A Libra gal & Cancer man ..HELP

Well I started seeing this cancer man a few days ago. I met him off Plentyoffish. We met for the first time Friday night, and since then he tells me he can't get me off his mind. He is MORE than willing to tell me how he feels, and to my knowledge thats not a "typical" cancer man. He is always texting my cell, and telling me how I have been on his mind all day and I am all he can think about. He is moving real fast, and I am not sure how to feel to this. We both are going through a divorce. Mine was of 10 years and was final last week. No kids. His won't be final till Jan, and he has a 1 year old with this woman. She cheated on him 3 times, and was torn and hurt. He told me they have been split for 6 months and in this time he has got all of it out of his system with the whole ego boost of dating different women. He said he had his ideal woman in mind and thought I wasn't out there till I came along. Since Friday he has asked me to stay a few days with him, and even went as far as getting me ticket today to his Work dinner. I am scared of how fast he is going, and not sure which way to go from here. Do you think he is being real? Is he just on a rebound mode? What should I do? Should I go stay a few days and see how it goes? I do like him so far, and his eyes I could get lost in. This guy is a Tim Mcgraw look a like I swear it is to the point it's scary and that makes his sexiness go into overdrive with me. What should I do guys? Why is he moving so fast?

He could really have met the woman of his dreams and wants to make the most of it, but if it was me I would be thinking it was too soon for him-(6months?),it would look like a rebound to me,unless his marriage was emotionally over long time ago. I am a libra and I had a long term relationship with a cancer,he opened up a year into our relationship,I used to think even if I did spend 10 yrs with him-I would never get him,cos he's not expressive and keeps everything bottled up. But they are very loving and loyal.

I don't think Air + Water are a good combination. I hear more bad than good of these matches. Try an Aquarius or Gemini.

Same here I am a Libra and I am feeling something for a Cancer man.... and I am at a loss for words

if he's looking for sex, they're great for sex.

but for dating, they seem way too smothering. and emotional. and girly.

In my experience, Cancer men get kind of obsessive about Libra. I had one that couldn't even talk to me, just stare in wonder. The other, he tells me all sorts of things about marrying me and all kinds of bull that just to get me in the sack. I know, because I've been in the sack with him and it doesn't materialize into anything more than a good time. He just keeps it at that, with the same girly overtures.

I don't recommend you see him anymore - just by the tone of your own language. He is scaring you. He is moving too fast. If you can't slow him down, get out. Your red flags, not mine.

Posted by a muse a libra
In my experience, Cancer men get kind of obsessive about Libra.

i had one stalk me for a while. he was insane. luckily, he had no idea where i lived or my last name or anything. no email. no facebook or myspace or anything like that. but he called me. and he texted me. a ton. and the things he said were seriously obscene. total creep.

plus, he kept accusing me of being racist. like, yeah, insulting me will totally get me to date you. of course.