you exemplify the term fish

lmao i have a pisces guy thats so fishy its annoying yet charming.. so hard to keep in one place always swimming aimlessly with swift movements.. ive recently figured out how to deal with my pisces guy .. let him be .. when i withhold affection or move away from him a bit he follows me and gives me the world and everything i need.. it gets tiring though :-/

lol aha.. but the cancer in me is very protective and wants to hang on to him , therein lies my dilemma.. i have to stop getting that urge to fix everything .. and thats very hard lol im queen of the puppy dog face and guilt trips.. argh its so hard

We're definitely funny creatures in terms of understanding this trait in us ..

"always swimming aimlessly with swift movements"
"when i withhold affection or move away from him a bit he follows me"

Perhaps, this might shed some light on it .. we don't necessarily attach ourselves to people, at first, rather, the search for finding another who will allow us to "feel" our way through life .. we appear as though we are aimlessly flapping around because our search to feel another person is everywhere, with every person, animal .. sometimes, I even go outside to connect to the trees. It appears directionless, but, it's not. Our aim is there, it's just unseen, unspoken, unaware to anybody other than our own sense of consciousness .. we live for this, this nurtures our life force.

Then we find another, such as yourself, to whom we feel connected .. however, we still have to feel all the emotions around us, and when you move away from him with intentions in your mind of giving him space to let him be .. he senses that this special emotional bond with the person he connected to is moving away, rather than the person itself, so he follows it. And since he is also a physical person, he will shower you will attention again, because he knows that other people live more on the outside, than the inside, so showering you with your needs on the outside is what he comprehends is your needs to feel loved.

I know that sounds crazy .. but, that is how we are. When we hook up with a person, it matters not anything about the outside of the person, or the ego .. how much money someone has, what they look like .. none of it. We connect to the soul of a person and when you pull away, he may not even be comprehending that your physical body is far away, rather the energy of your soul.

"You spot things that you tried to explain to your partner, but couldn't get the right words at the right time."


Isn't that frustrating?

This should be our guide .. wonder how our partners would take it when we're suppose to be in the midst of a heart-felt conversation and we tell them to hold that thought while we research our answers on dxp?

You're a cancer huh... i will give you a bit of advice.

Dont do the guilt trip thing too much. my mom is a cancer and she guilt trips me for everything and has been for twenty four years and im all out of sympathy for her. if she were my man, i'd have left her a long long time ago.

guilt trips are acts of selfishness i think because it's usually just to get your way about something. BELIEVE ME. a fish might hang around and put up with it for a little while but eventually, he's going to think that you are manipulating him and trying to hurt him and he will be swimming away.

but im sure you wont do that forever to him like my mother. She's just dramatic as all hell

Fishy

Fervent
Impassioned
SLIPPERY!!! *rolls eyes*
Hearty
Yummy....mmm.

As an Aries I sympathize with you's guys. It's tough to believe in that which cannot be presented as cold, hard evidence. And when you're out and about with him / her you feel like you're just pretending everything's okay. Like you're suspicious of what's going on in their head so you pull back and everything turns to shit.

yep.