A Libra gal & Cancer man ..HELP

This topic was created in the Libra forum by libragal76 on Monday, December 1, 2008 and has 10 replies.

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@libragal76
17 YearsCapricorn

Well I started seeing this cancer man a few days ago. I met him off Plentyoffish. We met for the first time Friday night, and since then he tells me he can't get me off his mind. He is MORE than willing to tell me how he feels, and to my knowledge thats not a "typical" cancer man. He is always texting my cell, and telling me how I have been on his mind all day and I am all he can think about. He is moving real fast, and I am not sure how to feel to this. We both are going through a divorce. Mine was of 10 years and was final last week. No kids. His won't be final till Jan, and he has a 1 year old with this woman. She cheated on him 3 times, and was torn and hurt. He told me they have been split for 6 months and in this time he has got all of it out of his system with the whole ego boost of dating different women. He said he had his ideal woman in mind and thought I wasn't out there till I came along. Since Friday he has asked me to stay a few days with him, and even went as far as getting me ticket today to his Work dinner. I am scared of how fast he is going, and not sure which way to go from here. Do you think he is being real? Is he just on a rebound mode? What should I do? Should I go stay a few days and see how it goes? I do like him so far, and his eyes I could get lost in. This guy is a Tim Mcgraw look a like I swear it is to the point it's scary and that makes his sexiness go into overdrive with me. What should I do guys? Why is he moving so fast?

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@thelibran
20 Years1,000+ Posts

cancer and cappy men chase a libra or aries gal(which happens everywhere, all the time) purely out of fascination and not bcoz they understand you as what you are and appreciate your nature.

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@JOJOJO
18 Years500+ Posts

Cancer takes the shot and Libra grabs the REBOUND. He's lonely, hurt, unsure, NOT READY.... I'm taking you out of the game, nice rebound though...

The Libran is on point

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@libragal76
17 YearsCapricorn

Well I can see your point hun. He keeps telling me that i'm like his addiction or something. LOL ..But sucks for me 😢( ...I was starting to like this man!

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Sorry honeybee I am going to say give this one a pass too. This seems WAY too soon and WAY too much baggage. He probably sees you as his saviour or something to distract him from the pain of what he is going through.

😢

sucks

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@libragal76
17 YearsCapricorn

ArGH!!! yeah it does suck lol. But I wanted a honest opinion and I got it..Thanks guys. Although, I have nothing to lose in this. I am pretty guarded as well, so I might give it a go!