesn't seem to bother me. And when I started this discussion I should have said that pisces are my favorite sign of all, because they just calm me down and have a most soothing watery feeling to them. But water can run through your fingers... One pisces guy won my heart fair and square by being so persistent and I do respect him for that. Even though things didn't work out when I think of him I have a smile on my face, which is more I can say about a lot of guys who have just acted in ways that don't warrant respect.
But the fact that some pisces guys don't call right away even though they like a person is very irritating. Jeez, if the woman is not that interested, not calling can just stop her in her tracks.
But the fact that some pisces guys don't call right away even though they like a person is very irritating. Jeez, if the woman is not that interested, not calling can just stop her in her tracks.
Oh no, baby, we like to be chased and will give you a ride of your life or disappoint the hell out of you. If you got some tasty bait and a sharp hook we make you work for our shit. Hey, fishing a sport, not a just a meal served up on a plate. Somebody had to capture it to serve it.
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